How Men Can Transform from an Average Guy to Being a Superhero in Bed with Adult Star Erik Everhard

Ep 218: How to Get Out of Your Head in Bed with Dr. Alison Ash.  Check out my epic and amazing discussion with Dr. Aly. We chatted about how you can get out of your head in bed (she has a course on this too) including such things as shedding performance anxiety, being present and embodied (rather than in our heads), ways to ignore our to-do list, and non-sexual roles, so we can be more present, and lots of tips and advice to do all of this the best way possible. We talked about masturbation, sex toys, sexual and emotional intimacy and so much more. She explains her many courses, including a course on how to eat pussy!  Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love Links to connect with Dr. Alison Ash: https://www.turnon.love/ http://www.facebook/turnon.love http://www.instagram/turnon.love Thank you to my sponsor! Connect with them for awesome author services at: https://authorshelpservice.com/ Get the Ruan Willow Discount on sex toys/intimacy products from sponsors affiliates, get pleasure at a lower cost!  https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ New audiobook live Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day: affiliate buy link https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/e617d304-772d-11ed-8d22-b3c1aa31b336 FREE ARC copy on my free public Patreon page (several free books there): https://www.patreon.com/posts/arc-skinny-at-on-75681153 Magic In Her Kisses Audiobook: a woman loving woman erotic age gap professor/student BDSM Domme/sub novel affiliated buy linkshttps://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680 In ebook and paperback: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47 The Car Sex Challenge Book 3 of 6 from The Sex Challenge Series, A Day of Play https://amzn.to/3iPH21l Connect with me here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

16 Dec 20221h 12min

Ep 218: The Amazing Work of Dominatrix Inanna Justice. I welcome this episode's guest, Inanna Justice, to the podcast. Inanna Justice is an expatriate Dominatrix living in Paris. She has distinguished herself through her outreach to the local kink community, her writing about BDSM, expressing her love of the scene through creating the "Innanapoly" board game, and writing "The Heart of the Dominatrix," which showcases intimate interviews with 21 Dominatrices from around the world, get the book here (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3Bu9Fav. We had a fantastic conversation! It was so much fun! We chatted about her work, her life, and her heart, why she's a dominatrix, and what she does for people, to them, and how she helps them. So many people have misconceptions about being a dominatrix. Let her clear things up for you! Have a listen! Connect with Inanna here: https://inannajustice.com/ Sponsor: Scorned: A Legend of the Carolyngian Age (Legends of the Carolyngian Age Book 4) by Joseph Samaniego (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3Hy1Y74 https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B078Z3SNQT/allbooks Get the Ruan Willow Discount on sex toys/intimacy products from sponsors and affiliates, and get pleasure at a lower cost!  https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ New audiobook live Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day: affiliate buy link https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/e617d304-772d-11ed-8d22-b3c1aa31b336 Help me launch my new audiobook where you get a FREE ARC copy on my free public Patreon page (several free books there): https://www.patreon.com/posts/arc-skinny-at-on-75681153 Check out the newly released erotic NSFW audiobook! Magic In Her Kisses Audiobook: a woman loving woman erotic age gap professor/student BDSM Domme/sub novel affiliated buy linkshttps://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680 In ebook and paperback: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47 My new anthology is getting five stars! Check it out here: Decadent Erotica: the newly released anthology of ten erotic short stories: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ The Car Sex Challenge Book 3 of 6 from The Sex Challenge Series, A Day of Play: Five star reviews!  https://amzn.to/3iPH21l Connect with me here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

