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It’s Tuesday lifers! And we are taking a walk with the green eyed monster. But first we are unpacking you most hilarious Bumble online dating stories thanks to todays sponsor - you guessed it Bumble!Chances are, unless you’re a a beautiful, unique, mythical unicorn mermaid, you’ve experienced jealousy at some stage of your life, especially in romantic relationships. Maybe for reasons that are warranted or maybe it comes from a place of deep insecurity, either way we are going to get to the bottom of it because it is not conducive to a healthy relationship.There is one kind of jealousy that we are really going to deep dive into, and that is retrospective or retroactive jealousy, which is when one experiences painful thoughts and an intense overwhelming and all consuming curiosity and obsession with their partners past relationships and sexual history. And let us tell you, it’s real and never ends well. Thank you to today’s sponsor, Bumble. The dating app where women make the first move. An app that empowers users to connect with confidence whether dating, networking, or meeting friends online.If you like having us in your ears guys please hit subscribe, 5 stars and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

12 Okt 20201h 12min

Therapy Thursday lifers!Our short, sharp and sometimes sexy question session.We have one girl in a long term relationship that feels their sex Life isn’t enough.. should she leave?Where do single people meet these days and how do you meet them in the wild?And is it ok/should we be asking partners to get STI checks before sleeping with them....If you have a question for Life Uncut, slide on into our DM's on Instagram @lifeuncutpodcastHit subscribe, 5 stars and share the love. Because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

9 Okt 202035min

Happy Tuesday guys! We have a bloody big episode for you today with back to back interviews!First up we have the first ever Bachelorette sisters Elly and Becky Miles! We get to know the girls, chat embarrassing stories and how exactly a double sister bachelorette actually works! Then we jump into something a little more serious but something we feel very passionately about. This past few weeks we’ve seen an online dating story go viral. And not for reasons you may hope.Ebonie Sanderson, a local bondi woman has come forward detailing the horrific abuse she received online from a man named Tom McGuirk. What we all first thought was just a tirade of abusive  messages and voicemails simply because she declined to spend the night with him, turned in much more, with women from all over coming forward to detail their abuse at the hands of Tom McGuirk. From abusive messages, to voicemails, multiple fake accounts in order to troll, to blackmail and threats of stalking.We wanted to get Ebony on to talk us through her experience , why she felt compelled to go public and to have a wider conversation about consent. This is an important conversation guys so please share with your friends! Hit subscribe, five stars and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

5 Okt 20201h 10min

It’s Therapy Thursday lifers!Gosh it comes around quick doesn’t it! We hope you’ve had a more exciting week than we have this week! Britt almost dated Zac Efron but didn’t because Laura forgot to tell her he was eating dinner across the road from her house. Once we got past that slippery little detail that was so easily forgotten we jumped in to answering your questions!! This week we have a work dilemma. How to tell your boss you’re uncomfortable with some of his vocabulary. A girl that was broken up with by the love of her life and didn’t see it coming. She wants to know “what she did wrong so she can avoid doing it again” and girl, you did nothing!! And a realllllll pickle... how do you tell the guy you’ve not that long ago started dating that he’s going bald because he may not actually know.... or do you even tell him at all? What a predicament! Thanks for tuning in lifers! We love and appreciate every one of you!See you next week!Please share the love, because, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

1 Okt 202035min

Boy do we have a big one for you! On Tursday night we all sat down to watch the Bachelor Finale and our boy Locky broke the cardinal bach sin by telling both final girls that he was in love with them, in this episode we sit down with runner up Bella Varelis to ask the question on everyones tongues.... What they actual F***? Bella unpacks everything from the very beginning, to what really happened in lockdown, what went down with Irena and what we didn’t see in the finale. We also hit Bella with a bunch of rumours to find out what’s real and what’s not.If you're a Bachi fan, this is one BIG episode you don’t want to miss.If you’re not part of the Facebook discussion group yet what are you even doing!? Jump on and become apart of the amazing community there! Life Uncut PodcastIf you loved the episode and want to hear more of us in your ears weekly please hit 5 starts, subscribe and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

28 Sep 20201h 31min

Therapy Thursday! Haiiiii guys! We hope you are having a killer week! We love bringing you these short, sharp and sexy ask Uncut episodes!First up, You’ll never believe what happened to one of our poor listeners this week! If you thought you were having a bad day this will make you feel better! Then we are talking ghosting, closure from ghosting, vagina pet names and what to do when your long term partner just absolutely annoys the shit out of you. Enjoy and see you next week lifers!Share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

24 Sep 202028min

Buckle up Lifers we have a big one today!Firstly, Laura announced she is having baby number 2 and we couldn't be happier! She kept that a bloody good secret did't she! We chat all about her finding out, telling Matt, how and why she kept it a secret for 5 months, how this pregnancy is different and if she knows what she is having.Then we get in to the big stuff. Mean girl behaviour, Internalised mysogyny, Internalised sexism, whatever you want to call it. We seem to be seeing it everywhere at the moment, thanks to the likes of reality tv, articles, social media, within our own friendship groups, So we wanted to take a deep dive and get all disecty with it. Find out exactly what it is, why it is still so prevalent in this day and age and what we can do about it. All in all we found the research so interesting and we think this is a great conversation to take to your family and friends! Let's get in to it shall we!?If you guys love listening please share this with a friend or family. We are an independent podcast and we want to stay in your ears! So please if you're feeling generous, or even if you're not (lols) please his subscribe, 5 stars, and leave a review because this is what helps us to grow!And share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

21 Sep 20201h 6min

Narcissism. The word gives you the shivers right!? Its a term that often gets thrown around, we hear people speak about it a lot, but it can be really hard to pinpoint if you're actually dating one.The official definition of a narcissist, according to the Mayo Clinic, is a person who often lacks empathy, acts entitled, arrogant, and prioritizes themselves above all else.We want to deep dive into some narcissistic tendencies, red flags to look out for like love bombing, and what to do if you find yourself in an unhealthy relationship with someone with narcissistic tendencies.It’s important to remember that we are not clinical psychologists, but we are two women who have both had intense relationships with people that fit this mould and we want to shed some light on it in the hopes that it can help others. We talk about our own experiences and share learned information. If you want to keep us in your ears, please hit 5 starts, leave a review, tell your friends and share the love, because, well, we love love. XTthis episode could be triggering for someone that has had dealings with people like this in the past. If that is you, you may want to reconsider listening. Please remember, If you’re having troubles in any aspect of your life, you’re not alone and websites such as lifeline are always there to help. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

9 Sep 20201h 5min