this is why your dating life sucks *tough love*

Is your dating life feeling like a never-ending cycle of bad dates and frustration? 💔 In this episode, we’re diving into tough love and actionable advice to help you level up your approach to relationships. From prioritizing yourself to fixing your dating app strategy, this episode is packed with tips to transform your love life and break free from unproductive patterns. ✨ Key Takeaways: 1️⃣ Put yourself first—your goals and standards matter. 2️⃣ Recognize and address red flags early. 3️⃣ Shift your mindset to embrace dating as a growth experience. 4️⃣ Balance standards with realistic expectations. 5️⃣ Heal, reflect, and enjoy the journey to better connections. 💌 Let’s Chat: Have you ever fallen for someone’s “potential” instead of their reality? Share your dating lessons in the comments! And don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with your besties who need this tough-love pep talk! Enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening! The Cut article referenced: https://www.thecut.com/article/tiktok-videos-single-women-crying.html MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.com shop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/ instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcast listen to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-rae tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherself twitter: http://twitter.com/stellarae goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-rae my fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellarae my current filming set up: camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLO microphone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gc tripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgK ring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrSh box lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ub portable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspj join my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepod listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9 listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182 how i make my shorts using AI: https://klap.app/?via=stella #stellaraepodcast 00:00 Facing the Truth in Dating 01:26 Actions Over Words 03:04 Recognizing Red Flags 05:56 Decentering Men in Relationships 08:47 Building Confidence and Energy 12:01 The Grass Isn't Always Greener 14:47 Focusing on Self and Happiness