152: Transformational Leadership: Navigating Authenticity and Innovation with Dan Tocchini

In this episode of The Modern Man, I welcome Hector Santiesteban, a father, husband, podcast strategist and growth consultant, and host of The Modern Masculinity Podcast. Listen in as Hector and I discuss some of the most pressing challenges and opportunities we have as men, fathers, and change-makers.   Hector gives insight into how you can undo generational trauma by intentionally crafting your child’s view of the world. He speaks on how to not lose yourself in parenting and how to be in service of others while chasing fulfillment instead of accolades.   “We have the opportunity to create direction or structure or to provide those lessons… if we so choose to take the opportunity to be present in the moment.” – Hector Santiesteban   Hector leaves you with this bit of wisdom: Chase your own while cultivating that of others.   Key Takeaways / What You’ll Learn: [00:44] About Hector Santiesteban. [03:23] Men thrive in being in service of others, but be intentional with what you wish for… [08:33] Why don’t men talk about their struggles? [13:15] Hector’s traumatic experience becoming a dad & Lessons he’s learning from fatherhood. [23:37] Teach your kids the things you never knew instead of giving them what you never had. [33:16] Parenting is not for you, it’s for the world. [35:42] Your purpose should be connected to something external. [41:14] How to connect with Hector. [43:17] As a man, what has shaped your view of the world?   If you enjoyed this episode, please SHARE it with a friend, then RATE/REVIEW The Modern Man on Apple Podcasts or Spotify!   Resources Mentioned: Join The Noble Knights: themodernman.gumroad.com Listen to the Modern Masculinity Podcast: https://modern-masculinity.captivate.fm    Connect with Hector Santiesteban: Follow him on Twitter: https://twitter.com/hector_podcast  Connect with him on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hector-santiesteban-64326340    Connect with The Modern Man: Connect with The Modern Man: Visit our website: themodernmanshow.com Join our Facebook group: The Modern Man  Follow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8  Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow  Subscribe to our YouTube channel:  The Modern Man Podcast

5 Juli 202348min

Welcome back, Knights! In this video, I talk about the transformative potential of consistency and KPIs. I talk about how to unlock your true capabilities by focusing on the untapped power of staying committed to your goals. Learn practical strategies to measure your progress using Key Performance Indicators (KPIs) and leverage them as guiding beacons on your path to success. I share insights and motivation to elevate every aspect of your life. Don’t miss out on this opportunity to take charge of your journey and witness remarkable growth. Don’t give up on your treasure, three feet from gold! ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com/ Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themodernman Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast/ Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/ @TheModernManPodcast

3 Juli 20236min

In this episode of The Modern Man, I welcome Edward Sturm, an entrepreneur, digital content creator, and marketer. Tune in as Edward reveals what happens when you stop being inconsistent, start pursuing a long-term vision, and commit to being accountable for your goals. Edward gets vulnerable about the biggest mistakes and lessons he’s learned from traveling the world and working with the world’s largest companies. He breaks down the steps you need to take to build a successful career or business, take (healthy) control of your relationships, and even live an abundant life abroad. “It’s really motivating when you actually have a long-term vision for how big whatever it is that you’re doing can get.” – Edward Sturm Remember, be the pilot that gets someone somewhere. Stick to your ideas and goals, be consistent, and don’t let other people dictate the success of your future. “If someone doesn’t like you, it doesn’t matter because other people will.” – Edward Sturm   Key Takeaways / What You’ll Learn: [00:43] About Edward Sturm. [07:48] The biggest mistake of Edward’s life. [08:56] Key steps to building a successful business or career. [11:23] How to be serious while not taking life too seriously. [14:54] Being yourself with social anxiety – Is it possible? [16:01] Going from insecure to having high self-esteem. [21:05] Why accountability is essential in life. [25:38] How Edward chooses where to travel/live. [30:37] Lessons learned from traveling and living abroad. [36:29] The power of having a long-term vision. [37:35] Edward’s favorite self-development tools and habits. [39:21] Why following trends is a mistake. [42:22] Edward’s biggest failure and best advice. [46:44] How to connect with Edward. [48:04] As a man, what has shaped your view of the world?   If you enjoyed this episode, please SHARE it with a friend, then RATE/REVIEW The Modern Man on Apple Podcasts or Spotify!   Resources Mentioned: Join The Noble Knights: https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights  The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida: https://bit.ly/43A70Z4 Reverb: https://reverb.chat  Commit Club: https://commitclub.co  The Hustle Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-hustle/id1050310200  All-In Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/all-in-with-chamath-jason-sacks-friedberg/id1502871393    Connect with Edward Sturm: Visit his website: https://edwardsturm.com  Follow him on Instagram: https://instagram.com/edward.builds  Follow him on Twitter: https://twitter.com/showprogress  Follow him on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@build_in_public    Connect with The Modern Man: Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com  Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/244885633101820  Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8  Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast  Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg

28 Juni 202353min

In this week’s Modern Modent discover the transformative power of habit stacking. Listen In as I share how small actions, strategically combined, can create significant positive change in your life. Learn practical tips and proven techniques to build effective habits and maximize your productivity, success, and overall well-being. Join me on this journey of personal growth and unlock your true potential through the art of habit stacking. A couple of books to explore: Atomic Habits - James Clear: https://amzn.to/3NGh0dH The Power of Habit - Charles Duhigg: https://amzn.to/3CJnxxZ ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com/ Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themodernman Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast/ Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/ @TheModernManPodcast

