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Ep 639: Small Town Romance with Big Heart: Crafting Authentic Queer Stories with Britton Ashley.  Dive into the charming world of Gunnison, Colorado, where author Britton Ashley crafts compelling small-town romances featuring authentic, diverse characters who feel like old friends. In this captivating conversation, Britton reveals how she weaves neurodivergent, queer, and chronically ill representation into her interconnected standalone stories, creating a rich tapestry of relatable experiences. From "Covered in You" to "Casual Sparks," the works showcase her dedication to authentic storytelling. The episode explores her evolution as a writer during the pandemic, balancing the challenges of character development with the need for genuine representation. Personal experiences, including the loss of a loved one, have deeply influenced her narrative approach, infusing her stories with raw emotion and genuine family dynamics. Whether you're a romance reader craving authentic representation or a writer navigating your creative journey, this episode offers valuable insights into the craft of storytelling. Tune in to discover how Britton transforms real-life experiences into compelling romance narratives that resonate with readers worldwide. Timeline: 00:00:00 - Interview with Author Britton Ashley 00:13:30 - Choosing Between Plotting and Pantsing 00:17:53 - Challenges of Writing and Marketing 00:20:00 - Tips for Editing and Proofreading 00:21:49 - Understanding Book Spice Levels 00:25:50 - Writing for Different Audiences 00:29:27 - Awkward Reintroduction and Lightning Strike excerpt 00:34:34 - Stormy Night Reflections 00:37:21 - Character Development in Writing 00:40:57 - Character Design and Book Development 00:44:09 - Writing Rituals and Creative Processes 00:51:30 - Indie Author Experience and Community 00:59:42 - Celebrating Feminine Energy and Creativity 01:02:29 - Growth in the Bookstagram Community 01:04:21 - Celebrating Human Connection at Events 01:06:22 - Exciting Upcoming Author Events 01:16:46 - Excitement for Booked Eau Claire Event 01:18:50 - Future Book Plans and Themes 01:24:01 - Writing a Regency Horror Novel Key Takeaways: • Smaller towns can provide a rich backdrop for diverse character development, challenging the stereotype that only big cities inspire complex stories.   • The pandemic has significantly influenced creativity, prompting writers to find new ways to balance structure with spontaneity in their work.   • Authenticity in portraying romance is crucial for meeting reader expectations, underscoring the challenges authors face in promotion and representation. Books (affiliate links): https://amzn.to/4o8FOLx https://amzn.to/4olGGga Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

25 Juli 20251h 26min

Episode 637: A Previously Exclusive episode only for subscribers now out on the main podcast for all: Sex in the Morning Sun with My Daddy erotic scene with ASMR sounds. Delicious intimacy in the morning for this couple enjoying orgasms in the sun. Erotic romance entertainment arts for your enjoyment. Erotic romance as erotic fiction to enjoy alone or with your partner. This is a heterosexual story. Enjoy the hot sound filled ASMR storytelling! Crush Virtual Erotic Con! CRUSH PublicationsDon't forget to enter for your chance to win tons of books and now the prize of trip to a VEGAS RESORT, 3 Days, 2 nights for 2 is added in as a prize! Learn more here: 2025 Giveaway's & VIP Packages - by CRUSH Publications NOW get 30% OFF a VIP ticket! http://www.eventbrite.com/e/951515667977/?discount=30 You can watch the Con for FREE but for a chance to win the books and the getaway, you can buy a VIP ticket for $15.I'm on the narrator panel for this conference at 3 pm CST.New Releases and other sales! Smashwords Sale for July 2025, 50% off Ruan's books: https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/RuanWillow Summer Teases 2 An erotic story anthology of summer sexy fun! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/summerteases2anthology Beach House Views on Theo Reads now is live through chapter 9! This is my erotic suspense thriller romance, dark romance with lots of sex in it. Each chapter is only 0.99 cents. You won't believe what John Penn is about to do! Read the chapters exclusively here: Theo | Theo Romance Book Blast day! July 22 ONLY!  Get my books I Dare You, an erotic rom com at this link:https://www.romancebooklovers.com/steamy Deception's Snare Romantasy https://www.romancebooklovers.com/fantasy ALL books: https://www.romancebooklovers.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

