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Ep 525: Weekend Hotwife Surprise, Chapter 3. Written and narrated by podcast host, erotica and erotic romance fiction author Ruan Willow (me!). Scroll down to find out about the hurricane relief anthology with 40+ erotica authors and the just released spicy fiction Halloween anthology too! Nola and Jasper have been married for many years and love to enjoy each other sexually. Due to work and family life obligations, exercising their marital sex life has been extraordinarily challenging lately. They really need a spicy weekend away, just the two of them to rejuvenate their relationship. Luckily, they found someone to watch the kids and they are heading to a hotel for the weekend. A full weekend of sex! They can't wait. Jasper has dreamt up some hot sexy surprises for Nola, including something really epic she's always fantasized about but never thought they'd ever do. Being open together sexually is taken to the next level and their marriage will never be the same once the most exciting surprise is revealed. The full story contains spicy open door scenes, alternative lifestyle elements, wife sharing, explicit sex scenes, and hot-wife themes. Hey y'all! Get the smut! Enjoy this erotic audio storytelling full of steamy hot spicy sexuality and which focuses on the celebrating of open relationships! This book can be read on Kindle Unlimited: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/weekendhotwifesurprise Stay tuned for one more chapter coming next week! CHARITY ANTHOLOGY! ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 40+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, A Limited Edition Collection from your Favorite Spicy Authors. Ge the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology 40+ flavors of spice, one sweet cause. We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places). So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint! Note: Reading in public may cause spontaneous fanning, uncontrollable grins, and an irresistible urge to wink at strangers. Proceed with caution and a tall glass of water! Trick or Tease II Erotica Halloween Anthology... Ruan has a story in this newly released spicy anthology! Get the spooky sexy paranormal wicked fun! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/trickorteaseIIhalloweenanthology Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

23 Okt 202425min

Ep 523: Join Ruan Willow in a captivating conversation with Parneet, the co-founder of Theo Reads, a groundbreaking platform dedicated to publishing romance and spicy stories. This episode dives deep into the inspiration behind Theo Reads, a space that promises to break taboos around desire and provide readers with a wide range of tropes, kinks, and spice levels without the censorship found elsewhere. Parneet shares her journey from a seasoned marketing expert to a passionate advocate for romance and spice literature. She discusses the challenges faced by authors in the current publishing landscape and how Theo Reads aims to create a safe, inclusive space for both readers and writers. Discover how this platform plans to revolutionize the way we consume and appreciate romantic and spicy narratives, catering to every fantasy from mild to extra spicy. Explore the unique features of Theo Reads, including their commitment to well-written stories, engaging plotlines, and diverse characters. Learn about the importance of normalizing desire and intimacy across all communities and the critical role of romance and spice in enhancing personal relationships and wellbeing. Quote from Parneet "It's 2024, people. Enough with the guilt and the shame. Can we just normalize desire and intimacy?" Quote from Ruan Willow "Sex is natural. It's a part of being a human." Attention all romance authors and writers, indie authors, self publishing authors, those who write about love from spicy open door themes to closed door, come join Theo Reads! https://theoreads.com/ - 02:25 - Theo says readers want well written stories and romance and spice - 08:34 - Big tech companies are telling us what to read and it needs to stop - 13:04 - Sexual health is so incredibly important to our mental wellbeing and physical well being - 15:29 - 34% of men read or listen to romance and spice, survey finds - 19:09 - Are you able to share some of the names of the authors who will be featured - 25:07 - There is a stigma about reading romance which isn't true. The average romance and spice reader is better educated than the average American - 33:32 - it's incredibly hard to publish stories on Amazon and be seen How can people join Theo Reads? You can write to us - 42:48 - A lot of romance stories come from marginalized communities - 47:37 - As authors and readers, we need a symbiotic relationship - 49:12 - There's a huge disconnect between where authors post and where readers read stories - 53:31 - You do whatever you feel you have to do, you know, Instagram, et cetera - 53:46 - There is a need amongst authors for data like up to date data New! Over 40 spicy romance/erotica authors have joined forces to create a charity anthology! You can get spicy stories and help a cause at the same time! Get the Not-So-Guilty Pleasures: 40+ Filthy Stories for a Cause: A Charity Anthology. This is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane relief). https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology For a limited time only. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

