
468 - "I want to fix our desire mismatch, but my partner doesn't."- Listener Q&A
This week's question for our Q&A episode is addressing mismatched desire during busy, long-term partnered life and being stuck in "practical mode." If you want to submit a question to be answered on o...
5 Apr 202417min

467 - "You're gonna need therapy until you die" - A Conversation with TherapyJeff
Today we're joined by Jeff Guenther, also known online as TherapyJeff! Jeff has joined us to talk about what he does, therapy, non-monogamy, and much more!Jeff Guenther, aka TherapyJeff, is, according...
2 Apr 20241h 1min

466 - "I have lost all enthusiasm for my relationship." - Listener Q&A
During this mini episode, we're answering just one question from our Patreon community. Today we're discussing reframing relationships, de-escalation, and acceptance. If you'd like to have your questi...
29 Mars 202419min

465 - Is Single Life Superior? Why Independence Matters for Everyone
Breakup season has passed, so we're going to spend an episode talking about independence is important for everyone, regardless of your relationship status. We'll go over some research and demographics...
26 Mars 202442min

464 - This Is Why You Struggle with Honesty
Today, we're talking about honesty, and what makes it difficult to be honest with a partner. We all have difficulty with being honest sometimes, whether it's sharing a negative opinion about something...
19 Mars 20241h 5min

463 - You're Not as Open-Minded As You Think
Today we're talking about being open-minded: what it means, how it's often misunderstood, and how we're probably not as good at it as we think we are. Typically people think of open-mindedness as a go...
12 Mars 20241h 4min

462 - Deepening Connections Through Slow Love
Today, we're talking about slow dating and slow love, which was brought to our attention by Damona Hoffman in episode 456. We'll go over what slow love is, whether it's the answer to NRE woes or not, ...
5 Mars 20241h 3min

461 - My Partner Won’t Admit Their Jealousy - Listener Q&A
Today we have another Q&A episode, so we're diving into some listener questions. Some of the topics we're covering are what happens when just one relationship in a triad has to end, how to support a l...
27 Feb 202455min






















