#420 Intimacy 2.0: Love and Dating in the Future

In this fun in-person interview we chat with Alexis Lauren Ware all about becoming WET - not necessarily the way Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion describe it, but more so about how we can (re)connect with our genitals, “reclaim” our wetness and turn-on, and live a life of feeling WET both in and out of the bedroom. I mean, who doesn't want that? We cure to check out Alexis' live online 6-week group course (guess what it's called...WET!) as it's limited to only 20 people at sovereign-university.com/wet About our guest: Alexis Ware, L.Ac., founder of Sovereign University, is an energy expert and life strategist who specializes in restructuring subconscious belief systems to amplify power in service to love, connection, creative expression and deeper enjoyment of life, sex and relationships. Alexis is a licensed acupuncturist, Kundalini Yoga teacher, Human Design enthusiast, ThetaHealing® expert/instructor of 12+ years and a sex, desire & intimacy coach. Alexis Ware, L.Ac., founder of Sovereign University, is an energy expert and life strategist who specializes in restructuring subconscious belief systems to amplify love, connection, creative expression and deeper enjoyment of life, sex and relationships. Alexis is a licensed acupuncturist, ThetaHealing® expert & instructor of 12+ years and a sex, desire & intimacy coach. Alexis Ware is an energy expert and life strategist who specializes in restructuring subconscious belief systems to amplify love, connection, creative expression and deeper enjoyment of life, sex and relationships. Alexis is a licensed acupuncturist, ThetaHealing® expert & instructor of 12+ years and a sex, desire & intimacy coach. sovereign-university.com Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 20% off your first order of some of our favorite arousal oils by visiting foriawellness.com/SHAMELESS OR use code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

16 Aug 20221h 7min

We've all heard about the power of transcendent and cervical orgasms (AKA the A-Spot), but how are they obtained? What do they feel like, why are they life-changing, and what are the tips and tricks for having more powerful, transcendent internal orgasms? About our guests: Dr. Willow Brown & Leah Piper bring a wealth of wisdom through their combined 40 years of expertise in human sexuality, health, and spiritual growth. Leah is a Tantric Sex Master Coach and Positive Psychology Facilitator while Dr. Willow is a Chinese & Functional Medicine Doctor, and Taoist Sexology Teacher. When these two devotees of love come together they blend and weave the ancient teachings of Tao and Tantra for the modern lover with humor, insight and wisdom. To learn more visit sexreimagined.com. Also visit: Drwillowbrown.com moreloveworks.com Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Athletic Greens at athleticgreens.com/SHAMELESSSEX Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

9 Aug 20221h 11min

In this playful episode we interview Psychotherapist Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT all about flirting, in-person and online dating, relationships and casual sex. Whether you are single, non-monogamous, or want to learn how to navigate the dating field, this episode has plenty of gems to offer you. About our guest: Psychotherapist Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT (she/her) is recognized as one of the freshest voices on modern relationships, mental health, and sex. She is an experienced speaker, group facilitator, educator, therapist, coach, and on-camera mental health and relationship expert. With a Master’s Degree in clinical psychology, Rachel Wright has worked with thousands of humans worldwide, helping them scream less and screw more. She has brought her message to stages across the globe, was SHAPE Magazine’s Sex + Relationships Coach, and created the virtual workshop series What You Wish You Learned in School: Sex Ed and is currently one of mindbodygreen’s article review experts. She also recently did a show at Green Room 42 in NYC called “One Night Stand: A Night for Sexier & Healthier Broadway.” (Check out the review in BroadwayWorld here.) Rachel has been featured widely in the media, including on Cheddar TV, as a regular contributor to SHAPE, INSIDER, mbg, InStyle, The Dipp, Well & Good — plus Cosmopolitan Magazine, PIX 11 (NYC), Women’s Health, NBC News Radio, Huffington Post, CTV (Canada), and hundreds of other outlets.  Rachel lives in New York and loves live theatre so much. You can probably find her in PJs eating gluten-free food with one of her partners if she’s not working! Learn more at www.rachelwrightnyc.com or connect in her cozy corner of Instagram, @thewright_rachel Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