18 Okt 202456min

Ep 522: Weekend Hotwife Surprise, Chapter 2. Written and narrated by podcast host, erotica and erotic romance fiction author Ruan Willow (me!). Nola and Jasper have been married for many years and love to enjoy each other sexually. Due to work and family life obligations, exercising their marital sex life has been extraordinarily challenging lately. They really need a spicy weekend away, just the two of them to rejuvenate their relationship. Luckily, they found someone to watch the kids and they are heading to a hotel for the weekend. A full weekend of sex! They can't wait. Jasper has dreamt up some hot sexy surprises for Nola, including something really epic she's always fantasized about but never thought they'd ever do. Being open together sexually is taken to the next level and their marriage will never be the same once the most exciting surprise is revealed. The full story contains spicy open door scenes, alternative lifestyle elements, wife sharing, explicit sex scenes, and hot-wife themes. Hey y'all! Get the smut! Enjoy this erotic audio storytelling full of steamy hot spicy sexuality and which focuses on the celebrating of open relationships! This book can be read on Kindle Unlimited: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/weekendhotwifesurprise Stay tuned for more chapters in the coming weeks! Erotica and erotic romance author Ruan Willow's new fiction book, a Romantasy, an open door HEA spicy story of romance and fantasy, with romance first and foremost in importance: Wingless Hunger, Book 1 in the Arching Hunger Series. ARC's will be available on BookSirens. The book Wingless Hunger releases on October 15th, 2024 https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/winglesshunger Buy a copy and help with the launch! The book is LIVE TODAY! It's also available in Kindle Unlimited on Amazon. Find podcast host Ruan Willow's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Check out this list of hot steamy books all available on Kindle Unlimited: https://storyoriginapp.com/to/5gLIk1D Spicy Audiobook list: https://storyoriginapp.com/to/4YFCMn1 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

15 Okt 202413min

Season 4, Episode 521: 18+. Join Ruan Willow in an enlightening discussion with Brianna Carey, a relationship and intimacy coach with over 16 years of experience. Brianna shares her insights into the common challenges women face in reclaiming their desire and exploring pleasure, especially after significant life transitions like childbirth. This episode delves into the importance of communication, understanding, and the use of tools like sex toys to enhance intimacy in relationships. Brianna, along with her husband Mark, a licensed professional counselor, provides couples with the guidance needed to create deeper connections and more fulfilling intimacy in their marriage while navigating the complexities of parenthood. Discover how understanding the erotic blueprints can transform your sexual expression and relationship dynamics. This episode is packed with valuable advice on embracing pleasure, the significance of self-exploration, and the benefits of incorporating tools like vibrators into your intimate life. Women, learn why it's crucial to prioritize your pleasure and connection with your partner, and how to overcome societal stigmas surrounding female sexuality. Listen in as Ruan and Brianna discuss the power of pleasure, the journey to self-discovery, and how to break free from the constraints of guilt and shame. Whether you're looking to reignite the spark in your relationship or explore your own desires, this episode is a must-listen. 00:01:29 " Many women decide they don't want sex after having a baby 00:08:02 " External stimulation is so important during pregnancy and postpartum care 00:12:45 " You work with women who are ready to take ownership of their pleasure 00:16:11 " About 85% of women need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm 00:21:58 " Bullet 00:26:58 " Use lubricants 100% in the bedroom, not just vibrators 00:27:41 " The erotic blueprints help you understand each other and how to communicate 00:32:52 " The first year postpartum is so crucial for a relationship 00:36:58 " What drove you to create your podcast, and what type of things do 00:41:51 " Women need to take 30 minutes a week to relax and enjoy their bodies Connect with Brianna: https://www.intimacyevolution.com/ Quotes from Brianna: "If you don't use it, you lose it, applies to your libido and orgasms." "Every woman deserves to experience their pleasure to the absolute fullest and know what desire is and create that." "Release the expectation of an end result, and you will see how much more you're able to enjoy it." Quotes from Ruan: "Why does our culture have to see it differently when it's our genitals, it's just another part of our body." "We are sexual beings. We are. It's okay to enjoy it. It's okay to want it." Books: Servicing the Work Men https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures I Dare You https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

