Ep 27 - Storytelling, Sex, and Safe Words: Exploring Kink and Intimacy with Nik the Forge Bear

Ep 27 - Storytelling, Sex, and Safe Words: Exploring Kink and Intimacy with Nik the Forge Bear

What if erotic storytelling could teach you more about intimacy than a sex-ed class ever did? In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I’m joined by one of my favorite creators, Nik—also known as The Forge Bear—whose voice is as powerful as his presence. Nik takes us behind the scenes of his work as an audio erotica creator on Quinn and shares how he uses storytelling to explore sexual self-discovery, kink dynamics, and authentic connection.


We dive deep into kink education, consent, communication, and the battle against performative sexuality online. Nik opens up about his journey from psychology student to audio dom, how he vets play partners, and why building trust is the foundation of any great scene. From safe words to CNC to emotional aftercare, this conversation is full of wisdom, warmth, and way more depth than you’ll find in your average “Dom voice” TikTok.


If you’re curious about kink but don’t know where to start, or you’re craving deeper conversations about power, pleasure, and presence, this episode is for you. Tune in for an intimate, unfiltered, and wildly informative conversation that’s as hot as it is healing.


Episode Highlights:

01:06 The Power of Audio Erotica

04:45 The Role of a Sex Educator

05:54 Challenges of Digital Education

08:28 Social Media and Misinformation

10:04 Understanding Dom-Sub Dynamics

16:04 Building Trust and Communication with Play Partners

28:37 Advice for Kinky Beginners


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Speak Your Desires with Confidence - Download this FREE step-by-step guide to having open, honest, and judgment-free conversations about kink, boundaries, and pleasure.

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Ep 08 – A Conversation on Kink, Connection, and Community with Brad Jones of Meet Kinksters

Ep 08 – A Conversation on Kink, Connection, and Community with Brad Jones of Meet Kinksters

In this episode, I'm sitting down with the incredible Brad Jones, the mastermind behind my all-time favorite dating app, Meet Kinksters! We dive into how Meet Kinksters is revolutionizing the dating scene by merging sexual and romantic compatibility and explore Brad's passionate commitment to help people form genuine, fulfilling relationships. Trust me, you don't want to miss Brad's innovative insights and the inspiring origin story of this groundbreaking app! We get real about the pitfalls of mainstream dating apps and Brad spills the tea on the dark underbelly of the dating industry. You'll hear all about how Meet Kinksters maintains a safe, respectful environment for kinky individuals to connect authentically. Plus, Brad's unfiltered advice on putting your best foot forward and the exciting future for Meet Kinksters will leave you buzzing with anticipation. Tune in for an empowering conversation that could transform your dating life!    Episode Highlights   05:32 Creating a Safe and Authentic Dating Experience 10:33 Addressing Market Gaps and User Concerns 25:38 Navigating Non-Traditional Relationships 26:41 Creating an Attractive Profile 28:51 The Dark Side of Dating Apps 34:32 Truth Bombs: Dating Advice for Men 46:37 Join Meet Kinksters: A New Approach to Dating   Go to http://www.meetkinksters.com/TKC and you can get 50%off your first month of premium membership!    Know more about this dating app and community at:   http://www.meetkinksters.com   Connect with Me:   https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant  https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/    Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!  Book your consultation here.

16 Okt 202449min

Ep 07 - Spooky, Sexy, Spectacular: Bringing 'Abandon' to Life with Jana Wimer & Robert Bullwinkel

Ep 07 - Spooky, Sexy, Spectacular: Bringing 'Abandon' to Life with Jana Wimer & Robert Bullwinkel

