How to raise your standards

Weddings. Big birthdays. Work parties. Those BIG social events can be some of the most intimidating moments when you’re going alcohol-free. In fact, sometimes just seeing one in the diary can be enoug...

13 Sep 22min

Have you ever looked back at your drinking days through rose-tinted beer goggles and wondered whether you’re missing out?Even after more than a decade alcohol-free, I still occasionally experience tho...

6 Sep 22min

For a long time, the conversation around alcohol felt incredibly black and white.But what about everyone who sits somewhere in between?Years ago, I started using the term “middle lane” to describe my ...

30 Aug 13min

For most people in what I call the middle lane, changing your relationship with alcohol isn't really about having a drinking problem.It's about having a thinking problem.Over the years, we build belie...

23 Aug 13min

Brad Pitt is reportedly drinking again after around seven years of sobriety, and as you can imagine, everyone has an opinion.So, I thought I'd share mine.For me, this isn't about judging or shaming so...

16 Aug 18min

Moderation sounds like the sensible middle ground. One or two drinks, stay in control, and carry on.But I think there's a problem with that story.For me, moderation means wanting more of something but...

9 Aug 14min

This is one of the hardest truths I've ever had to accept.No one becomes a better person because of a drink.That doesn't mean people who drink are bad people. Far from it. It means alcohol never helps...

29 Juli 17min

What if the secret to transforming your mornings isn't another productivity hack?What if it's removing the one thing that's stealing them in the first place?For years, I believed I didn't have time. I...

22 Juli 25min