13 Dec 20221h

Ep 216: Sex Positivity, Sex Ed Now and for the Future, Women of Color & Sexuality with Sex Educator Bianca Laureano. I was fortunate to have an enlightening and interesting chat with certified sex educator Bianca, the supervisor and founder of the Ante Up Professional development course for sex educators and sexuality professionals. She teaches sexologists and other professionals. She shared her amazing experiences, insights, and wisdom. She discussed how she works a lot with the youth and learning about gender. She discussed how we all need to unlearn cis supremacy and shame, and all the poor sex ed we all received as kids. I love her statement "Sex positivity has no space for shame." She elaborated on the topic of shame. She also talked about abortion topics and the need for proper sex education for workers to provide appropriate care. We talked about women of color and sexuality for today and some history around this topic as well.  She also shed light on how disabled and elderly people are excluded from body autonomy and sexual expression and/or enjoyment. She also pointed out how therapy has changed from a view of needing to change people with regard to their sexual orientation to a way of acceptance and support. She also talked about cultural views on sex and sex positivity. There is still so much work to be done. Connect with her on Instagram at: http://instagram.com/latinegrasexologist Get Ante Up Certified http://www.anteuppd.com/ All Bianca's links: https://linktr.ee/Dr.Bi A BIG thank you to the sponsor for this episode: author DE Love with the newly released book Amateur Night affiliate link https://amzn.to/3V7L2YD Get the Ruan Willow Discount on sex toys/intimacy products https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ New audiobook live Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day: affiliate buy link https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/e617d304-772d-11ed-8d22-b3c1aa31b336 Get a FREE ARC copy on my free public Patreon page (several free books there): https://www.patreon.com/posts/arc-skinny-at-on-75681153 Check out the newly released erotic NSFW audiobook! Magic In Her Kisses Audiobook: a woman loving woman erotic age gap professor/student BDSM Domme/sub novel affiliated buy linkshttps://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680 In ebook and paperback: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47 My new anthology is getting five stars! Decadent Erotica: the newly released anthology of ten erotic short stories: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

9 Dec 20221h 3min

Ep 215: The Oral King, An Interracial Story of Oral Sex. Listen to this hot sexy intense erotic story of Malcolm who loves to give his girlfriend Kelly amazing oral sex. Well, they do more than that, but that's the first part of their at-home date movie night fun.  Come along on their orgasmic ride! Thank you to my sponsors for this episode: Christmas in the Sack! By Ian Snow https://amzn.to/3GDOA0R For the cynical Christmas romance lover comes Christmas in the Sack! Over one crazy Christmas in not-so-dreamy small town Sacktown, four spicy stories play out. Here's a taste of the goodies you'll find inside this holiday collection from Ian Snow! The amazing intriguing podcast Read by Daylight, a podcast about the lore behind characters from the game Dead by Daylight. Check it out here: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/read-by-daylight-4940226 Get the Ruan Willow Discount! See all the deals from my affiliates and sponsors, get pleasure products at a discount! Peruse discounts on sex toys, sex products, &  ....get access to all the deals here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Help me launch my new audiobook where you get a FREE ARC copy of Magic In Her Kisses on my free public Patreon page (several free audiobooks there): https://www.patreon.com/ruanwillow Check out the newly released erotic NSFW audiobook! Magic In Her Kisses Audiobook: a woman loving woman erotic age gap professor/student BDSM Domme/sub novel affiliated buy linkshttps://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680 In ebook and paperback: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47 TRY AUDIBLE FOR FREE AND GET THE BOOK MAGIC IN HER KISSES FOR FREE: US https://www.audible.com/pd/B0BL1WVFNG/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-326578&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_326578_rh_us Leave me a voicemail message & I'll respond to you:  https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow Find me on the Wisdom app: https://wisdom.app/ruanwillow Connect with me here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Check out this new Giantess lesbian audiobook just released Our Massive Day at the Fair: Please enjoy one free audio review copy of Our Massive Day at the Carnival, now available on Audible. Redeem the one-time use code below at https://www.audible.com/acx-promo 459KF45KUALNM Try Audible for free and get a free audiobook too! (affiliate link) https://www.audible.com/pd/B0BKR6SND6/?source_code=AUDFPWS022318 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

