The Sex Loan

Ep 293: How to Achieve True Intimacy for Sexual Fulfillment with Justin and Cresta Burt. Justin and Cresta are a married couple who run a coaching business for other couples called Intentional Marriage Coaching. They strive to coach couples to stop struggling with intimacy and communication, and reconnect with intention to finally live their "happily ever after". In past relationships/marriages, they lacked intimacy and variety, so they now live a life of intimacy in and outside of the bedroom, and they enjoy a very free and healthy sex life. They wanted other couples to have what they have, so with a background in law enforcement and personal experiences under their belts, they set out to help others find what they now have together. They bring the bedroom out in public, bring their box of goodies/sex toys with them when they go out of town, and enjoy frequent fulfilling sex, the kind they both desire. They can discuss anything with each other and mutually decide what kinks and new sexual areas they want to venture into as a couple. But, this isn't just for married people, their advice and tips will help people of any relationship.  They emphasized the bedroom needs to be a safe place to talk about sexual things, a place that's safe emotionally and psychologically in addition to physically. They help others foster an environment where each partner can bring up all their "weird" kinks,  desires, and wants.  They talked about three kinds of sex: fucking, sex/duty sex, and lovemaking, and how all three can take place in one session. They shared tangible ideas for the bedroom, relating to each other intentionally, role play, and even situational examples, plus how important it is to act a certain way inside and outside the bedroom to create intimacy. We talked about how  "You should have to wash your lingerie!" rather than just ripping it off... slow down and savor. We had a fabulous discussion! Learn more about them here: Intentional Marriage Coaching Website - https://deviationbydesign.com/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/intentionalmarriagecoaching Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/intentionalmarriagecoaching/ Check out their podcast! Check out Ruan's new book in presale! Neighborhood Sex Secrets: affiliate links podcast may earn a small monetary reward for purchases https://books2read.com/u/3R5MZj https://amzn.to/3CVxzw8 Alexa has missed out for long enough. Life with her ex had stuck her with a vanilla sex life. All the deep, dark fantasies she had hidden away began to bubble up once she became single. Her journey toward sexual freedom skyrocketed when she learned about neighborhood sex secrets at a pool party where she was suddenly calling two neighbors 'Daddy'. As she melted into the secret sex world emerging before her in the seemingly boring square mile of homes, she deliciously found herself assimilating into the hidden underworld of an alternative lifestyle. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

30 Juni 20231h 7min

Sending Nudes 2.0 Se*ting with Daddy. This is the exclusive continuation of the Sending Nudes 1.0 episode. The story continues when you go back to work. Sexting gets hotter with instructions about using a clitoral toy with ASMR sounds, orgasm control, and climaxing.  Make sure you come today! Love,  Ruan p.s. real  Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

27 Juni 202313min

Ep 292: Sending Nudes 1.0 an erotic sexting story. This is number 16 in my Sexual Bucket List Series, which you can find all grouped on my public playlist on Spotify. Basically, this series is told in the second person so it's "you" and "I",  making the story great for immersing yourself in.  Here's the story setup: I'm editing an erotic story, and you go to work. We begin sexting and both of us get very hot. We like to dabble in power play in sexual situations and instruct me to send you nudes at work. Things heat up so much that explosions happen! Delicious explosions! BONUS replay episode in the 2nd half of this episode is Ep 275: Hot Erotic Short Snippets of Luscious Sexy Stuff. Let's get sensual, sexy, steamy, spicy, raunchy, wet, lush, yummy, explicit, and satiated! Let's get hot! This Sending Nudes story grew from the inspiration of my writing a 100-word story for Medium, where the prompt was "Sizzle". "Sexted from a Sizzle to a Blaze" is my story: https://medium.com/wylde-erotic-cravings/sexted-from-a-sizzle-to-a-blaze-72cb60df4b37 You can read all the sexy microfiction stories written by other erotic authors here: https://medium.com/wylde-erotic-cravings/tagged/hundo Want to try writing one yourself? Submission guidelines are here: https://medium.com/wylde-erotic-cravings/hundo-a88bb7a8f17d Want to join Medium? Join with my affiliate link here: (current rate $5 a month):  https://medium.com/@ruanwillow/membership Do you like this story and want more? Subscribe to the exclusive content level of this podcast to get Sending Nudes 2.0, the deeper even more climactic next level of this saucy steamy sexy orgasmic story. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe  A big thank you to this episode's sponsors! Mirror Secret Mirror and other stories by Jessica Seaques at http://mirrorsecretmirror.com/ Mirror Secret Mirror: Get the book! https://books2read.com/u/mVD0N5 Manscaped listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Dating U: The School for Magnetic Relationships for women. She's offering a special gift for the Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow community where you can enroll in DATING U with 2 MONTHS free. Click here & enter code RUAN to try DATING U for 2 months & opt out whenever you'd like. Neighborhood Sex Secrets Book by Ruan https://amzn.to/3CzjPXK Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

