047: Balance of Attraction: Simple Thoughts on Dating for Men and Women by Crew Spence with The Minimalists

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3560: James Altucher distills decades of hard-won wisdom into seven powerful rules for a richer, more resilient life. From eliminating toxic influences to mastering reinvention, his insights challenge conventional thinking and empower listeners to take full responsibility for their personal growth and happiness. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://archive.jamesaltucher.com/blog/top-seven-rules/ Quotes to ponder: "Nobody is going to solve your problems. You are not a precious little flower. You are the gardener." "Every day you need to wake up and say, ‘Who do I choose to be today?’" "If someone drains you every time you talk to them, delete." Episode references: Reinvent Yourself: https://www.amazon.com/Reinvent-Yourself-James-Altucher/dp/1541137132 The Power of No: https://www.amazon.com/Power-No-Because-Yes-Your/dp/1401945872 Choose Yourself: https://www.amazon.com/Choose-Yourself-James-Altucher/dp/1490313370 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12 Apr 11min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3559: Keith Wilson explores the overlooked power of stillness in a world that celebrates hustle, achievement, and noise. Through timeless wisdom and modern-day relevance, he illustrates how cultivating inner peace can unlock clarity, strength, and a more meaningful life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/change-becomes-you/seeking-stillness-2765447bba6a Quotes to ponder: "Stillness is not about inactivity, it’s about presence." "It’s in stillness that we can hear the whispers of wisdom, truth, and clarity." "We are always reacting, always on, always responding. But stillness invites us to observe before we act." Episode references: Meditations by Marcus Aurelius: https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Penguin-Classics-Marcus-Aurelius/dp/0140449337 The Daily Stoic: https://dailystoic.com Tao Te Ching by Lao Tzu: https://www.amazon.com/Tao-Te-Ching-Lao-Tzu/dp/1590305469 Stillness Is the Key: https://www.amazon.com/Stillness-Key-Ryan-Holiday/dp/0525538585 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11 Apr 11min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3558: Jill Coleman shares seven transformative insights on creating a life of happiness, personal freedom, and sustainable productivity by shifting mindset, releasing perfectionism, and trusting yourself more. These reflections encourage a deeper sense of self-awareness and help you let go of external validation in favor of internal peace. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://jillfit.com/2012/05/07/7-insights-happiness-personal-freedom-productivity/ Quotes to ponder: "I used to think that if I could just do everything perfectly, I would be happy. But I’ve learned that perfectionism is the enemy of happiness." "Discipline is not about restriction. It’s about freedom." "When you start trusting yourself, things get really quiet and peaceful inside." Episode references: The Four Agreements: https://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424319 The Gifts of Imperfection: https://www.amazon.com/Gifts-Imperfection-Think-Supposed-Embrace/dp/159285849X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

10 Apr 10min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3557: Joshua Becker explores how confidence is less about innate talent and more about deliberate practice and mindset. By focusing on preparation, embracing discomfort, and shifting internal narratives, he offers practical strategies to cultivate authentic self-assurance and overcome self-doubt. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.becomingminimalist.com/how-to-be-more-confident/ Quotes to ponder: "Confidence is not a personality trait or a fixed attribute, it is a skill that can be developed." "We become more confident when we prepare, practice, and embrace discomfort." "Changing the narrative we tell ourselves may be the most powerful step in building confidence." Episode references: The Gifts of Imperfection: https://www.amazon.com/Gifts-Imperfection-Think-Supposed-Embrace/dp/159285849X The Confidence Code: https://www.amazon.com/Confidence-Code-Science-Self-Assurance-What-Should/dp/006223062X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

9 Apr 11min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3556: Choosing to step away from the relentless culture of busyness requires intentionality. Julianna Poplin challenges the automatic urge to fill our schedules, urging us to examine our motives, set clear boundaries, and pause before saying yes. By consciously opting for a slower pace, we reclaim time for what truly matters, whether that’s family, rest, or simply enjoying life’s little moments. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://nosidebar.com/culture-of-busy/ Quotes to ponder: "It’s not that we are already busy. It’s that we don’t want to become busy, and that’s why we don’t do these extra things. We are intentionally un-busy." "We sign onto things without knowing why we are doing them. We go with the flow of what other parents do, what friends do, or what our family does without stopping to ask questions." "The world will fill your schedule up until you’re drained and exhausted. Choosing to let go of busyness will mean you get used to saying no and saying it often." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

8 Apr 10min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3555: Minimalism isn’t about having a perfectly curated aesthetic, it’s about removing distractions to focus on what truly matters. Anthony Ongaro shares ten simple guidelines for embracing a minimalist lifestyle, emphasizing decluttering before organizing, letting go of the pursuit of things, and detaching self-worth from possessions. Whether you’re new to minimalism or refining your approach, these insights make intentional living feel more achievable. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.breakthetwitch.com/minimalism-guidelines/ Quotes to ponder: "It doesn’t need to cost you anything. Embracing minimalism in your life doesn’t mean buying new things that have a certain minimalistic aesthetic." "Minimalism isn’t a one-time project. What minimalism looks like for you will change as your needs and lifestyle change." "Minimalism isn’t about living an easier life. It may be simple, but it’s not easy." Episode references: Becoming Minimalist: https://www.becomingminimalist.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

7 Apr 9min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3554: A meaningful life isn’t free of struggle, it’s shaped by it. Jeff Goins explores the essential truth that good stories, like good lives, require conflict, sacrifice, and purpose beyond ourselves. Instead of chasing comfort, embracing hardship can lead to the kind of fulfillment that truly lasts. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://goinswriter.com/living-good-story/ Quotes to ponder: "It's only a passing thing, this shadow. Even darkness must pass. A new day will come." "Good stories involve conflict, which is just a nice word for pain. People don't become heroes without sacrifice." "A life that is focused solely on self and one's own happiness ultimately ends up being shallow and unsatisfying." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Apr 9min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3553: Good advice isn’t one-size-fits-all, yet we often forget this when seeking guidance. Colin Wright challenges the idea of universal advice, emphasizing that personal context, skills, experiences, and circumstances, plays a crucial role in what actually works. Instead of following a rigid formula, he suggests focusing on adaptable principles that align with individual strengths and realities. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://exilelifestyle.com/the-relativism-of-advice/ Quotes to ponder: "This advice is applicable to me, the author/blogger/columnist. If you are exactly like me in every way, this will probably work pretty well for you. Otherwise, results will vary." "Definitive advice is often faulty from the outset. Not because the people divvying it out are scam-artists, not because the people receiving the advice are no-talent dreamers, but because the conversation the two are having isn’t the one they should be having." "The world is full of advice, and much of it is useful in the right hands, but also essentially worthless to most people." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Apr 9min