The Shift In Identity After Having A Baby. Uncut with Holly Nicholson

Welcome to therapy friends!Come on in, the coffee is brewing.On today's episode of Ask Uncut, our main man Matty J is filling in for our beloved Britt as she fights the viruses away.Today's episode kicks off with a parenting nightmare that Laura and Matt are currently experiencing; it's much less than ideal.Then we jump into your questions: I'm a virgin and I'm 25. I've been seeing someone and I am wondering whether I should tell them that I've not slept with anyone before? I feel ready to take the next step My partner and I have a great sex life. We've lived together for 2 years and we are constantly naked around each other; we sleep naked, we walk around the house naked a lot, shower together etc. I'm wondering if being naked a lot takes away a bit of the allure of our naked bodies? My partner likes highly sexualised photos on instagram. Not just influencers/models but people he knows as well. When I brought this up, he said that he didn't like that I follow and like other guy's too; but they are never sexual photos. He said that he thinks just 'liking' it is a form of flirting. He is still liking the photos that I said I had a problem with. Am I valid in my anger or is what he said valid? Should I keep using my ex's streaming service account? If you have a question you'd like answered, or an update on your situation since your question has been answered, please send it in to @lifeuncutpodcast on instagram!Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because we love love xxxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

22 Juni 202243min

Hey Lifers!Guess who's back? Back again! It's our resident fill in Matty J!Sadly, our girl Britt has been struck down by covid and the flu so Matt's gotten the call up to the microphone! He's hot off the plane from the Logies and ready to spill some red carpet goss!Then we are diving into a much deeper conversation. In today's episode we are talking with Dr Katariina Rosenblatt. Kat was a victim of sex trafficking from the time she was just 13 years old, until the age of 17. Kat grew up in Miami, Florida and experienced trafficking on several, separate occasions. In this episode, Kat talks us through her harrowing story that really pulls back the curtain on what child sex trafficking actually looks like in our world. It was extremely eye opening for us to learn about how different it is to what we imagined sex trafficking was. Kat speaks about what makes certain children vulnerable as 'prey.'She educates us on what the people who organise trafficking are like and how they operate. She is a very resilient and strong woman. Her story is shocking and compelling.Dr Kat is now using her trauma to educate others on the horrific issue of Child sex trafficking and is workig alongside the FBI to literally save childrens lives.This episode may be very triggering for anyone who has experienced or had a loved one experience any form of sexual assault. If this raises any issues for you, please give this episode a miss, listen to it with someone you feel safe around or leave it for another time. Help can always be found at 1800-RESPECT. Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because we love love!! xxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

20 Juni 20221h 20min

First up lifers, if you and your friend match with the same person on a dating ap, who gets dibs?Two of the life uncut team are in this dilemma!Then we unpack possibly the worst ghosting scenario we've ever heard of! This week the questions we are unpacking are:-My partner and I broke up for a little while and we are now back together.I've now found out that he was seeing someone (not just sleeping with them) while we were broken up. Am I wrong for being weird about this?-My friend has been with their partner for 6 years and after discussing it and getting the 'okay' with their partner, they started an only fans account.10 subscribers later, my friend's partner has now basically broken things off. My question is 'should they have to delete the account to keep the relationship or does the partner need to sort out their own feelings?' -I had a baby 6 months ago. Before this, my partner used to go down on me all the time. Since having a baby, he's only done it once. I've asked about it and he has said "I just don't feel like it" and "we will get back to it." Is this normal?If you have a question you'd like us to tackle, please send it in to @lifeuncutpodcast on instagram!Tell you mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because we love love! xxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

