Why Boundaries Matter in Sex and Love with Heather Claus aka Nookie

Erotic Sensual Scenarios Shower, Daddy, Peaking, Sensual ASMR, Ride the Experience Climax to Aftercare. Little erotic scenarios from bed scenes, to shower, to be "my Daddy" with sounds of peaking, moans, and sensual ASMR. She wants to undress you and love your body. Ride the hot intense experience from climax to aftercare. Join the exclusive level of this podcast now for this episode and all the other subscription-level episodes. Get all the deliciousness right in your hot little ear. Visit Ruan on all her other sites here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Have a request for an episode? Email me your request at ruanwillow@gmail.com I'd love to please you! Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

25 Maj 202312min

Ep 275: Hot Erotic Short Snippets of Luscious Sexy Stuff. Let's get sensual, sexy, steamy, spicy, raunchy, wet, lush, yummy, explicit, and satiated! Let's get hot! Let's go! Enjoy this delicious string of lusty hot erotic short snippets of lusty prose, poetry, verbalizations, and yummy sounds. Enjoy yourself! (For affiliate links, any purchases made through some links below may award a small monetary reward to go to support the podcast as advertising fees. Thank you for your support). Thank you to this episode's sponsors Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ where you can use the code OFY10 for 10% off. Get all the deals sex toys deals and see the price history, then get notified when the toy you want is the price you seek! Find out more here: https://www.sextoysdeals.com/ Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Discounts for toys for males and females and personal intimate products can also be found on Ruan's discount and deal affiliate site here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ A fave toy of Ruan's! Kiiroo Pearls: the pink and the blue ones...Kiiroo Sex toys for women & men: get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 Ruan's new Fantasy audiobook Heroes of the Carolyngian Age: Free ARC copy https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/54c5a4ab-b73d-4a1f-bcf8-e1f7c9f02aae Buy it: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/b590e710-f66d-11ed-b5d5-3736944bfd8b All Ruan's audiobooks ARC: https://storyoriginapp.com/collections/822fbc87-38ab-4983-a35d-4ecb05f068f3 Buy links for Ruan's audiobooks: https://storyoriginapp.com/collections/6a91bc9d-2fc3-425a-b4d9-852f6f57e25a Get Ruan's newest release Ruan's Beach Getaway MILF Age Gap Erotic Romance audiobook:  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/20e63e16-d3d2-11ed-a719-07551925a6c3 Find out more about the podcast show host Ruan here at this link: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

23 Maj 202332min

Ep 274: Uncompromising Intimacy with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell The Intimacy Doctor. This is a very important must-listen-to episode! This is a paramount discussion for those in long-term relationships. Dr. Stockwell shares amazing information, we talk relationships, clit mapping, orgasms, and more! She shares how her sex life was functional and without magic, and she felt time was the missing element, but then when they had more time,  she found out that time wasn't what was needed for sexual magic. She found the key was expanding the capacity to marinate and be mindful, to have an intentional erotic connection and really marinate in the sensual moment together... that was the magic they needed! She talks about how sex is essential and we definitely need that "hydration". We need the heart, the mind, and the genitals to meld. A conflict-free, passion-free relationship is just blah...uncompromising intimacy is the key to busting that ho-hum existence. We shouldn't compromise! Sharing the truth of who we are with our partners... "it's not swiss cheese, baby!", it's about being unconditional versus conditional. We talked about the myth of the mismatched libido in relationships, and what that really means. She discussed the difference between spontaneous desire and responsive desire. She expressed how everything that isn't sex functions as foreplay and the importance of calibrated attention to your partner. We talked about the variation, intensity, and nature of all the possible manifestations of the female orgasm. We discussed clit stroking and the differentiations of sensitivity across the female clit. We chatted about clitoral mapping! And how women can divide their clitoris into the face of a clock to explore sensation along the external clitoral head. Women, explore your feminine orgasmic energy as you evaluate sensation around your sex organ. Dr. Stockwell talked about how females tend to have a lot of unconsciousness when it comes to our genitals, so we all need to embark on the sexploring journey. She also talked about how erotica is a fantastic tool for couples to include in foreplay, especially if the woman is already enjoying reading it on her own. She has a course about how emotional intimacy leads to more sex, and better sex! Get her book Uncompromising Intimacy and visit her website https://www.alexandrastockwell.com Affiliate link to her book (if a purchase is made through the link, a small advertising fee will go to support this podcast, thank you!) https://amzn.to/42Qg9fJ In Audiobook: https://amzn.to/45eA9Ky Ruan's new Fantasy audiobook: Free ARC copy https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/54c5a4ab-b73d-4a1f-bcf8-e1f7c9f02aae Buy it: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/b590e710-f66d-11ed-b5d5-3736944bfd8b Thank you to this episode's sponsors! Mirror Secret Mirror and other stories by Jessica Seaques at http://mirrorsecretmirror.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