27 Juni 20231h 8min

Ep 291: Giantess, Size Kinks, & Transformation Fantasy Fetishes Featuring Maxgrowth and Amber Collins. Today's episode features size change content creation that is associated with an attraction, kink, fetish, or desire concerning the shrinking or growing of a person's full body, or a part of the body. We focus on the discussion of this interest and its appearance in fantasy, film, comics, and erotic content/literature. I interview creator Maxgrowth about his experiences and creations with transformation fantasy content, size videography, and photography. He illustrates female body expansion in his work. He also creates comedic video sketches centering on positive admiration of the more substantial female physique, including BBW. Connect with Maxgrowth on Twitter at @MaxgrowthPro  and on his Patreon https://www.patreon.com/Maxgrowth Amber Collins is an author who writes stories about Giantess women, shrinking and growing men and women, and all forms of romantic, sci fi, adventure, and fantasy fiction regarding these topics. Ruan has narrated about twenty works of fiction for Amber Collins. Visit Amber's site at: https://www.giantessamber.com/ Find requests for ARC links to the audiobooks written by Amber Collins and narrated by Ruan Willow and buy links here: https://storyoriginapp.com/collections/8d53eb46-f8f6-4e40-89a1-46e9ec5ec268 Ruan's books and audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com Ruan's latest audiobook release: SFW Fantasy Title Heroes of the Caroylingian Age https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/b590e710-f66d-11ed-b5d5-3736944bfd8b and NSFW short story audiobook Nighttime Passion https://www.kobo.com/us/en/audiobook/nighttime-passion-1 https://play.google.com/store/audiobooks/details/Ruan_Willow_Nighttime_Passion?id=AQAAAEBiABZAZM  https://www.chirpbooks.com/audiobooks/nighttime-passion-by-ruan-willow https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/books/1143692324 Ruan's new book is in presale mode! Neighborhood Sex Secrets https://amzn.to/3CzjPXK Thank you to this episode's sponsors! Manscaped! My listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Kiiroo Pleasure toys for men and women:  get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

23 Juni 202357min

Ep 289: MILF Sex at the Cabin. Felicia had been invited to a cabin by her friend. Felicia jumped at the chance to get away, it'd been a while since she went on any sort of vacation. It had also been quite a while since Felicia had enjoyed sex with a man. Sure, she loved her porn, but that was a poor substitute for a man railing her pussy. She'd had a pleasurable day at the cabin yesterday, but it was time for her to shower for the new day. Being that there are only two bathrooms in the cabin for 15 people, someone snuck in while she was in the shower to take a piss. She had forgotten to lock the door, but to her surprise and delight, it was the twenty-something young man she'd been making eyes with all day who had walked in on her shower. Logan, who was her friend's son (eek could she do this?), stood in the bathroom while she hid naked behind the shower curtain. But, Logan had other plans than just taking a whiz, and soon they were steaming up the room way more than the hot water could possibly ever have. Read the story on Medium in Wylde Erotic Cravings at https://medium.com/wylde-erotic-cravings/milf-shower-sex-at-the-cabin-224568c42860 Join Medium with Ruan's affiliate link https://medium.com/@ruanwillow/membership Thank you, sponsors! Manscaped Ruan is a Manscaped Ambassador get 20% OFF+Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ Mirror Secret Mirror and other stories by Jessica Seaques at http://mirrorsecretmirror.com/ Mirror Secret Mirror: Get the book! https://books2read.com/u/mVD0N5 Ruan's new book is in presale mode! Neighborhood Sex SecretsWhen Alexa thinks her neighborhood is boring and vanilla, a pool party shows her she's wrong, very wrong. Soon she's the biggest kept sex secret of the whole 'hood! Get Ruan's newest book, reserve your copy today! https://amzn.to/3CzjPXK Ruan's Audiobooks to buy: https://storyoriginapp.com/collections/6a91bc9d-2fc3-425a-b4d9-852f6f57e25a Ruan's new audiobook release Heroes of the Carolyngian Age: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/b590e710-f66d-11ed-b5d5-3736944bfd8b Check out all of Ruan's erotic books and audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

