The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics27 Maj 2024

BDSM, kink, Femdom and pop culture with Edge Play author and journalist Jane Boon

The conversation starts out with the enduring fascination with “bad girls” - the women who are non-traditional, often sex workers or women that claim their social and/or sexual autonomy.

Jane talks about the role of sex and sex workers in shaping the culture … especially in terms of fetish wear going mainstream with leather and latex being featured in couture lines. Fashion is never “only” about covering the body.

The ladies all talk about how their personal and professional experiences with kink have changed them.

Conversation includes:
** the Paradox of BDSM: pain is pleasure, bondage is freedom, etc.
** dominant or powerful women who tend to have a thirst for knowledge and want to grow as people
** the very particular skills of a Pro Domme, whether as an in person Dominatrix or Distance Domination (and phone sex).
** the relationship between submissive and Dominant
** consent
** merging the personal and professional in erotic spaces
** the role of money - in society, in relationships, as a symbol of power
** and so much more.

This episode uses quotes from the BDSM book, Edge Play to explore the nuances of culture, societal roles, and more.

Edge Play by Jane Boonhttps://www.janeboon.com/
Twitter: @JaneEBoon

Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

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