19 Maj 20231h 17min

Ep 273: Delicious Head Down, Ass Up Doggy Sex at the End of the Day Story. Enjoy this intimate sex scene told in 2nd person, so you can immerse yourself into the scene, and have delicious doggystyle sex to finish off the day. It's Daddy giving his girl his cock, Daddy giving her multiple orgasms, and eating her out. Get after it baby! Then listen to a re-play of the popular episode: Sensual ASMR Full Body Massage.  What is ASMR? It's an Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response. Sounds too technical doesn't it? It's not though, it basically means you have a reaction to a voice, whispering, sounds, repetitive motions, etc.  It's a shivery feeling or sensation people get when they listen to a stimulating audio/video or even touch. It incites tingles, or as some describe it, sparkling, in a person when they are exposed to the ASMR. It's like brain-gasms! It's positive and personal attention given with a gentle voice, sound, or other stimulation. A soft voice, mouth sounds, hair brushing, moans, calming repetitive motions or sounds, and whispering are all some examples of what can be called ASMR. It could even be the crinkling of paper. It is sounds that get a reaction out of people that is pleasant in nature. In my ASMR, I describe in a soft voice how I'd give you a full body massage. I use my voice, soft moans, and other pleasurable sounds and words to guide you through this pleasurable experience. I hope you enjoy it! Thank you to this episode's sponsors Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ where you can use the code OFY10 for 10% off male enhancement products that actually work. Get all the deals sex toys deals and see the price history, then get notified when the toy you want is the price you seek! Find out more here: https://www.sextoysdeals.com/ Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Ruan's discount and deal affiliate site is here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Kiiroo Pearls: the pink and the blue ones...Kiiroo Sex toys for women & men: get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 Find Ruan's erotic books, erotic NSFW audiobooks, exclusive subscription offerings, and links to social media here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Get Ruan's newest release Ruan's Beach Getaway MILF Age Gap Erotic Romance audiobook (affiliate links, purchases made through the links may go to support the podcast as advertising fees):  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/20e63e16-d3d2-11ed-a719-07551925a6c3 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

16 Maj 202356min

Ep 271: Talking Using Sex Toys & Clit-Mapping. Ruan shares all her insights and uses of her favorite sex toys, including how one (the Zumio) taught her about clit mapping. The toys in this episode are ones Ruan personally uses and loves...she is an affiliate/an ambassador for them for a reason...she loves them! Please use the affiliate links below; if purchases are made, a small portion will support this podcast. Thank you for simultaneously supporting this podcast while getting yourself pleasure! Try different combinations of the toys together for finding your own maximal pleasure.. like Ruan's suggestion of using the Kiiroo Pearl with a Zumio. Play around to find out what works the best for your own body, or that of your partner(s). Sex toys are for men and women, all people can get pleasure from them. The clit's only purpose is for sexual pleasure for a woman (and those who give it to them), it's the only organ on the human body whose only purpose is sexual pleasure. We were given our sexual organs with many nerve endings (over 10K nerve endings are in the clitoris) for a reason, and that is to enjoy our bodies and sexual pleasure via orgasms. Orgasms are healing, stress relief, and help increase your libido and blood flow to that region. Plus, they are the best intimacy builders on the planet! Thank you to this episode's sponsors Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ where you can use the code OFY10 for 10% off. Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Toys discussed can also be found on Ruan's discount and deal affiliate site here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Kiiroo Pearls: the pink and the blue ones...Kiiroo Sex toys for women & men: get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 Zumio sex toys for the clitoris: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1558338&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= Durex Lube: https://amzn.to/3nZd9yr Shibari wand ($18) https://amzn.to/3M2H5li Lovense Toys https://www.lovense.com/r/bhjft9 Learn more about Ruan's erotic audio on Oh Cleo: https://ohcleo.com/ruanwillow Join the exclusive level of this podcast here for $3 a month: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan Willow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

