It’s OK That You’re Not OK with Megan Devine8 Jan 2024

Holiday Debrief: Ghosting Therapists, New Year’s Breakups, and Holiday Angels

The holidays are over - you made it. By the looks of our inbox, the season wasn’t easy. This week, a holiday debrief, including bad behavior from therapists, why religion is not the answer to grief, and some true facts about dating after loss.

In this episode we cover:

How to say “I can’t work with you” without accidentally shaming your patients or clients
Why “but your (dead relative) is all around you, just in a new form!” maybe isn’t the most supportive thing to say
Questions to ask yourself when faced with a surprise romantic breakup (and what that has to do with grief)
And as always - fun talk about boundaries.

We're re-releasing some of our favorite episodes from the first 3 seasons. This episode was originally recorded in 2022.

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About Megan:

Psychotherapist Megan Devine is one of today’s leading experts on grief, from life-altering losses to the everyday grief that we don’t call grief. Get the best-selling book on grief in over a decade, It’s Ok that You’re Not OK, wherever you get books. Find Megan @refugeingrief

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