In this episode, I get to dive into the fascinating world of Jana Wimer and Robert Bullwinkel, the creative minds behind the spectacular theater production 'Abandon.' Join us as we explore the show's conception, its deep ties to the controversial Marquis de Sade, and the immersive experience it offers. They also insights into the challenges and rewards of bringing such a daring project to life, including the complexities of promoting a kink-centric show and the incredible support from the kink community. 'Abandon' is more than just a show; it's an experience that leaves audiences breathless. We discuss the intense atmosphere, created through pitch-black darkness and haunting soundscapes, that makes 'Abandon' a completely unique theater experience. As 'Abandon' returns to Vegas Theatre Company this October, don’t miss your chance to witness this blend of horror, kink, and masterful storytelling.  Get your tickets at: https://www.theatre.vegas/abandon Connect with Me:   ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant⁠  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/⁠    Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!  ⁠Book your consultation here⁠.

12 Okt 202427min

Ep 06 - [VIDEO] Building Better Kink Connections: All About the BeeDee App with Founders Pieter and Paul

Ep 06 - [VIDEO] Building Better Kink Connections: All About the BeeDee App with Founders Pieter and Paul

I’m beyond excited to have Pieter and Paul, the brilliant minds behind the groundbreaking BDSM dating app, BeeDee. We'll dive deep into how the app uses your BDSM test results to algorithmically connect you with compatible kinksters. We'll explore their unique approach to creating genuine and meaningful connections within the BDSM community, and how they overcame challenges to bring this revolutionary app to life.  You'll also get an insider's look at the incredible features that set BeeDee apart from other dating platforms, including higher-quality matches and community-focused interactions. Plus, there's a special offer just for our listeners that you won't want to miss. Tune in to discover how BeeDee is transforming the way kinksters find love and companionship. Trust me, you don’t want to miss this one!    Episode Highlights   02:36 The Evolution of the BDSM Test  12:01 Exploring the BD App Features  24:37 Challenges with iOS Approval  28:34 Team and Community Focus  36:00 Addressing Rumors and Anonymity  40:38 Advice for Newbies in BDSM  43:50 Future Features and User Interaction    Download the BeeDee App and use the code: THEKINKCONSULTANT  Head over to the Android Play Store and get 50% off your first month of premium by using this code!     Help us get BeeDee on iOS! Sign the petition here:   https://www.change.org/p/approve-the-beedee-dating-app-in-the-apple-app-store    Know more about the app at:   http://www.beedee.com      Connect with Me:   https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant  https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/    Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!  Book your consultation here.

9 Okt 202446min

Ep 05 - BDSM 101: The Do's and Don'ts with Jim and Veronica

Ep 05 - BDSM 101: The Do's and Don'ts with Jim and Veronica

Buckle up for a wild ride as I sit down with Veronica and Jim, the power couple of the Las Vegas kink scene. Veronica and Jim spill the beans on their whirlwind romance, from a fast-tracked military marriage to discovering their kinky sides. Ever wondered what it's like to go from a vanilla relationship to throwing legendary BDSM parties? They dish the dirt on everything - the excitement, the mistakes, and the oh-so-important rules of the BDSM road. Join in as they recount side-splitting tales of epic parties, including a fiasco with a threesome and a bottle of Fireball in the kitchen, and unforgettable moments like someone actually seeing her actual "Daddy" in one of the parties (yikes!). Learn about their unique roles as community leaders, how they navigate the tricky waters of consent, and the usual party mishaps. Find them on FetLife: Pope - Jim Caramel Aphrodite - Veronica Episode Highlights: 03:00 Community Roles: The Community Mom and Dad 33:51 Establishing Party Rules and Safety 40:25 Navigating Kink Communities 41:40 Advice for Newcomers 01:09:06 Dealing with Fetish Missteps Connect with Me: https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ Book your consultation here: https://thekinkconsultant.com/bookings Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!