11 Okt 202447min

Episode 519: Weekend Hotwife Surprise, Chapter 1. Written and narrated by podcast host, erotica and erotic romance fiction author Ruan Willow (me!). Nola and Jasper have been married for many years and love to enjoy each other sexually. Due to work and family life obligations, exercising their marital sex life has been extraordinarily challenging lately. They really need a spicy weekend away, just the two of them to rejuvenate their relationship. Luckily, they found someone to watch the kids and they are heading to a hotel for the weekend. A full weekend of sex! They can't wait. Jasper has dreamt up some hot sexy surprises for Nola, including something really epic she's always fantasized about but never thought they'd ever do. Being open together sexually is taken to the next level and their marriage will never be the same once the most exciting surprise is revealed. The full story contains spicy open door scenes, alternative lifestyle elements, wife sharing, explicit sex scenes, and hot-wife themes. Enjoy this erotic audio storytelling full of steamy hot spicy sexuality and which focuses on the celebrating of open relationships! This book can be read on Kindle Unlimited: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/weekendhotwifesurprise Stay tuned for more chapters in the coming weeks! Erotica and erotic romance author Ruan Willow's new fiction book, a Romantasy, an open door HEA spicy story of romance and fantasy, with romance first and foremost in importance: Wingless Hunger, Book 1 in the Arching Hunger Series. ARC's will be available on BookSirens. The book Wingless Hunger releases on October 15th, 2024 https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/winglesshunger Reserve a copy in presale and help with the launch! GET AN ARC of Wingless Hunger: https://forms.gle/fG9pWHX8HRgXE3q5A Find podcast host Ruan Willow's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Check out this list of hot steamy books all available on Kindle Unlimited: https://storyoriginapp.com/to/5gLIk1D Spicy Audiobook list: https://storyoriginapp.com/to/4YFCMn1 Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

8 Okt 202417min

Episode 518: Dominance, Desire, & Spicy Romance with indie author Lizzie B. Brown! Lizzie is a romance author who packs the spice into every story. She lives in the Pacific Northwest with her family and two dogs. When she's not writing about bisexual besties or forbidden romances, you can find her by the fireplace with a book in one hand and a glass of red wine in the other. Find out more: http://www.lizziebbrown.com/ Welcome to our writing chat! We dive into the steamy world of romance and erotica. We explore the importance of including sex in romance stories to give readers the full picture of a relationship. We discuss Lizzie's book, Obedience, Volume One, (excerpt in the episode), a captivating age-gap romance where the female lead takes charge, challenging the conventional dynamics often seen in such stories. Discover how Lizzie's experiences and love for storytelling have shaped her writing process, from fanfiction beginnings to self publishing on platforms like Kindle Vella. Lizzie also shares insights into her writing routine, the challenges of editing, and the significance of patience and perseverance in the writing journey. If you're a fan of romance that embraces the raw, unfiltered aspects of relationships, you won't want to miss this episode. 00:02:10 " romance is incomplete if it doesn't have sex 00:07:34 " I think erotica helps people become more open about their sexuality 00:10:43 " You started writing erotic fan fiction early on 00:12:12 " Pantser or plotter? 00:15:01 " write on my phone more often than not because I'm easily distracted 00:17:03 " I really love age gap romance. But I know some people don't like 00:22:46 " Do you find you have more female readers or male readers 00:29:11 " Reading a book together can be a great conversation starter 00:29:44 " Do you have a favorite and worst part of the writing process 00:32:55 " I actually started writing again because of audiobooks 00:41:30 " Vella 00:46:18 " Do you find you ever have to do much research? 00:47:27 " What was an early experience where you learned that language had power 00:49:01 " Do you tend to share your work with people in your life 00:54:12 " What do you define as success as an author? 01:00:29 " Is there any advice you have for someone considering doing... BOOKS! Obedience Volume One (affiliate link, podcast may receive a commission on purchases, thanks for the support): https://amzn.to/3TVBHoM Vella https://amzn.to/4dBYGMB Friendsgiving with Benefits: https://amzn.to/47VwnaL Erotica & erotic romance author Ruan Willow's new fiction book, a Romantasy, open door romance, HEA, fantasy Wingless Hunger https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/winglesshunger GET AN ARC: https://forms.gle/WKJhu3wyQvRora6e6 Ruan Willow's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ headliner assistance  Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