22 Juli 202519min

Ep 636: **Breaking Free from Traditional Masculinity: A Journey of Healing and Connection** Dive into a powerful conversation with Tyler, host of the masculinity podcast "STAG," as he shares his transformative journey from battling alcoholism in the people around him while growing up and in himself to creating meaningful spaces for male connection. This eye-opening episode explores how informal stag meetings are revolutionizing the way men approach emotional well-being and vulnerability. Key highlights: - Overcoming alcoholism and finding purpose through community building - Challenging toxic masculinity and embracing authentic male connections - The role of vulnerability in fostering genuine relationships - Navigating intimacy, trust, and personal boundaries - Understanding the difference between jealousy and healthy attachment - The importance of emotional connections over superficial encounters Through raw and honest dialogue, Tyler demonstrates how breaking free from traditional masculine norms can lead to profound personal growth and stronger communities. His story serves as a powerful reminder that true strength lies in our ability to be vulnerable and support one another. Ready to challenge your perspectives on modern masculinity? Listen to this transformative episode that's changing the conversation around male connection and emotional well-being. Timeline: 00:00:02 - Introduction to the Guest Podcast 00:02:35 - Exploring Modern Masculinity 00:06:38 - Respect and Vulnerability in Relationships 00:23:07 - Exploring Boundaries in Relationships 00:48:46 - Understanding Clit Boners 00:52:45 - Conversations on Pleasure and Generational Ideas 00:57:05 - Embracing Pleasure and Self-Acceptance 00:58:55 - Understanding Sexuality and Media Influence 01:15:13 - Exploring Pleasure and Spirituality 01:23:50 - Finding Balance in Self-Service 01:30:01 - Understanding Negative Reactions to Service 01:32:40 - Exploring Boundaries and Sexuality 01:55:13 - Enjoying Conversations and Podcast Insights Takeaways: • Tyler's journey through alcoholism led to the creation of stag meetings, highlighting the need for structured spaces for men to discuss emotional challenges openly.   • The dialogue critiques traditional masculinity, arguing that vulnerability and authenticity are essential components of healthy male relationships.   • The distinction between jealousy and envy is explored, emphasizing the importance of trust and understanding one's desires in fostering deeper emotional connections. STAG Podcast: http://stagpod.com/ Ruan's appearance on STAG: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5ySEOlaLuQtZCYX6nJCEmD?si=JC7vwcZ3SWS_4HVfOKFEvA https://open.spotify.com/episode/6jGCcNSKckFA1ctC1cBQ8k?si=Mwec27LKTeSvQeu9ijYFMQ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

18 Juli 20251h 57min

Episode 634: Hot Summer Sex Part 2: Five Point Stimulation to Euphoric Sexual Bliss. Anna and Dane continue their erotic adventure in the screen tent in their backyard. Dane has created a contraption to secure sex toys in to blow Anna's mind, and his ultimate goal is to give her five points of erogenous stimulation to help her reach orgasmic heights...but he gets to fulfill some fantasies, too, an oral pounding he's been wanting to try. Join in the summer heat as these two lovers expand their sexual boundaries and blow out the top of their sexual expectations, as they attain new heights of bliss. Enjoy the erotic romance, erotic fiction storytelling to spark your sexual wellbeing, enhance your sexual wellness, and peak your sexuality and your imagination in yummy adventures! It's a story about sexy relationships, reaching for and attaining orgasmic delights. It's an erotica storytelling story! Listen to part 1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/17466395 Crush Virtual Erotic Con! CRUSH Publications Don't forget to enter for your chance to win tons of books and now the prize of trip to a VEGAS RESORT, 3 Days, 2 nights for 2 is added in as a prize! Learn more here: 2025 Giveaway's & VIP Packages - by CRUSH Publications Enter your entry to win your chance at a free ticket the con You can watch the Con for FREE but for a chance to win the books and the getaway, you can buy a VIP ticket for $15. I'm on the narrator panel for this conference. Ruan's New Release: Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Summer Teases 2 An erotic story anthology of summer sexy fun! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/summerteases2anthology Smashwords Sale for July 2025, 50% off Ruan's books: https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

