Ep. 341 - How People Pleasing is Blocking Your Abundance - The Process with Maddy

This work is transformational. And in the midst of a tough season full of tests and triggers, expansion is more important than ever. It’s vital to see that change, healing, and transformation is possible, and that’s what today’s guest brings us. Jessica sits down with Maddy, a TBMer who shares her powerful journey of overcoming burnout, perfectionism, and people-pleasing. From navigating $100k of debt in her business and saying yes to people and ideas that weren’t in alignment with her to manifesting $100k launch weekends and full alignment with her business. Maddy unpacks the small but profound shifts that led her to manifest her dream life—one of ease, alignment, authenticity, and beautiful abundance. Together, they discuss the importance of listening to your inner compass, breaking free from external validation, and doing the self-worth work that changes everything. And incredibly, Maddy has a real-time breakthrough on some of these programmed beliefs that led her down the wrong path. It’s a testament that we hold so much power within us, that our true selves are inherently worthy, and that with a little bravery and patience we can uncover and embrace our authentic selves–and manifest so much along the way. If you’ve been stuck in overdrive, unsure of how to shift, this episode is your permission slip to slow down, tune in, and start taking aligned action.

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THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

• Maddy shares how she unknowingly built a life based on external validation and ended up at a low point in many areas of her life (00:09:20)
• Maddy explains how tiny, intentional shifts over time led to massive transformation in her mindset, health, and business. (00:17:10)
• Maddy’s real-time breakthrough on identifying a root belief that has impacted her life (00:52:43)

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The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.

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