26 Juni 20236min

In this episode of The Modern Man, I welcome Christopher Weedon, Founder of Mentally Shredded, a foundation that was born from his battle with anxiety and depression. Chris has made it his mission to change the stigma of mental health and empower people through personal development. Listen in as Chris shares the powerful advice, tools, and mindset shifts he used to break free from anxiety and depression and get Mentally Shredded.   Chris emphasizes how important it is to have an identity and purpose outside of work, make exercise part of your lifestyle, and rebuild your foundation of mental health when it crumbles. He describes how transformative it can be to establish a supportive, constructive network of people in your life that can help you develop into the exact person you want and need to be.   “The personal development piece… there’s no way I would be here talking to you without that.” – Christopher Weedon   Keep this in mind… We all love sunshine, but it’s the rain that helps everything grow. Through every storm, be sure to put your armor on, stand tall, and keep doing what you need to do to fill up your cup.   “I call this the grocery store mentality. Take what aligns with you and put it in your basket. Whatever doesn’t align with you, leave it on the shelf because you can’t do what I’m doing and you can’t do exactly what Ted is doing either. You have to figure out what is working, what is not working, and it’s an ebb and flow.” – Christopher Weedon   Key Takeaways / What You’ll Learn: [00:57] About Christopher Weedon. [02:16] How physical fitness impacts mental health. [04:13] Identity & Purpose: What happens when your foundation crumbles? [08:15] About Chris’ battle with anxiety & depression. [14:48] Rebuilding your mental health with affirmations, gratitude, and the right relationships. [20:09] How to put your armor on and become Mentally Shredded. [26:09] How Chris is using personal development to change the stigma of mental health. [33:13] Don’t wait until the world forces you to make a change. [34:57] Why do men have a hard time talking about mental health? [39:05] How to connect with Chris & get involved with Mentally Shredded. [41:26] As a man, what has shaped your view of the world?   If you enjoyed this episode, please SHARE it with a friend, then RATE/REVIEW The Modern Man on Apple Podcasts or Spotify!   Resources Mentioned: Join The Noble Knights: https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights  Listen to The Mentally Shredded Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mentallyshreddedpodcast    Connect with Christopher Weedon: Visit his website: https://www.christopherdweedon.com  Follow him on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wearementallyshredded  Follow Mentally Shredded Foundation on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentallyshreddedfoundation    Connect with The Modern Man: Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com  Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/244885633101820  Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8  Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast  Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg

21 Juni 202347min

I share a few strategies that will help you unlock your true potential and elevate every aspect of your life. From enhancing your confidence, improving self-esteem, and fostering meaningful relationships to achieving career success, personal fulfillment, and overall happiness, I explain why we all should focus on self-improvement. Learn why investing in personal growth and becoming a high-value man is the ultimate game-changer for success, happiness, and a better quality of life. ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com/ Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themodernman Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast/ Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/ @TheModernManPodcast

19 Juni 20237min

In this episode of The Modern Man, I’m joined by Edwin Carrion, a family-oriented investor, serial entrepreneur, mentor, author, and “God-made millionaire”. Tune in to learn how Edwin from nothing to becoming a millionaire, his advice for family men who want to be entrepreneurs and mentors, and the failures and lessons he’s experienced along the way.   Edwin shares the pivotal moment that inspired him to live life to the fullest and set important boundaries between business and family life. He highlights the biggest mistake everyone makes when investing in their future, his top tips for raising capital to start your own business, and how he manages to balance multiple seven-figure businesses while raising a family.   This story is nothing short of eye-opening, inspiring, and above all, transformational. Edwin is proof that success will find you no matter your circumstances if you believe in yourself and surround yourself with the right people.   “We can never get back to yesterday, but we can always have a better tomorrow.” – Edwin Carrion   Key Takeaways / What You’ll Learn: [00:44] About Edwin Carrion. [04:40] Who gave you the opportunities and knowledge that made you successful? [08:50] Being a family-oriented businessman - Is there a cost of success? [13:08] Do I need money to start a business? [19:28] Asking for money: Tips and advice on raising capital to start a business. [22:05] The secret to managing multiple businesses AND a family. [30:14] Mistakes, failures, and lessons Edwin experienced in entrepreneurship. [32:23] What are your goals and visions for the future? [34:01] How to connect with Edwin. [35:13] As a man, what has shaped your view of the world?   If you enjoyed this episode, please SHARE it with a friend, then RATE/REVIEW The Modern Man on Apple Podcasts or Spotify!   Resources Mentioned: Join The Noble Knights: https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights Get a FREE copy of “9 Secrets for a Successful Life & Business” by Edwin Carrion: https://www.edwincarrion.com/9secrets   Connect with Edwin Carrion: Visit his website: https://www.edwincarrion.com Follow him on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/edwincarrion78 Follow him on Twitter: https://twitter.com/Edwincarrion78 Connect with him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EdwinCarrion78 Join his Startup to Millions Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/startuptomillions Connect with him on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/edwincarrion   Connect with The Modern Man: Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/244885633101820 Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_modernman_show Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg

14 Juni 202342min

Welcome to another Monday Modern Moment! This week, discover the ultimate learning hack to turbocharge your knowledge acquisition! In this video, I reveal the power of 2x speed and how it can revolutionize your learning journey. By gradually working your way up, you’ll learn how to absorb audiobooks and videos at double the speed without sacrificing comprehension! Don’t wanna learn alone? Join a community of avid learners and subscribe to our channel for more learning hacks, productivity tips, and educational resources. Unlock your full learning potential, gain a competitive edge, and become a knowledge powerhouse by working your way up to 2x speed! It’s time to revolutionize the way you learn with this simple hack! ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com/ Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themodernman Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast/ Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/ @TheModernManPodcast

12 Juni 20235min