Ep 26: BDSM PET PLAY: WHAT IS IT AND WHY DO PEOPLE LIKE IT?

Pizza Delivery for Ellie? What could possibly go wrong? Listen to the 45th episode of Sugar Pussy to find out and learn all about the history of pornography. Ellie talks a lot in this episode. She goes all the way back to 28,000 years ago and looks at the timeline of porn all the way up to what the porn industry is like today. Read Sarah Chadwick's book The Sweetness of Venus: https://www.amazon.com/Sweetness-Venus-History-Clitoris/dp/1736298836 Listen to The Pros and Cons of Porn (Do We Know Things): https://www.doweknowthings.com/episodes/21-pros-and-cons-of-porn Listen to The Butterfly Effect (Jon Ronson): https://www.audible.com/pd/The-Butterfly-Effect-Podcast/B08DDD6299 Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG and Twitter: @its.ellie.rae, @its_ellierae Sources for this episode: “The History of Pornography: From The Paleolithic to Pornhub” https://medium.com/unusual-universe/the-history-of-pornography-from-the-paleolithic-to-pornhub-4123dbeef37e “The Evolution of Pornography” https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/202007/the-evolution-pornography “A brief and incredible history of porn” https://www.dailydot.com/irl/history-of-porn/ “How Has Pornography Changed In The Last 10 Years?” https://fightthenewdrug.org/how-has-porn-changed-in-the-last-10-years/ “The history of OnlyFans: how the controversial platform found success and changed online sex work” https://www.insider.com/what-is-onlyfans-banning-content-work-porn-ban-history-sex-2021-9 “Your Guide To Ethical Porn: What Makes It Different & Where To Find It” https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ethical-porn “THE UNETHICAL HISTORY OF 70’S PORN” https://sexualhealthalliance.com/nymphomedia-blog/the-unethical-history-of-70s-porn “Ethical porn — does it exist and who makes it?” https://www.abc.net.au/news/2016-12-21/ethical-porn-does-it-exist-and-where-do-you-find-it/8091266 “The definition of pornography” https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/porn/etc/definition.html “Making Sense of Modern Pornography” https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2016/09/26/making-sense-of-modern-pornography And of course… https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornographic_magazine https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornographic_film https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornography#History

10 Dec 202146min

Ellie and Paloma talk about the transition or influence that a lack of sex education and sexual openness growing up can have in creating sexuality professionals, discovering personal pleasure, what blocks many women from orgasming, and how Paloma balances working as a sex coach/sexologist and being herself and pursuing passions as a model. Follow Paloma: @awaremoma Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

2 Dec 202131min

Another look into the past to arm yourself against haters, understand the sex industry better, learn cool facts, and more! This week the history is all about seductive ways people have moved their bodies in dance throughout history. Ellie also tells about catching up with a Sugar Daddy she never thought she would see again and tells a story about going to Girls Night Out a few years ago. Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. Sources for this episode: "The History of Stripping" https://www.medicalbag.com/home/features/grey-matter/the-history-of-stripping/ "A Brief History Of The Cancan, France's Famously Raunchy Dance" https://theculturetrip.com/europe/france/articles/a-brief-history-of-the-cancan-frances-famously-raunchy-dance/ "Origin of Stripping" https://vocal.media/filthy/origin-of-stripping "Stripped: A Look Inside the Life & History of Exotic Dancing" https://www.metapsychosis.com/stripped-a-look-inside-the-life-history-of-exotic-dancing/ "Male vs. Female Strippers: What Is The Difference?" https://www.exoticchicagostrippers.com/male-vs-female-strippers-whats-difference/

18 Nov 202133min

Ellie describes exactly what she means by "pleasure body map" and why it is helpful to us humans. She also digresses with the worlds longest penis, erotic museums, and sugar daddy sponsored travel...but back to the important stuff: listen to her map her OWN body for the first time in this episode as an example for how you can do it. Follow along or listen and take notes so you can light up some candles and try it out for yourself. Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

11 Nov 202125min

Ellie goes back in time, all the way back to 3000BC to be specific and goes through the timeline of Prostitution and all its ups and downs. From cutting women's noses off to sex boxes, things get interesting! Also, Ellie did what on their road trip? Find out all this in the first episode of season three!Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspodFollow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.raeFollow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellieraeSources for the episode:The History Of Prostitution in the Worldhttps://www.amsterdamredlightdistricttour.com/history-of-amsterdam/history-of-prostitution/ Historical Timeline; History of Prostitution from 2400 BC to the Presenthttps://prostitution.procon.org/historical-timeline/Beyond The Bedroom: The Surprising History Of Prostitution Around The Worldhttps://allthatsinteresting.com/history-of-prostitution America's Forgotten Mass Imprisonment of Women Believed to Be Sexually Immoralhttps://www.history.com/news/chamberlain-kahn-act-std-venereal-disease-imprisonment-women The Brutal History of Japan’s ‘Comfort Women'https://www.history.com/news/comfort-women-japan-military-brothels-korea

4 Nov 202138min

Wow, what a season! It is so exciting to reach another milestone and celebrate with all things anal sex *gasp*. Tim comes through and not only gives amazing tips for pleasuring our butts but also shares a story that will make you a little less worried about any mishaps you could have exploring anal play...Season 3 is only a few weeks away and full of amazing content Ellie has planned, in the meantime, connect on IG: @its.ellie.rae and on Twitter: @its_ellierae and of course follow the show: @sugarpuspod!Follow Tim's podcast: @sexedwithtimFollow Tim: @gayslutclownSugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

30 Sep 202147min

Ohhhhh HONEY. Ellie has a new bff and he is fabulous, for real. He was SO generous with his time not only did he talk for 60 minutes about coming out (his story, advice, and resources), entering the gay dating scene, sex and sexual expectations, AND his experience as an escort and sugar baby but he also gave Ellie a lesson in Anal...but that is for next week ;). This week: get to know him, fall in love with him, and probably shower him with money hoping he lets you be his new sugar daddy because his personality is as tight as his ass. OH YEAH. I WENT THERE. Please don't hate me, Tim, I couldn't help it.Also, happy bisexual visibility day, lovelies! Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.raeFollow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellieraeFollow the show on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspodSugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

23 Sep 20211h 5min

Ropes turn me on; tie me up Daddy! Shibari, Western Rope Bondage, Cuckolding, and Ellie's sugaring life all make an appearance in this weeks episode of Sugar Pussy. What is Shibari and where did it come from? Can I be tied up and not have to have sex? Is bondage good for you? What are the benefits of bondage and rope play? What is a rope bunny? SO MANY QUESTIONS. Think of this episode as a little, BDSM bondage/shibari 101.Follow Ellie on IG: @elliesugarraeFollow the show on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspodSugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

16 Sep 202124min