6 Dec 202240min

Ep 214: Real Hotwife Casey Donatello Tells All. This is an epic episode! I was fortunate to chat with real life hotwife Casey Donatello! She shares her experiences in the lifestyle, as a hotwife, and her thoughts, feelings, and yummy doings. She's one part of a Stag & Vixen Couple. She gives insight into how she became a hotwife, how she met her husband, and her feelings, thoughts, and the sexy stuff she's done. I also read an excerpt from her book Scarlet Surrenders (affiliate links) https://amzn.to/3gZ1zjl All her books are the real stories of her life, so all her books are memoirs. It's so hot!!!! Get Casey's other books: In Bed with Strangers https://amzn.to/3XVPADC Scarlet Swings Higher https://amzn.to/3B4G0oe Connect with Casey here: https://linktr.ee/inbedwithstrangers Casey Donatello, Author & Adult Content CreatorIG @inbedwithstrangers.official Stay tuned! In the works is an interview with both Casey and her husband! A BIG thank you to the sponsor for this episode: author DE Love with the newly released book Amateur Night affiliate link https://amzn.to/3V7L2YD Get the Ruan Willow Discount https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ New sponsors with deals (affiliate links below)  the Kiiroo sex toy website https://tinyurl.com/2p8d6zte Get the discount when you add something to your cart on Kiiroo, then add promo code RUANWILLOW10 to get a 10% off at checkout. Help me launch my new audiobook where you get a FREE ARC copy on my free public Patreon page (several free books there): https://www.patreon.com/ruanwillow Magic In Her Kisses Audiobook: a woman loving woman erotic age gap professor/student BDSM Domme/sub novel affiliated buy linkshttps://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680 In ebook and paperback: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47 TRY AUDIBLE FOR FREE AND GET THE BOOK MAGIC IN HER KISSES FOR FREE: US https://www.audible.com/pd/B0BL1WVFNG/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-326578&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_326578_rh_us My new anthology is getting 5 stars! Check it out here: Decadent Erotica: the newly released anthology of ten erotic short stories: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

3 Dec 20221h 50min

Ep 213: She Triggers His Dominant Mode with a Blow Job & TF. Kevin is Candy's Dom. She's his sub. They have been in a relationship for a few years and fell into the Dom/sub lifestyle naturally. Candy wants to trigger Kevin's aggressive Dom mode. She knows his triggers. She knows just how to get him to rage into full Dom mode. She desires that passion that flares bright in him when he switches into that highly arousing masculine mode. As he comes down the stairs, she offers a blow job, then a TittyFck. He loves her breasts. The triggers work beautifully and they rage into a delicious sex session of intimacy, hardcore, with moments of tenderness and love, & a claiming move on his part that turns them both on. Listen to this story and enjoy! Thank you to my sponsor: A big thank you to my sponsor, the amazing intriguing podcast Read by Daylight, a podcast about the lore behind characters from the game Dead by Daylight. https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/read-by-daylight-4940226 Get the Ruan Willow Discount and see all the deals from my affiliates and sponsors, get pleasure products at a discount! Peruse deals here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Help me launch my new audiobook where you get a FREE ARC copy on my free public Patreon page (several free books there): https://www.patreon.com/ruanwillow Magic In Her Kisses Audiobook: a woman loving woman erotic age gap professor/student BDSM Domme/sub novel affiliated buy linkshttps://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680 In ebook and paperback: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47 TRY AUDIBLE FOR FREE AND GET THE BOOK MAGIC IN HER KISSES FOR FREE: US https://www.audible.com/pd/B0BL1WVFNG/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-326578&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_326578_rh_us 5 stars! Decadent Erotica: ten erotic short stories: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

