89. 5 Reasons Why Gentle Parenting ISN'T Working For You

In this episode I share the 5 reasons I see that gentle parenting isn't working for you. These are what I'm seeing across comments, questions I get asked weekly, my client's perspectives and community members.

And I want to acknowledge that it's hard to transition from one parenting style to another. Especially one that forces us to look at our own stuff vs. focus on our children's behavior.

I hope this brings some insights and of course please connect with me if you are called to work together.

I would really love to connect with you and see how coaching or my programs could be a support for this recurring pattern. Please reach out and we can connect on a free call. becky@responseableparenting.com

Podcast episodes referenced:

Episode 39: 4 Buckets We Need to Fill in Ourselves

https://www.responseableparenting.com/podcast/ep-39-4-buckets-to-fill-in-ourselves

APPLICATION FOR THE PARENTING BREAKTHROUGH CIRCLE
This small group coaching opportunity will help you break through your negative patterns, beliefs and toxic cycles with yourself and your child. The work you put in here, will transform your relationship with your children forever.

Here is a small portion of what you can expect:

• Focused integration that finally rewires your unwanted habits so that your default response is measured, confident and connected.

• An opportunity for you to truly master skills, gain unwavering clarity in emotional regulation and supportive strategies so you can remain calm and finally release the triggers.

• A deep education on your and your child's nervous system and processing so you can finally break the cycle of struggle and step into confident, connected leadership, so boundaries are simple and enforcement is no longer a challenge.

• A place where you can fully ditch the frustrations, power struggles, low self worth beliefs, deep conditioning and shift your parenting at it's core, for good!

If all that sounds like what you're looking for, please fill out the application below.

http://bit.ly/426EyzL

FREE GUIDES!
Discover how PLAY can rapidly transform unwanted behavior and restore peace in your home in this free training!

https://responseableparenting.kit.com/playvideo

Make sure you grab my Free Guide to Managing Meltdowns: https://responseableparenting.ck.page/meltdown

4 steps to get you through your kid's meltdown without snapping!

Do you find yourself yelling more often than you want? Does it feel like yelling is the ONLY way to get through to your kids? But it makes you feel awful? You absolutely need my Free Guide To Stop Yelling: https://responseableparenting.ck.page/yelling

This guide will walk you through the process of staying regulated and give you tools to use during high stress moments.

Does it feel impossible to access playful, connected strategies when you're not getting the cooperation you need in the moment? Grab this free guide where I share 70 play based starter phrases!

https://responseableparenting.kit.com/play

COMMUNITY!
The community is now OPEN!!! Inside the Community you'll have access to me DAILY through DM's and the Discussion board. Share your questions, ask me the tricky stuff and get the support YOU need. You'll have WEEKLY Q&A opportunities to get personalized support where I can help you connect the dots and have a clear path forward in your parenting. You also have access to my entire workshop library, dozens of bite sized lessons, OH! And you have immediate access to my signature course "The Strong-Willed Language Series!" Here you get my BEST and most effective tips on how to stay regulated when triggered, how to understand your child more and speak their language so you can gain more cooperation, drastically reduce power struggles, feel more connected and more!

Don't forget to use code PODCAST for $10 off your first month!

https://responseableparenting.kit.com/community

BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST!
If you would like to be a guest on the podcast and troubleshoot what's going on for you in real time, please fill out the podcast submission form. I look forward to connecting with you! Submit here: https://bit.ly/4c57Tx5