15 | Why You’re Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Partners - The Neuroscience Behind Toxic Relationship Patterns

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Back to today's episode...

Do you feel like you keep attracting the same toxic partners who are emotionally unavailable?

Wish you could change the way you morph into an over-giving people pleaser in relationships?

This episode is to show you the reason you are attracted to the same type of partners over and over again, even if the relationships don’t make you feel good and aren’t serving your highest and best vision for yourself. I know you’re hating on yourself for it but, believe it or not, like everything that is keeping you stuck, its just a learned way of being that you taught yourself as a child to keep you safe - and over the years you’ve held onto it so tightly that it has formed a part of your belief system. But don’t worry - just like a cocoon around a butterfly - when you were young and vulnerable you needed the safety of (what you thought was) a reliable method of fostering connection with your caregivers, BUT, now you’re ready to spread your wings, the cocoon feels like more of an uncomfortable trap. The good news is that, just like a butterfly, you have the resources to break free and embrace the life and love that’s waiting for you. 🦋✨ If you feel stuck in a cycle of relationships that suck you dry, bruise your heart and damage your self esteem, this episode could be the key to you having greater control over who you are attracted to, and who your are attracting into your life.

Let’s get you closer to the love and life you truly want -

Remy xox

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Intro/Outro Track: Sweet Memory by JayJen & Enine