30 Nov 202231min

Ep 212: Cam Girl Show: An Interview with Creator, Playwright, and Director Ian Trutt. This is a fantastic episode! I was fortunate to chat with Ian Trutt, who holds an MFA in screenwriting and has studied under successful people in the field, about playwriting, writing/producing/directing a show, and his personal experiences and advice about sex and kink, and the kink community. We chatted about OF, the judgmental views and stigma of sex-work, and the differences between writing screenplays versus novels versus for film production. As an author myself, it was so interesting to hear his side of the field and the production of writing a piece for this specialty area in the media. He also chatted about his experience doing boudoir photography, kinky stuff, and the sexy allure of voyeurism. He said, "Your kinks can take you to your art." I love that! And it's so true! He also gave advice for newcomers to the world of kink. He shared how his real-life experiences in the world of kink helped him create the show Cam Girl, which is tentatively planned for an early 2023 release. Learn more about him here: https://www.iantrutt.com/ A BIG thank you to the sponsor for this episode: author DE Love with the newly released book Amateur Night affiliate link https://amzn.to/3V7L2YD Help me launch my new audiobook about two women who embark on a taboo age-gap erotic affair that turns into a romance--you get a FREE ARC copy on my free public Patreon page: https://www.patreon.com/ruanwillow Check out the newly released erotic NSFW audiobook! Magic In Her Kisses Audiobook: a woman loving woman erotic age gap professor/student BDSM Domme/sub novel affiliated buy linkshttps://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680 In ebook and paperback: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47 TRY AUDIBLE FOR FREE AND GET THE BOOK MAGIC IN HER KISSES FOR FREE: US https://www.audible.com/pd/B0BL1WVFNG/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-326578&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_326578_rh_us GET FREE TRIAL AND FREE BOOK IN UK: https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/B0BL1X8RS4/?source_code=AUKFrDlWS02231890H6-BK-ACX0-326578&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_326578_rh_uk FREE audiobook copies: https://www.patreon.com/ruanwillow Connect with me, the podcast host, Ruan, here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Black Friday Sale! 99 cents! Skinny Dipping a Ruan's Beach Getaway book by Ruan Willow A spicy age gap erotic romance novel where the couple enjoys their sexy time at the beach. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

25 Nov 20221h 6min

Ep 211: FFM Erotic Scene Lingerie Dressing Room, Her First Pussy. Cameron and Alicia aim to garner a threesome sex hookup, and the salesgirl in the lingerie store is their target to seduce. She agrees and the three embark on the best sex of their lives! Plus, Alicia gets her first chance to eat pussy. This hot scene is an excerpt from the anthology Decadent Erotica (affiliate) https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f and https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ Thank you to my sponsors: A big thank you to my sponsor, the amazing intriguing podcast Read by Daylight, a podcast about the lore behind characters from the game Dead by Daylight. Check it out here: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/read-by-daylight-4940226 Christmas in the Sack! By Ian Snow https://amzn.to/3GDOA0R For the cynical Christmas romance lover comes Christmas in the Sack! Over one crazy Christmas in not-so-dreamy small town Sacktown, four spicy stories play out. Here's a taste of the goodies you'll find inside this holiday collection from Ian Snow! Help me launch my new audiobook where you get a FREE ARC copy on my free public Patreon page: https://www.patreon.com/ruanwillow Check out the newly released erotic NSFW audiobook! Magic In Her Kisses Audiobook: a woman loving woman erotic age gap professor/student BDSM Domme/sub novel affiliated buy linkshttps://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680 In ebook and paperback: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47 TRY AUDIBLE FOR FREE AND GET THE BOOK MAGIC IN HER KISSES FOR FREE: US https://www.audible.com/pd/B0BL1WVFNG/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-326578&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_326578_rh_us GET FREE TRIAL AND FREE BOOK IN UK: https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/B0BL1X8RS4/?source_code=AUKFrDlWS02231890H6-BK-ACX0-326578&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_326578_rh_uk My new anthology is getting five stars! Check it out here: Decadent Erotica: Ruan's newly released anthology of ten erotic short stories: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

22 Nov 202226min