2 Okt 20241h 20min

Ep 04 - Spanking 101: Balancing Kink, Consent, and Boundaries with AGS

Ep 04 - Spanking 101: Balancing Kink, Consent, and Boundaries with AGS

In this episode, I’m joined by AGoodSpankin as we dive into one of the most common yet misunderstood fetishes—spanking. AGS shares his personal journey, from discovering his love for spanking at a young age to becoming a SpankTube content creator. We discuss how he uses his platform and podcast to help others embrace their kinks more openly.  You’ll also hear some wild stories—from being mistaken as gay because of his love for spanking, to dealing with a creepy stalker, and even paying $75 to watch spanking videos back in the '80s! On top of that, we tackle the crucial topic of boundaries in kink. AGS and I explore how to set and maintain boundaries while ensuring clear communication, consent, and safety in any dynamic. If you’re looking for practical advice, authentic stories, and a deeper understanding of spanking, this episode has it all. Tune in for raw, honest insights and expert guidance! Connect with AGoodSpankin:  Listen to his podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2nmEpCSJn9UEigZp3Z1uKc?si=8d9da2a32c424813 Watch his videos:  https://www.spankingtube.com/user/agoodspankin Connect with Me:  https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you! Book your consultation here. https://thekinkconsultant.com/bookings

18 Sep 202453min

Ep 03 - Answering Your Questions: From Rates to Rules in the Dungeon

Ep 03 - Answering Your Questions: From Rates to Rules in the Dungeon

In this episode, I answer your burning questions from the first two episodes! From balancing finances with my dominatrix career to navigating dungeon dynamics, I spill the details on rates, tips, and the unwritten rules of conduct. I also share some valuable lessons that are pretty useful even outside the dungeon like how to negotiate, set boundaries, and truly connect with people on an intimate level. If you’re curious about all of these, then be sure to tune in as I take you behind-the-scenes.  Episode Highlights  00:54 How Much I Make as a Dominatrix  04:09 Some Challenges and Realizations 05:33 Favorite and Least Favorite Clients 09:34 Dominatrix Name and Conduct Rules Connect with Me:  https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!Book your consultation here.

12 Sep 202412min

Ep 02 - Into the Dungeon: My First Day as a Dominatrix

Ep 02 - Into the Dungeon: My First Day as a Dominatrix

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on how I went from a Wall Street Journal desk job to stepping into a dominatrix role I never saw coming. I’ll take you through the nerve-wracking moments of my first day in a Garment District dungeon, where I faced unexpected client requests and discovered a side of myself I didn’t know existed. I’ll also share the adrenaline-pumping experiences that made this the most exhilarating job of my life—and why I couldn’t wait for the next session. Tune in to hear how my secret life began, the wild twists along the way, and the invaluable lessons I learned! Episode Highlights  01:03 The Craigslist Ad That Changed My Life  05:39 First Impressions and Rules 08:49 Preparing for the First Shift 13:28 Meeting the Clients and Learning the Ropes 18:34 What Made Me Want to Go Back  Connect with Me:  https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!Book your consultation here.

6 Sep 202418min

Ep 01 - How I Became the Kink Consultant

Ep 01 - How I Became the Kink Consultant

Welcome to the first episode of The Kink Consultant! I’m excited to take you on a journey into the world of kink, BDSM, and sex positivity. In this episode, I share my story—starting with a childhood fascination with spanking that grew into a passion for kink. At 24, while working in finance by day, I answered a Craigslist ad for dominatrixes by night, and it changed my life. Balancing my Wall Street career with my secret life as a dominatrix was thrilling, but when both worlds collided, I had to make some tough choices. Eventually, I left the dungeon and followed a new path: becoming a sex and relationship coach. Now, as The Kink Consultant, I’m here to demystify kink, break down stigmas, and create an open, fun space for exploration. Join me, subscribe, leave a review, and keep on kinkin' on! Episode Highlights  01:07 First Encounter with BDSM 02:38 Becoming a Dominatrix 04:53 Balancing Two Worlds 07:33 Transition to Kink Consultant 10:37 Why I started the Podcast Connect with Me:  https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!Book your consultation here.

4 Sep 202413min

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