74. Transforming FOMO into JOMO: Embrace the Joy of Missing Out

74. Transforming FOMO into JOMO: Embrace the Joy of Missing Out

It's the holidays, and we might be witnessing many of our friends and family doing things that we wish we were doing.

Today, I'm taking you back 15 years to a time when I shoveled driveways one relentless Canadian winter and felt intense FOMO (the fear of missing out).

While I was working in the freezing cold, my friends were enjoying a Hawaiian vacation.

I could have wallowed in feeling resentful, but instead, this experience led to a commitment to prioritize warm winter vacations and prompted a deeper reflection on FOMO.

This week on Therapy Explained, I explore how social media can amplify feelings of inadequacy and stress and how we often compare our real lives to others' curated perfected versions.

It's important to live a life that aligns with our true desires rather than societal expectations.

Instead of FOMO, I propose we embrace JOMO, the 'Joy of Missing Out.' JOMO is all about gratitude and living intentionally.

If you struggle with FOMO, you'll love this week's episode. Listen in and hear...

  • My personal experience with FOMO led me to prioritize joy
  • The reasons why we end up feeling pressured and exhausted by trying to keep up with others
  • What we're really seeing on social media
  • How to embrace a life of JOMO and do the things that truly matter
  • Practical tips for prioritizing our health and well-being by focusing on what we have

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction and a Cold Canadian Winter Story

01:05 Understanding FOMO: The Fear of Missing Out

03:32 Personal Experiences with FOMO

05:44 The Impact of Social Media on FOMO

16:44 Embracing JOMO: The Joy of Missing Out

18:47 Prioritizing What Matters Most

19:34 Practicing Gratitude and Abundance

21:08 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


If you struggle with FOMO, especially at this time of year, get in touch at kimberlyknull.com.

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57. Understanding Empathy: What it IS and what it ISN'T

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Ever been hurting and had someone say, "Just stay positive!" or "Everything happens for a reason?" Those well-meaning words of comfort probably left you feeling dismissed. Why? They didn't convey REAL empathy. Nobody teaches us what real empathy looks like. That's why today, I'm bringing you an empathy masterclass– chock full of things I've learned over the years as a psychologist. Listen in as I break down: The four components of empathy The difference between empathy and sympathy Why the impact your words have matters more than your intention This episode will provide you with the tools you need to "be there" for others in a helpful and comforting way.

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Our kids don't need us to fight their battles. They need to see us face struggles and overcome obstacles, so they can learn to do the same. Raising resilient kids is hard work. That's why today, I'm bringing Dr. Patrice Berry on the show to break down how we can avoid helicopter parenting and offer our kids a healthy level of support instead. We're chatting about managing anxiety (so it doesn't affect our kids) and creating healthy boundaries so we can thrive as parents. About Dr. Patrice Berry: Dr. Patrice Berry is a licensed clinical psychologist with over 15 years of clinical experience. She launched Mind Your Legacy, LLC to separate her non-clinical services. Dr. Patrice Berry provides outpatient therapy through her private practice Four Rivers Psychological Services. Dr. Berry provides coaching, speaking/training, products, and social media education/ partnerships through Mind Your Legacy, LLC. She is passionate about supporting children, families, and adults in breaking familial/generational patterns to bring holistic restoration and change outcomes for generations to come. Connect with Dr. Patrice Berry: TikTok, Instagram, YouTube, and (book) Turning Crisis into Clarity: How to Survive or Thrive in the Midst of Uncertainty Connect with Kim: Register for the Courageous Leaders Masterclass and Retreat, where you'll perfect imperfection and learn strategies to prevent and manage burnout in the beautiful village of Kananaskis! | https://www.kimberlyknull.com/dare-to-lead-1

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54. What the Heck is Happening to Me? Oh, It's Menopause!

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Most of us don't know much about menopause, we just know it will happen at some point. Turns out it is more than just hot flashes, the end of your period, and possible hormone-replacement therapy. The symptoms affect women physically and mentally, and they can go on for a long time. For me, it created the perfect storm where my life felt really hard for a while. This episode is a great listen if you would like a little more information on what menopause actually is, when it could happen, and your options for treating your uncomfortable symptoms. Register for the Courageous Leaders Masterclass and Retreat, where you'll perfect imperfection and learn strategies to prevent and manage burnout in the beautiful village of Kananaskis! | https://www.kimberlyknull.com/dare-to-lead-1

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53. How to prepare for therapy: 7 Tips for Getting the Most out of Your Sessions

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Whether you're new to therapy or have long-standing weekly appointments, it's easy to second-guess yourself or consider skipping a session. Because, let's face it, showing up and unpacking heavy stuff takes a lot of mental energy. But getting the most out of therapy requires more than just showing up; it takes preparation. That's why I'm sharing seven tips to help you get ready for therapy. These tips will help you shake off pre-session jitters and come prepared with helpful, guiding questions so you can walk away knowing you're making meaningful progress in your healing journey. Connect with Kimberly: Want to take the first step in your own journey toward confidence, focus, self-improvement, and joy? Learn more about the Courageous Leadership Retreat | https://tinyurl.com/CourageousLeadersRetreat Have questions? My DMs are always open! Send me a message on Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/courageousleadershipyeg/

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52. Healthy Parenting: Master the Art of Letting Go

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51. My Grief Story | Unpacking Brené Brown's 3 Elements of Grief

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