15 Juli 202536min

Ep 633: A Journey to Sexual Liberation! Join us! Lauren Elise Rogers is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, celebrated for her warm and approachable style. Her holistic and embodied approach to education and coaching is deeply rooted in her own pain-to-purpose journey. Summary: Discover how Lauren Elise Rogers transformed from a restrictive Bible Belt upbringing to become a certified holistic sexuality educator helping others reclaim their sexual autonomy. This powerful episode explores the intersection of faith, sexuality, pleasure, and personal empowerment. Lauren shares her compelling journey through divorce and self-discovery, highlighting how early religious teachings can shape our relationship with intimacy. Through her work as an intimacy coach, she guides clients in untangling inherited beliefs about sexuality while maintaining their spiritual connections. Key highlights: - Exploring the contradiction between religious celebration and condemnation of sexuality - Understanding erotic plasticity and belief systems - Identifying and "weeding out" limiting beliefs from different life stages - The importance of body wisdom in setting boundaries - Reframing pleasure and consent in intimate relationships Ready to challenge your own beliefs about sexuality and spirituality? Listen to this transformative episode that bridges the gap between faith and sexual empowerment. Timeline: 00:00:02 - Exploring Sexual Wellness and Education, intimacy 00:03:07 - Exploring Sexuality and Religious Beliefs 00:07:25 - Exploring Faith and Spiritual Practices 00:09:41 - Embracing Pleasure and Human Experience 00:12:21 - Breaking Free from Negative Beliefs 00:26:17 - The Importance of Negotiating Pleasure 00:35:16 - Exploring the Roots of Sexuality 00:48:00 - Understanding Childhood Sexual Exploration 00:50:58 - Teaching Kids About Healthy Sexuality 00:53:33 - Body Image and Tampon Myths 00:54:53 - Questioning Beliefs About Sex and Consent 00:57:25 - Exploring Safe Consensual Sex Key Takeaways: • Lauren transformed her life from a restrictive background in Virginia's Bible Belt to embracing a pleasure-centered approach to intimacy, which challenges conventional religious teachings.   • Her journey included overcoming early marital struggles and a divorce, showcasing that personal growth can stem from significant life changes.   • Lauren emphasizes the importance of examining and redefining ingrained beliefs about relationships and self-worth to foster empowerment and self-awareness. Connect with Lauren: Website: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@partnershippodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

11 Juli 20251h 1min

Ep 631: The Hot Summer Sex Series has begun with this first story Hot Summer Sex: Seduction! An erotic romance story in the deep dark of night when the air is warm, the feels are mystically sensual, and the juicy climaxes abound! Dane bought a screen tent and surprises Anna with a seduction scene in it... but no clothes allowed for her...it's complete with a comfy air mattress, a basket of toys, drinks, and enough lanterns to spark even more magic than she can handle. The nighttime steaminess is off the charts when Dane edges Anna along by arousing her, but moving slow, even though he's more than ready to dive into pleasure, he wants her desperate and begging, and well-climaxed, before he coasts in. An erotic storytelling adventure for the heat of summer! More hot, sexy, intense summer intimate scenes to come! Take a healthy sexual wellness break and listen to this delicious erotic audio short story. More to come! Enjoy the entertainment! Crush Virtual Erotic Con! CRUSH Publications Don't forget to enter for your chance to win tons of books and now the prize of trip to a VEGAS RESORT, 3 Days, 2 nights for 2 is added in as a prize! Learn more here: 2025 Giveaway's & VIP Packages - by CRUSH Publications Enter your entry to win your chance at a free ticket the con You can watch the Con for FREE but for a chance to win the books and the getaway, you can buy a VIP ticket for $15. I'm on the narrator panel for this conference. Ruan's New Release: Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Summer Teases 2 An erotic story anthology of summer sexy fun! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/summerteases2anthology Smashwords Sale for July 2025, 50% off Ruan's books: https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/RuanWillow Payhip store: 25% OFF on Payhip through 7/15/2025 4:15 PM https://payhip.com/b/gA5M2 ARC: https://booksirens.com/author/H1HH6OK/BQMGP2J Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

