AEE Episode 4: How to Forget About Your English Mistakes

Come back to http://www.allearsenglish.com/286 Are you going abroad sometime soon? Have you set an intention for your time abroad? In today’s episode Lindsay talks with Norman Viss, an expat coach who helps his clients make the most of their time abroad by setting intentions. How can setting intentions make your life abroad more fulfilling? Think about what kind of expat you are and decide how that will shape your expat life: Are you a foreign assignee? Has your company moved you abroad to work? Are you an international student or former international student? Are you a “love-pat”? (someone who has gone abroad because they have met a partner, are you a traveling spouse? Are you a “greener pastures expat”? This is someone who has gone abroad to find a better place to live including retirees. Set goals and don’t just “go with the flow” Do you want to learn a language? Be realistic about what will be possible based on the amount of time that you will be abroad. Be intentional about what kinds of friendships you want while you are abroad. What are your areas of interest? Do you like desserts? Sports? Do you like history? What kind of focus will you have during your time abroad? Will you create a theme for your life abroad? What about your work? What professional goals do you want to accomplish while you are abroad? Consider how your life will look after your time abroad: What do you want your life to look like after you return from abroad? What about retirement? If you are going abroad in your 40’s or 50’s then it’s a good idea to think about the future after your time abroad.   The key to a happy life abroad is being intentional! Let us know in the comments below if you have been intentional in your life abroad and how it has affected your experience abroad.     Norman Viss put down roots in Nigeria (10 years) and the Netherlands (22 years). He has worked for mission organizations, churches and in the public sector for the City of Amsterdam. He holds B.A. and Master’s degrees, with majors in cross-cultural and urban studies and theology; he is also an ICF- credentialed coach. Currently he runs an online business coaching expats around the world (Expat Everyday Support Center) and serves part-time as a clergyman in the Philadelphia area in the USA. Norman is a thankful husband, father and grandfather. Visit Norman’s coaching website at expateverydaysupportcenter.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

16 Mars 201520min

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9 Mars 20155min

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5 Mars 20153min

Will you be visiting Ottawa someday? Today, meet Kathleen from Canada, and get 3 phrases to connect with locals in the capital city, Ottawa!   Canada is a multicultural and diverse country, and Ottawa is a micro version of that. It’s a city of one million inhabitants and numerous languages. It is also a city in touch with nature. With four distinct seasons, Ottawa has something for everyone. Though Canada and the United States have some similarities, they also have many differences. Among these are some subtle differences in using the English language. This includes pronunciation and some commonly used phrases.   Here are Kathleen’s top Canadian phrases to help you blend in when you’re in Ottawa! I’m sorry: Canadians are known for being very polite. In fact, the culture can be so polite it becomes apologetic. Sometimes Canadians will begin a sentence, “I’m sorry,” even if they did nothing wrong and aren’t apologizing for anything. Out and About: This means to go exploring or to check something out. A Canadian might say “Let’s go out and about,” or “I was out and about.” Eh?: Often, this word is used the way an American might use the words “right?” or “huh?” It shows agreement or clarification with other people. You might hear someone say, “That was a great show, eh?”   Are you going to Ottawa, or Canada? Have you ever been there? Share your thoughts in the comments section below!   Kathleen is a native English speaker from Ottawa, Canada. She has been teaching and tutoring students in English and beginner French for over three years in Asia, Latin America and Canada. She also speaks French and Spanish, and so understands the challenges and joys of learning a new language. In her experience, conversation is the best way to improve language skills. Kathleen has worked and continues to work in the areas of community development, and is currently completing her Bachelor of Education. This summer she will be teaching in Ulaanbataar, Mongolia. She loves meeting people from different cultures and learning new languages. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

5 Mars 201516min

Are you dating in English? Today, we welcome back dating expert Jessica Coyle to give you four easy topics for conversation when dating!   Conversation can be tricky on a first date. You might be nervous, and it can be hard to know what’s safe to talk about. Jessica has a great acronym to help you with simple, safe discussion topics. It’s FORD, and it stands for: Friends: If you have mutual friends, ask how your date met them. Or, if you don’t have mutual friends, ask if your date knows anybody in the area where you’re meeting. Occupation: Asking about another person’s job is usually a good conversation starter. You might say, “What do you do with your time?” That way, if your date happens to be unemployed, they are still able to give an answer. Recreation: Ask about what somebody likes to do for fun. You might follow up by asking, “How often do you get to do that?” Dreams: This is good for asking hypothetical questions. You could ask things like “Where do you see yourself in ten years?” or “What would you do if you had a billion dollars?”   People love talking about themselves, so being interested in others is what might make you more interesting to them. When starting a conversation, don’t just ask a list disconnected questions. Follow-up with the other person’s answers to show that you are listening to what they are saying.   Are you dating in English? What are your experiences? Tell us how it’s going in the comments section below!   Jessica Coyle has been teaching English since 2007. She received her Master’s in TESOL in 2013, finishing with a professional project researching the use of improvisational comedy teaching techniques to teach English as a second language. She has studied and performed improv comedy all over Korea, China, Canada and the United States.   How to find Jessica Online: Her dating blog: https://hopefuldisasters.wordpress.com/ Her comedy podcast: NY Pacific Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

4 Mars 201518min

Are you looking for an authentic English conversation? Today, listen to Part 1 of a real, authentic example of two people using English to get to know each other!    In Part 1 of this episode, Lindsay meets Mo.  Mo is from New Zealand but has lived all over the world. He currently lives in Germany and teaches English. The two of them talk about this, and about learning a language and living in a different culture. Some of the discussion points in Part 1: Why do people want to learn English? How can they be relaxed enough to learn it? Is it okay to accept that you’ll never be a native speaker?   What did you get out of this conversation? Share your thoughts in the comments section below! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

3 Mars 201518min

Are you looking for an authentic English conversation? In Part 2 of today’s episode, Lindsay and Mo break down their unrehearsed, first time meeting from Part 1, and talk about what it means to you learning English!   In Part 1 of this episode, Lindsay met Mo.  They hadn’t met before and didn’t know what was going to come up in their spontaneous conversation. Now, in Part 2, the two of them discuss what worked, and what didn’t.   Some of the discussion points in Part 2: How can you feel confident in English conversations? How can you be respectful about gender and other differences when meeting someone new? How can you allow your true curiosity about the other person come out even though your English isn’t perfect?   What did you get out of this conversation? Share your thoughts in the comments section below! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

3 Mars 201516min

Are you looking for an authentic English conversation? In Part 3 of today’s episode, Mo will show you three ways to develop authentic, bulletproof confidence when you speak English with his unique method!   In Part 1 and 2 of this episode, Lindsay and Mo had an authentic English conversation and analyzed what worked, and what didn’t.  Now, in Part 3, Mo discusses Be in English, his method for learning how to have the best conversations possible in English.   Here are the main principles of the Be in English system: 1. If you know enough English to listen to this podcast, you can discuss anything in English! By using creativity, you are capable of joining a conversation and having a voice. 2. Be aware of your self-consciousness and shame about not speaking perfect English. Accept it, realize that your English will never be “perfect,” but don’t get too close to the idea. 3. Work with “naked listening.” That is, listen closely to a recording of English. Listen several times if necessary until you can distinguish every sound. Practicing this will change your orientation to listening.   You can find and work with Mo Riddiford and his Be in English system on italki.   What do you think about the Be in English system? Share your thoughts in the comments section below! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

3 Mars 201518min