4 Okt 20241h 7min

Season 4, Episode 516: ASMR Journey Daddy Dom and Sub Smut Scene, plus bonus replaying of Relax, Arouse, Climax, Ride the Guided Pleasure. Enjoy a sensual sound filled experience of a Dominant and his sub as they play, pleasure, and climax. Lots of 'good girl's' are spilled as are rolling waves of bursting satiation as the two interact. Indulge in your guilty pleasures and have a listen. Also enjoy the bonus replaying of another ASMR: Relax, Arouse, Climax, & Ride the Guided Journey of ASMR Pleasure.  Enoy this meditation fantasy told in Ruan's soothing yet arousing voice. You own your sexuality, your own experience, baby, take it, it's yours and yours alone...unless you want to give it away that is. Either way, you decide because you own it. No one can take your sexuality away from you. Grab the reigns in your life and search for ways of expanding personal growth in your own sexuality and sexual wellness. Sexual health is a part of your mental health, don't ignore it. Listen to this erotic audio for self care, stress relief, and entertainment enjoyment. This episode was sponsored by Naughty Nook PR: providing spicy romance author and reader services, find out more information at: website: www.naughtynookpr.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/naughtynookpr/ Threads: https://www.threads.net/@naughtynookpr Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61564879741003 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@naughtynookpr Erotica and erotic romance author Ruan Willow's new fiction book, a Romantasy, an open door HEA spicy story of romance and fantasy, with romance first and foremost in importance: Wingless Hunger, Book 1 in the Arching Hunger Series. ARC's will be available on BookSirens. The book Wingless Hunger releases on October 15th, 2024 https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/winglesshunger Reserve a copy in presale and help with the launch! GET AN ARC of Wingless Hunger: https://forms.gle/WKJhu3wyQvRora6e6 Find podcast host Ruan Willow's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

1 Okt 202432min

Ep 515: Love Beyond Boundaries: Interracial and Trans Ethnic Dating and Sex with Podcaster Alex K, of the Talking Kink with Alex & Ellie. We dive deep into the complex and often misunderstood world of interracial and trans ethnic relationships, dating, and sex. This episode was inspired by a listener's request, and it promises to be an enlightening conversation that tackles taboos and sheds light on the nuances of cross-cultural romantic and sexual relationships, complete with examples, self help, and self care dating advice. Alex shares his personal experiences and insights, discussing the challenges and joys of dating outside one's culture. From the fetishization of certain races/ethnic groups to the cultural norms that shape our dating lives, this conversation covers it all. Whether you're curious about the dynamics of interracial dating or looking for ways to navigate your own cross-cultural relationship, this episode offers valuable perspectives and advice. Don't forget to check out "Talking Kink with Alex and Ellie" on all major podcast platforms for more uncensored, educational, and entertaining discussions about kinks, fetishes, and taboos.   Listen to Ruan's guest spot on their podcast about the history and culture of selfies: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-28-tit-for-tat-with-the-snap/id1727462400?i=1000663470138 Find out more about the podcast: https://www.talkingkinkpodcast.com/ Disclaimer: This episode contains adult content and is intended for listeners over the age of 18. 05:56 When you date someone from another race, there are certain hurdles to overcome 11:56 Anything that even remotely looks like malice can trigger heightened sensitivity 16:34 have you found any differences in the actual mechanics 17:44 Dating in Eastern Europe depends on the culture 21:22 It depends on the family. There are some eastern European cultures that wait until marriage 25:53 And she absolutely freaked about that. And from that point on, I was a monster who corrupted her friend 27:23 Have you faced any prejudice for dating somebody from a different race or ethnic group 33:33 Some Americans feel like they don't have any ancestral history 39:41 I think where Americans views Europeans as being more permissive when it comes to sex 43:38 Alex and Ellie discuss interracial relationships on Talking Kink podcast 46:15 Servicing the workmen, Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures audiobook blurb. Get the audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventuresaudiobook Show notes created by https://headliner.app Ruan's books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

27 Sep 202448min