21 Juni 202337min

Ep 288: Queer Erotic Fiction Author Gabriel Hargrave New book! Listen to my writer's chat with Gabriel! We enjoyed chatting about his new book The Lion and the Dahlia, the second book to The Orchid and the Lion. We talked about writing in general, the writing process, the erotica genre, and kink in queer books. We also talked about trans and queer characters and storylines. He shared his journey while writing the book and all about self-publishing: the good, the bad, the reputation as a self-published author, and the very real benefits of having complete control of your books. Only as an indie author do you have all the control! And that's so cool! Connect with Gabriel Hargrave: https://gabrielhargravewrites.carrd.co/ Find him on Twitter as @GHargraveWrites He's also on Facebook, Instagram, and Tiktok. Links to books (books are affiliate links): The Orchid and the Lion https://amzn.to/462jWbT The Lion and the Dahlia https://amzn.to/3qRHNLm The Observation Deck https://amzn.to/3JimB7t Ruan's new book is in presale mode! Neighborhood Sex Secrets https://amzn.to/3CzjPXK Ruan's appearance in a skit on the Boob Tube Boys podcast where she played a role from the movie "The Room" https://open.spotify.com/episode/0h7nhrUytZai75gQR56n0H?si=iVJZpxQhTLub8dkQz3njxg Ruan's video chat on the YouTube channel The Relationship Smith https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iLHw9-oNvgw Ruan's new release erotic short story Nighttime Passion (get this one FREE if you are a subscriber to the exclusive level of the podcast): https://amzn.to/43P1Wjq SFW fantasy novel narrated by Ruan: Ruan's Audiobooks to buy: https://storyoriginapp.com/collections/6a91bc9d-2fc3-425a-b4d9-852f6f57e25a Ruan's new audiobook release Heroes of the Carolyngian Age: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/b590e710-f66d-11ed-b5d5-3736944bfd8b https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

16 Juni 20232h 21min

Ep 287: Daddy Washes My Car Then Fucks Me In It. An erotic tale of power exchange, orgasm control, rewards, climaxing, passion, love, and devotion. She's an erotic author finishing her book, her Daddy is cleaning out and washing her car so she can finish. She gets hot and pulls out a pussy saddle toy to ride on while she finishes writing. She shares this with Daddy, who is still working on the car, and he instructs her not to come because he has plans. Daddy takes her for ice cream and they enjoy it at the park, but there's better cream to be made and enjoyed inside the car. They run to the car for passionate climactic sex. **This fictional reading narration contains sensual ASMR sounds of female moaning and pleasure. Read this story on Medium in the Erotic Fantasies publication: https://medium.com/erotic-fantasies/daddy-washes-my-car-then-fucks-me-in-it-57d4cdd8460c Join Medium with Ruan's affiliate link (affiliate links appear in this post, if purchases are made, this podcast may receive a small monetary award that goes to support this podcast. Thank you for the support:) https://medium.com/@ruanwillow/membership Thanks to this episode's sponsors: Mirror Secret Mirror and other stories by Jessica Seaques at http://mirrorsecretmirror.com/ Mirror Secret Mirror: Get the book! https://books2read.com/u/mVD0N5 Manscaped listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Kiiroo Pleasure toys for men and women:  get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 Ruan's appearance in a skit on the Boob Tube Boys podcast where she played a role from the movie "The Room" https://open.spotify.com/episode/0h7nhrUytZai75gQR56n0H?si=iVJZpxQhTLub8dkQz3njxg Toy referenced as a pussy saddle in the story is The Ruby Glow: https://www.therubyglow.com/ruby-glow-blush Ruan's new release erotic short story Nighttime Passion: https://amzn.to/43P1Wjq SFW fantasy novel narrated by Ruan: Ruan's Audiobooks to buy: https://storyoriginapp.com/collections/6a91bc9d-2fc3-425a-b4d9-852f6f57e25a Ruan's new audiobook release Heroes of the Carolyngian Age: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/b590e710-f66d-11ed-b5d5-3736944bfd8b https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

13 Juni 202335min

FFM Friends with Benefits, A Friend Came Over for Dinner and Sex, An Erotic Improv Story. A friend is over for dinner, she's horny, and we want a threesome. Things heat up and some delicious things happen. What happens stays in the threesome... only we  get to know! A story told in second person where the male is "you". Enjoy this tasty improvisation story Ruan made up off the top of her head while recording. It's so fun to just let the brain go and fantasize! Come along with Ruan's brain... Enjoy! Find Ruan's books and other subscription sites: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's Books/audiobooks/ARC: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

10 Juni 202317min