The Sex & Podcast with Meagan Narvaez20 Aug 2020

25: Don't Underestimate Your Pleasure Journey with Windy (@sexedliberator)

Windy (she/they pronouns) is a 29-year-old self-liberator advocate and pleasure activist. She identifies as Afro Caribbean/Haitian and pansexual.

In this episode, Windy takes us on her journey to pleasure starting from when she began to question the sexual expression and education she learned in Haiti. Haiti, formally a French colony, still sees sexuality from a colonized perspective aka the way the French did. Windy recognizes how her culture sees sexuality is disconnected and has been lost through time, but that hasn’t stopped her from wanting to find what sexuality means to her.

In 2020, Windy was diagnosed with pseudotumor cerebri, a chronic illness that is like having a tumor in the brain that’s not actually there. While receiving medical care, Windy also contracted and overcame COVID-19. Throughout the grief, fear, and pain, Windy has used her desire to focus on pleasure to help her cope.

Windy's mission is to decolonize her sexuality, use pleasure to heal, and help others do the same.

Also discussed in this episode:

- decolonized sexuality

- colorism and anti-Blackness

- losing pleasure in a relationship

- rediscovering one's pleasure after a relationship

- fear of the medical system for Black people

- chronic pain and illness

- the pleasure in setting boundaries

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