13: Overcoming Overwhelm: The Art of Delegation and Asking for Help

13: Overcoming Overwhelm: The Art of Delegation and Asking for Help

Today, I'm talking about something that so many of us struggle with, especially women: the art of delegating and asking for help without feeling guilty. I had an experience the other day that really brought this lesson home for me. I think it might always be an area where I need to focus.

Women are often socialized to believe that we need to do it all and be everything to everyone. Asking for help? That would be a sign of weakness.

These ideas are only spinning us towards burnout — fast.

Instead, I've learned that asking for help is a sign of strength, a way to strengthen relationships, and, ultimately, a simple way to take better care of ourselves. When we take better care of ourselves, we can show up for others.

Here's what you'll learn in this episode:

  • How societal expectations and childhood conditioning can lead to guilt when asking for help: Our worth is NOT tied to what we can do for others.
  • Why change, even positive change, can make others uncomfortable and how to navigate that: You'll hear my insights on why people might respond negatively when we start setting boundaries and asking for help and how to stick to them even when others don't like it.
  • Practical strategies to help you delegate without micromanaging: You'll get some actionable tips on clearly communicating your needs, trusting others to do their best, and letting go of perfectionism.
  • The importance of reframing support as strength, not weakness: Asking for help isn't a failure. It's a way to build healthier relationships and look after ourselves.
  • How to overcome the guilt that often comes with putting our needs first: You'll hear some simple mindset shifts and thought exercises that have helped me ask for support without feeling bad, because I know that I'm not being selfish.

I hope this episode gives you the boost you need to start delegating, asking for help, and prioritizing your well-being without guilt. It takes practice — and it's so worth it.

If you struggle with delegation at home or work, get in touch.

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction: Overcoming Overwhelm by Prioritization

00:32 The Societial Conditioning of Saying No

02:10 How Change Challenges Others

03:33 The Unsustainable Pursuit of Perfection

04:31 The Importance of Delegation

05:20 A Personal Example: Birthday Dinner Dilemma

10:29 Practical Tips for Effective Delegation

15:36 Overcoming Guilt and Embracing Support

18:59 Conclusion: A Manageable and Fulfilling Life

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2. Burnout Series: How to Overcome Stress

2. Burnout Series: How to Overcome Stress

Let's talk about the big fat elephant in the room - burnout. In today's society we just can't seem to outrun stress, especially in the workplace. With remote work on the rise, it can feel impossible to unplug even when it's time to clock out. It's too easy to respond to work emails after hours when you can do it right from your phone. The truth is, we weren't wired to be constantly tapped into work. That's why it's no surprise that burnout is on the rise, and The World Health Organization has even recognized job burnout as an official health diagnosis. The good news? There is a better way. Even if you can't ditch all of your stressors, you can prevent burnout by learning how to complete the stress cycle. Curious about how you can unlock the stress cycle so you can swear off burnout for good? That's exactly what I'm covering today along with… Why women experience burnout differently than men How hyper-independence sabotages our wellbeing And so much more! Tune in and learn how to tame your stress. Connect with Kim: Register for The Gifts of Imperfection™ Workshop where you'll learn how to embrace your inner flaws and accept who you are → https://www.courageousleadership.ca/booking Connect on Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/courageousleadershipyeg/

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1. Unf*ck your life

1. Unf*ck your life

Do you ever have one of those weeks where things just don't click? Maybe your boss is on your case, you have a cold, or your sleep schedule is a mess. During these challenging seasons, our thoughts tend to spiral, leading us to believe that we're incapable of making positive changes in our lives. ‌ As a psychologist, I'm here to tell you that couldn't be further from the truth! In today's episode, I'm diving deep into how you can take the reigns on your thoughts so you can learn how to feel good even when life is hectic! I'm also discussing: Why it might be a good idea to partner with a psychologist who can help you spot problem thoughts and stop them in their tracks What to keep in mind when searching for support: Why liking your therapist matters more than what type of therapy they do How nourishing your brain and overall well-being can help you create a positive ripple effect ‌ After listening, you might be surprised by how motivated you feel to make life-giving changes in your day-to-day, one of those might even include bringing in the help of a therapist to help you put it all into action! Connect with Kim: Register for The Gifts of Imperfection™ Workshop where you'll learn how to embrace your inner flaws and accept who you are → https://www.courageousleadership.ca/booking Connect on Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/courageousleadershipyeg/

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Welcome to Therapy Explained!

Welcome to Therapy Explained!

Thinking about therapy but not sure if it's right for you? Even though people are finally starting to normalize it, there are still some stigmas around having a therapist. This podcast will answer all your questions about therapy. Therapy works. This podcast will tell you why. Join me each week for a new episode of Therapy Explained where I'll demystify the powerful tool that is therapy and help you understand exactly how your brain works so you'll feel like you're in the driver's seat on your therapy journey. Connect with Kim: Register for The Gifts of Imperfection™ Workshop where you'll learn how to embrace your inner flaws and accept who you are → https://www.courageousleadership.ca/booking Connect on Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/courageousleadershipyeg/

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