Is This a ME Thing or a WE Thing? Distinguishing Personal Growth from Relationship Growth: Episode 359

Is This a ME Thing or a WE Thing? Distinguishing Personal Growth from Relationship Growth: Episode 359

When there is tension or an upset in your marriage, it's easy to point the finger at your partner as the source of the discomfort. But this often leads to further conflict. It also does not address this critical aspect of being in a marriage for a long time… that growth is a part of it! The common question for those that see these events as places to grow is "well, is this a me thing, a you thing, or a we thing"!

Today's episode is more motivational (and aspirational) about growth in your relationship. You will hear how you can quickly distinguish between the necessary individual work that needs to be done as well as the relationship work that needs to be focused on. After listening to this episode you both will feel more grace for each other with the reminder that you are in this to grow and you are in it together!

Relationship Resources:

1) Discover all our online resources here: https://www.meetthefreemans.com/links

2) Join us at the in-person Couples Workshop on Oct 6th, 2024. As of this episode, the event is 60% sold out so don't wait to grab your seats for this relationship changing event!

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Q&A From Our Marriage WebClass: Navigating broken agreements, defensiveness, not honoring the pause, discussing unmet needs

Q&A From Our Marriage WebClass: Navigating broken agreements, defensiveness, not honoring the pause, discussing unmet needs

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Why Emotion Comes Before Logic in Conversations With Your Spouse: Episode 382

Why Emotion Comes Before Logic in Conversations With Your Spouse: Episode 382

When you are not having the same type of conversation it is very easy to misunderstand each other. When there is misunderstanding it is easier to get frustrated and have the conversation escalate into...

18 Feb 202521min

Emotional Intelligence is Required For Good Communication: Do You Have These 5 Skills Mastered? Episode 381

Emotional Intelligence is Required For Good Communication: Do You Have These 5 Skills Mastered? Episode 381

Raising one's emotional intelligence (EQ) is a critical factor in the long term satisfaction and maturity within a marriage. Without this, the depth of a couple's connection will be limited and small ...

11 Feb 202530min

What Your Kids Need to Witness When it Comes to Conflict: Episode 380

What Your Kids Need to Witness When it Comes to Conflict: Episode 380

As fellow parents, we share in that deep responsibility you feel to equip your kids with healthy relationship skills—and conflict is a huge part of that! How you and your partner handle disagreements ...

4 Feb 202523min

Recognizing Each Other's Triggers & De-escalating Conflicts Faster: Episode 379

Recognizing Each Other's Triggers & De-escalating Conflicts Faster: Episode 379

You are likely aware that conflicts are going to happen, they shouldn't be avoided, but accepted that they will happen. But how you handle the conflict determines whether it can be connecting and clar...

28 Jan 202540min

How to Have a "Debrief" Conversation When Triggered, Instead of Spiraling: Episode 378

How to Have a "Debrief" Conversation When Triggered, Instead of Spiraling: Episode 378

When you have a marriage conflict there are a few options you have as a partner. You can react or you can suppress it. Neither of these are good options. Your two good options are to repair or have a ...

21 Jan 202526min

Be Willing to Evolve in These 3 Areas, Otherwise Marriage Isn't For You: Episode 377

Be Willing to Evolve in These 3 Areas, Otherwise Marriage Isn't For You: Episode 377

Most everyone gets into a marriage for the positive feelings of love, compatibility, passion, and creating a future together. It's these great feelings and potential outcomes that can happen that make...

14 Jan 202526min

How to Bring Out the Best in Each Other This Coming Year: Episode 376

How to Bring Out the Best in Each Other This Coming Year: Episode 376

Marriage is about bringing out the best in each other. Are you in a season of marriage where you can say that you are bringing out the best in each other? This doesn't always happen as it does take mo...

7 Jan 202526min

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