Uncle Brian made me feel special at 13-years old | How the grooming process can work on teenagers

Uncle Brian made me feel special at 13-years old | How the grooming process can work on teenagers

“If you liked it at the time, then you can’t grow into an adult and change your mind when you look back at it” - is what I’ve seen many sections of society say.


And they’re not shy. They comment on my posts from time to time.


Their view (from what I’ve seen) is that if a teenager flirts and involves themselves at the time, then they know what they’re doing and can’t label it as abusive and exploitative when they’re older.


This is a massive misunderstanding and I explain why as I review Leila’s brave story in my podcast.


This is very important, links below.


Original video: https://youtu.be/PLARjisxolI?si=waOJAwvS1QmkbqCi


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