8 Juli 202524min

Ep 630: # Finding Love Through Kink: A Revolutionary Dating App Ever wondered if your BDSM preferences could lead you to your perfect match? Meet Pieter, the innovative CEO who turned personal setbacks into a groundbreaking dating platform that matches users based on their BDSM test compatibility scores. This fascinating episode explores how a unique dating app is revolutionizing the way people connect by prioritizing sexual compatibility before diving into traditional dating metrics. Peter shares his journey from heartbreak to breakthrough, explaining how his platform helps users find meaningful connections through shared intimate preferences. The conversation delves into the evolution of the BDSM test as a tool for self-discovery, the importance of open communication in alternative relationships, and how understanding one's desires can lead to more fulfilling partnerships. From creative signaling methods to navigating cultural differences, this episode offers valuable insights into modern dating dynamics. Whether you're curious about alternative relationship styles or seeking a more authentic way to connect, this episode challenges conventional dating wisdom and offers a fresh perspective on finding love. 🎧 Listen now to discover how understanding your intimate preferences could be the key to finding your perfect match. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah 00:00:02 - Connecting Through BDSM Compatibility 00:04:32 - Revolutionizing Dating App Compatibility 00:08:58 - Understanding Sexual Compatibility in Relationships 00:14:35 - Understanding the BDSM Test Categories 00:16:45 - Growth of the BDSM Test 00:21:00 - Understanding Language Barriers and Relationships 00:24:40 - Understanding Submissive Dynamics 00:29:18 - Exploring Communication in Relationships 00:35:00 - Exploring BDSM and Sexual Compatibility 00:38:25 - Understanding acronyms in BDSM and Kink 00:46:24 - Importance of Communication and Consent 00:52:45 - Understanding Consensual Non-Consent 00:57:07 - Safety Signals in BDSM Practices 01:03:08 - Upcoming Features for the App Key Takeaways: • The BeeDee dating app prioritizes BDSM compatibility as a foundation for meaningful relationships while also challenging traditional dating norms.   • The BDSM test has evolved into a crucial tool for self-discovery, aiding individuals in understanding their desires and preferences.   • The emphasis on clear communication, signals, and introspection can significantly enhance relationship dynamics, even for those outside the BDSM community. Summary Cleanvoice ai Ruan's books on Smashwords https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

4 Juli 20251h 7min

Ep 628: Storm Sex An Erotic Improv Story, Ruan spins a story off the top of her head as she records...oh the deliciousness of an unexpected unscripted night at home, forced proximity to the basement to hide out and be safe from the storm raging outside! Mike and Felicia both gather supplies to weather the storm in the basement closet, and things are bound to get spicy when she grabs her new sex toy from the charger on her way to the basement! Enjoy the spontaneous sex of this couple, the edging, the fun power play sex game of orgasm control, and of the course, the mutual satiation! A night to never forget! Enjoy this erotic romance, a little spicy erotica story about how to take advantage of a bad situation and turn it into sexy fun times! Great erotic fiction as an erotic audio to peak your libido, stir ideas in you, and satiate your mental health and your sexual health. Making relationships fun with impromptu sex.. oh hell yes please! Delicious ultra spicy storytelling! She enjoyed it, she hopes you do too! Buy books directly from Ruan Willow on her New Payhip store! Including on her new releases Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties and The Drink Master: https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks The books are also available on online sellers including: Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties The Drink Master: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thedrinkmaster Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

1 Juli 202538min