2 Aug 20221h 8min

It's almost one of our favorite months - Anal August! And to celebrate we are interviewing repeat guest and sex expert Kenneth Play all about anal sex. Kenneth shares his top tips and "hacks" for making anal sex more fun, relaxing, pleasurable, and even orgasmic. You don't want to miss this one. And be sure to check out our YouTube Channel to get a visual of some of the techniques he shares, as well as our Instagram for short clips from this episode. About our guest: Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men’s Health. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. Kenneth is also the author of one of our favorite books, “Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence”. To learn more visit kennethplay.com  Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 20% off your first order of some of our favorite arousal oils by visiting foriawellness.com/SHAMELESS OR use code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

26 Juli 20221h 9min

While we love Masturbation May, April decided it's time to start celebrating Jerk-Off July. In this episode we discuss why it's good for you, our own experiences with masturbation, and tips and tool to up your self-pleasure game. Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Athletic Greens at athleticgreens.com/SHAMELESSSEX Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

19 Juli 202259min

How does sexual confidence for penis owners show up in sex and enhance the way they tend to their lovers, specifically ones with pussies? Why do so many men feel like they need to push their sexuality down in order to be a “safe person”? How can they find their sexual power in a safe way? What can they do to uncover parts of their sexuality they’ve been burying and how can they integrate them? And how can penis owner’s learn how to have more full-bodied orgasms? About our guest: Fabienne is a California based Sex and Intimacy Coach who specializes in helping men and other penis-owners develop sexual mastery, offering them the perspective and insight of a well-studied woman with a pussy. She guides people to use their sexual energy with integrity and intention to get more in touch and in love with their authentic selves and sexual expression. Fabienne loves to create, explore, and play with the form she has arrived in. Her mission is to be a loving witness to each person's strange, creative, beautiful selves, and to support others and herself to continue to heal in order to step into a freer form of self-expression and celebration of life. Find out more about Fabienne’s work at fabienneannick.com or on Instagram @fabienneannick Use code "shameless" for $300 off her upcoming course in September 2022 For Melissa Hite's online Summer Self-Care course all about perfecting the art of boundaries, click here and use code SHAMELESS to get $100 off if you sign up by the end of July, 2022. Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get 20% off of Manscaped's re-launched Ultra Smooth Package (+ free shipping!) with the code SHAMELESS at manscaped.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

12 Juli 202256min

What are the attachment styles and how do they impact relationships in general, especially non-monogamy? How do people know if they are non-monogamous? What’s the difference between fantasy and innate needs or desires? How do people’s unresolved attachment injuries get triggered within non-monogamy and how can they work with this once it’s triggered? What are some tools, and do they also apply to monogamous relationships? Lastly, what are some top tips for navigating both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships? About our guest: Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities and the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships. In addition to her master’s in marriage and family therapy, she also has an MBA and is a registered art therapist (ATR). She is an EDSE certified sex educator and an EMDR certified therapist with additional training in the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma. She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003. She co-hosts her own sex-positive podcast, Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron, has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, and has been a guest on Playboy Radio and many podcasts, including American Sex, Sluts and Scholars, and Sex Out Loud. She has written for Good Vibrations and Hollywood Magazine and is a frequent public speaker. Her private practice resides in Encino, CA. For more information, please visit her on the web at KateLoree.com. Attention vulva-owners (in the tri-state area who have never had an orgasm and are interested in contributing to research (and maybe getting a little help along the away! Email the beloved nan@askdoctornan.com to learn more. Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

5 Juli 20221h 4min

In this episode we talk all about masturbation AKA 'batin, why it's beneficial to have a masturbation practice and how to develop one, and ways your solo-sex can also lead to more pleasurable and connected sex with partners. About our guest: As a sex and relationship facilitator, Mike creates transformational group experiences to support people in their journey of sex, intimacy, and relationship. Mike is kinky, queer, and poly, and they live in an intentional community in Seattle called Confluence that serves as a practice ground for personal and relational growth. Mike loves offering free insights about sexuality, connection, and personal growth on their website mikemantell.com Other links: Get affordable online therapy now from the privacy of your own home + 10% off your first month when you go to betterhelp.com/shamelesssex Get $10 off your order of $50 or more on our favorite mouth-gasmic treats at milkbarstore.com/Shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

28 Juni 20221h 6min