15 Juni 202235min

Hey Lifers,Firstly today we are jumping in with some passionate feelings about Rebel Wilson's relationship announcement and who has the right to a story. Spoiler alert, Noone but the person involved has that right! Regardless of celebrity status, every individual has the right to come out or talk about any new relationship in their lives when they are ready.End. Of. Story. The original article in the Sydney Morning Herald has been removed but their apology statement can be read here: https://www.smh.com.au/culture/celebrity/rebel-starts-spreading-the-news-of-relationship-20220610-p5aswa.htmlNext up, we're taking a deep dive on toxic masculinity with radio host Will McMahon. You might know Will from Will and Woody or even celebrity apprentice, where he has spoken openly about his experiences with depression and how it has been impacted by toxic masculinity.We touch on how toxic masculinity isn't specific to men, and actually affects every one of us, where it stems from, what it looks like in the real world and what we can do about it to change it on an individual and a societal level.There's some big stuff in today's episode and if you liked it, we'd love a sneaky little review on apple podcasts and spotify. Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell you friend and share the love because we love love, and love is love! xxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

13 Juni 20221h 10min

Happy Saturday Lifers it's Life Uncut Radio day!If you missed todays radio show live, don't worry, we have packaged up all the best bits right here for you!We are joined at always by the delightful Mitch Churri. On today's show we stage an intervention, and in the spirit of pride month we are chatting to the fabulous Ben aka Carla from Bankstown, and are unpacking the weirdest dating terminology.If you loved the show you can catch it live every Saturday morning on the Kids network from 10am - midday! Tell your mum tell your dad, tell your friends and share the love because WE LOVE, LOVE!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

11 Juni 202232min

Welcome to therapy Thursday!Sit down and get comfy, as we take a deep dive into your questions!Firstly, we'd like to clear up Laura's teenage crush on Hanson, because it seems like some of you have misunderstood...Then we dive into your questions:1. I hooked up with a guy twice from Tinder in January. It wasn't the best time, it wasn't the worst. I messaged him after it and he never replied. Now, months later he's messaged and I didn't reply because I know that I should have some standards. He's followed up with "are you home?"My question is how much should you chat with someone when it's just been casual sex? How long 'between drinks' is too long? 2. I've been with my partner for 4 years and we've recently been trying to spice up our sex life. He loves it when I wear lingerie and costumes, which I am also open to. But for some reason I feel so silly when I present myself to him in the costumes! He's very complimentary, my self esteem is good, so it's not that I feel self conscious. How do I become more comfortable in dress up?3. It's been 7 weeks since my partner and I have seen each other ( we've both been away). I decided to send him some hot nudes and his response was just "great." Now correct me if I'm wrong, but I expected a bit more of a response and it's leaving me feeling a bit rejected and disappointed. If you have a question you'd like us to unpack, send it on in to our DMs at lifeuncutpodcast on instagram!Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE!!! xxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

8 Juni 202234min

Hello there wonderful lifers!Today we are kicking it off talking about that Disney proposal that went terribly wrong, you can watch it here.On today's episode we are taking a deep dive into cheating with Terri Cole, licensed psychotherapist, relationship expert, an empowerment coach and author!Terri has more than 20 years of experience in relationship therapy and nuanced perspectives on the motivations and reasons why people step outside of their relationships.We speak with Terri about:-Why she was passionate to help people through cheating-What's worse; emotional or physical cheating?-Can a cheater change their ways?-Habitual cheaters vs one timers-Why we may be choosing cheaters over and over again-How boundaries help us avoid cheatersYou can find everything of Terri Cole's here: https://www.terricole.com/ including her latest book Boundary Boss!If you have a spare sec, we'd love it if you could leave us a review on apple podcasts, or a star rating on spotify and as always, tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your fog, tell your friend and share the love because we love love!! xxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

6 Juni 20221h 4min

Today on Life Uncut Radio - our National radio show Laura lost her goddamn mind when Britt organised the best surprise for her. Boy band Hanson, who were Laura's biggest crush growing up are joining us on the show, and Laura's 11 yr old self is SCREAMING (so is her 36 yer old self tbh)We have added a new segment to the show - Overheard. Having a giggle at the wild things you've overheard out and about.Our radio show is on the Kids network every Saturday morning, from 10am until midday. Join us live, or listen here on catch up.You know the drill, leave a review and tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your friends and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

4 Juni 202241min