12 Maj 202336min

Ep 272: Talking Using Sex Toys: Let's go further! Get some more sounds and tips! Ruan shares her insights and uses of her favorite sex toys, including how one (the Zumio) taught her about clit mapping. Oh, the clit spanks! The toys in this episode are ones Ruan personally uses and loves...she is an affiliate/an ambassador for them for a reason...she loves them! Please use the affiliate links below; if purchases are made, a small portion will support this podcast. Thank you for simultaneously supporting this podcast while getting yourself pleasure! Try different combinations of the toys together for finding your own maximal pleasure.. like Ruan's suggestion of using the Kiiroo Pearl with a Zumio for a woman. Play around to find out what works the best for your own body, or that of your partner(s). Sex toys are for men and women, all people can get pleasure from them. Zumio sex toys for the clitoris: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1558338&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= Toys discussed can also be found on Ruan's discount and deal affiliate site here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Get access to Ruan's erotica/erotic romance and smutty titles and all the NSFW audiobooks, and all links on the web here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Thanks for listening and supporting Ruan! You can email her with requests and ideas for this exclusive level of the podcast at ruanwillow@gmail.com Thank you and enjoy! Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

12 Maj 20237min

Get the sensual sounds of Ruan...moans, groans, whimpers, & climaxes. Enjoy this ASMR experience of pleasure, enjoyment, and all the yummy stuff! Ruan Willow: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

11 Maj 20235min

Ep 269-- 2 ASMR Scenes: A Pleasure & Climax Journey. Enjoy an erotic improv braingasm (and more!) journey as Ruan spins a spicy hot tale right off the top of her head starting with relaxation and sighs, building to peak with sexy words and sounds, then the release and full circle back to relaxation and sighs. Your genitals are your taste buds to enjoy your sexuality, use them today.  It's time to enjoy your body in this immersive experience which includes removing panties with teeth, a finger-sucking sensual play, and a home alone self-care masturbation tale. Relish all the steamy spice of ASMR and self-pleasure in this episode! A big thank you to this episode's sponsors! Get access to all the deals below! (affiliate links, any purchases made through the links may go to support the podcast as advertising fees): Thank you to this episode's sponsors Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ where you can use the code OFY10 for 10% off. Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpodSex toy deals for MEN & WOMEN: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Connect with Ruan and gain access to her erotica and NSFW audiobooks: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's Recommended Sex Toys:Kiiroo Sex toys for women & men: get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 Learn more about Ruan's erotic audio on Oh Cleo: https://ohcleo.com/ruanwillow Get Ruan's newest release Ruan's Beach Getaway MILF Age Gap Erotic Romance audiobook (affiliate links, purchases made through the links may go to support the podcast as advertising fees):  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/20e63e16-d3d2-11ed-a719-07551925a6c3 ARC: https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/5335a25c-db91-48d8-a025-a4edd2fe1432 Get Book 1 Ruan's Cabin Getaway: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1d745b60-73c9-11ec-b8a2-73116e75cbb3 Audiobook: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/2f0243b8-b354-11ec-86e1-abe0590a9831 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

9 Maj 202340min