EP# 129 Sex and Intimacy in a Triad with Dr. Rachael Meir

Dr. Rachael Meir discusses her Triad, what it's like to have sex with TWO partners, dating each person 1:1, and what it's like to live in a threesome.

Journey into polyamory (00:02:20) Dr. Rachel Meir shares her journey into polyamory, from early fantasies to exploring swinging lifestyle and eventually transitioning into a committed triad relationship.

Open-mindedness and acceptance in open relationships (00:08:43) The conversation delves into the open-mindedness, acceptance, and willingness to grow and communicate in open relationships compared to traditional monogamous relationships.

Challenges and rewards of triad relationships (00:11:49) The discussion covers the challenges and rewards of maintaining a triad relationship, emphasizing the importance of clear and conscious communication.

Finding a third in a triad relationship (00:13:47) Dr. Rachel and Jennifer discuss the process of finding a third person for a triad relationship and the importance of clear communication and conscious relationships.

Day-to-day life in a triad relationship (00:16:31) The conversation explores the day-to-day dynamics of living in a triad relationship, including scheduling, communication, and managing household responsibilities.

Nourishing individual and triad relationships (00:19:14) Dr. Rachel Meyer discusses the importance of prioritizing individual and triad relationships through scheduled date nights and nurturing intimacy.

Challenges of threesomes and prioritizing pleasure (00:21:16) Jennifer shares her experiences with threesomes and the challenges of prioritizing pleasure and authentic experiences in a multiple person sexual encounter.

The journey into polyamory (00:22:10) Discussion of the speaker's initial reluctance and eventual comfort in a polyamorous relationship.

Diverse sexual experiences (00:23:06) Exploration of the different dynamics and experiences in one-on-one and group sexual interactions in the triad relationship.

Exploring new sexual activities (00:24:11) Conversation about the triad's exploration of new sexual activities, including role play and using new toys.

Frequency of sexual activity in non-monogamous relationships (00:25:24) Discussion about the potential for increased sexual frequency in non-monogamous relationships compared to monogamous ones.

Intentional intimacy and erotic blueprints (00:27:00) Exploration of how the speaker's approach to intimacy has become more intentional in the non-monogamous relationship, and the differences in erotic blueprints among the partners.

Understanding individual needs and experiences (00:28:30) Conversation about the importance of understanding individual needs and experiences in a non-monogamous relationship.

Connecting with other non-monogamous individuals (00:29:52) Discussion about the speaker's interactions with other non-monogamous individuals and the nuances of their shared experiences.

Professional coaching in ethical non-monogamy (00:31:53) Information about the speaker's professional coaching services for individuals navigating ethical non-monogamous relationships.

Empowering and inspiring others (00:34:36) Encouragement for listeners to follow the speaker and her partners on social media to learn more about their experiences as a triad.

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