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Ep 434: Writing Erotica: A Passionate Journey with Hank Dolworth. Listen in on a literary adventure as I chat with the multifaceted erotica and erotic romance author, Hank Dolworth. We dive deep into the steamy waters of erotic fiction. He's a man who's not just a writer, but a storyteller at heart. Hank, the creative force behind Jackal Publishing, shares his experiences from his first tantalizing reads to becoming a voice in the world of self-published erotica. We explore the intricate dance between characters and plot, the thrills of writing sex scenes, and the delicate balance between fulfilling reader expectations and staying true to one's creative vision. Hank candidly discusses his writing process, revealing how his characters take on lives of their own, steering stories into uncharted territories of desire and intimacy. Listeners will get a peek into Hank's upcoming works, including "A Hot Wife Spring Training," (excerpt in the episode), a tale that promises to be as provocative as it is heartfelt. He also sheds light on the importance of understanding your niche, the power of community in the writing world, and the liberating act of sharing stories freely. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. A Hot Wife Spring Training book link: https://amzn.to/3w0qevj Hotwife book bundle  https://amzn.to/4aCNGhl Connect with Hank Dolworth: https://read.hankdolworth.com/ Twitter:/X Hank_Dolworth Jackal Publishing: https://books.jacklpublishing.com/ Show notes created by https://headliner.app (01:37) Which way does the harem swing? (02:22) What would you like to share about your own sexuality with readers (09:11) Sometimes I outline, sometimes I don't (10:13) Why did you choose to write erotica? What was that trigger (16:45) Trust can be fully scary when someone has power over you (17:29) Do you have a favorite character or story or book that you have created (25:34) been writing fiction since he was in the military (30:23) I think books reflect our culture, which also shapes us (34:11) What do you consider success for yourself as an author (39:47) You learn from mistakes and you keep moving on. Same thing with success. The good stuff and the bad stuff, it's just data (41:08) What's a typical writing session for you? It varies widely (44:31) I'm currently in the kind of slump. (51:30) Do you have short term and long term goals for writing (57:52) Covid: I read 200 romance novels in 2021 (01:02:39) Knowing your niche is important when writing a book (01:14:07) Do you have any other advice for people who want to write erotica Check out Ruan's books: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Ruan's Hotwife books: Servicing the College Fence Builders https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingthecollegefencebuildersanagegaphotwifestory https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/hotwifebooks Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

19 Apr 20241h 28min

Ep 431: Eat Me on My Birthday, an erotic little smutty story written and narrated by Ruan Willow. It's my birthday! And in 2nd person POV style, you are coming home with a fiery desire to eat me, make me come, pleasure me into a plethora of orgasms that will blow my mind and make my birthday extra juicy and sweet. This heterosexual relationship tale is a sexy steamy little smut fiction short story for entertainment and self care purposes, because we all need a little (or big) release every day. Having a health and fitness focus also applies to sexual health so take your body and your brain on an erotic sensual journey with this podcast episode and snag yourself some much need healing indulgence! Read this story on Medium Wylde on the publication Erotic Cravings: https://medium.com/wylde-erotic-cravings/eat-me-on-my-birthday-5bb46330ea16 Ruan's book mentioned at the end of the episode: I Dare You: The Saturday Sex Challenge, a day of sexy fun where a couple challenges each other all day long to climax  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge Also buy a signed copy on Etsy: https://ruanwillowbooks.etsy.com/ FREE erotica books through April 17. 2024, list will remain thereafter as well, but only books are free ONLY through the end of the day on this Wednesday: https://storyoriginapp.com/to/JXqwRM3 All Ruan's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ All Ruan's links: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's Favorite sex toys: affiliate links, the show may receive a commission on purchases, this helps support Ruan and this show so thank you! Ruan's Top Picks for Sex Toys for women: The Zumo (affiliate link, podcast may receive a commission on purchases, which support the podcast, thank you!) https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1558338&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= Rose Clit Sucker: https://amzn.to/49iHsBH Leave Ruan a message on Speakpipe, and get a message back : https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow Ruan's latest books:  Seducing Her Ex's Best Friend, mid-life enemies to lovers, book 1, in ebook releasing April 15, coming soon in audiobook,  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/seducingherexsbestfriend Servicing the Handyman, A Leisurely Working Retiree (book 4) (in ebook, audiobook)  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingthehandyman Next Door Temptations, book 1, a middle aged couple exploring sex together,  in ebook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/nextdoortemptationsfriendstolovers Thanks for listening! Love ya! Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

16 Apr 202426min

Ep 430:  From Werewolves to Vampires--Megan Rose Fawkes Erotic Exploration with Spicy Speculative Fiction, also on writing sapphic fiction, high fantasy, self-publishing and Medium.  The Erotic Power of Storytelling with Megan Rose Fawkes! In this steamy episode of Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow, we dive deep into the world of spicy speculative fiction with the talented Megan Rose Fawkes. At just 33, Megan has carved her niche in the realm of sapphic horror and fantasy erotica, capturing readers with her bold narratives and sensuous prose. Our guest, Megan, brings her expertise in crafting worlds where sexuality is not just an act, but an exploration of character depth and dynamics. From her previous works like 'Seeds of Darker Conquests' and 'Burning Embers' to her latest offering, 'Domina', an erotic sapphic horror tale, Megan's storytelling prowess is undeniable. Plus, get a taste of 'Domina' with an exclusive, tantalizing excerpt that's sure to leave you craving more. Purchase Domina: https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/1541809 ARC https://booksprout.co/reviewer/review-copy/view/160625/domina Burning Embers (affiliate links, podcast may receive commissions on sales that support this podcast. Thank you!) https://amzn.to/3UfvBQE Megan and Ruan discuss the trials and triumphs of writing erotica, the importance of embracing all facets of a character, and the challenges faced when navigating the publishing world's biases against erotic content. They muse on the power of language and story, the surprising adaptability of creativity in the face of personal upheaval, and the joy of crafting stories for the sheer love of it. If you're a fan of genre-bending erotica that pushes boundaries and explores the depths of human desire, this episode is a must-listen. Follow Megan's journey on Twitter & Medium for her weekly blog and shorter pieces that pack a punch. Show notes created by https://headliner.app 📋 Episode Chapters (04:21) You say in your bio that you're an enormous nerd (07:00) So what was it that brought you to wanting to write erotica (09:40) Serializing on medium. (11:16) What's your favorite part of the writing process? (13:12) Do you have a favorite character or book (17:41) What do you like about werewolves? I think that's interesting (20:34) What was an early experience where you learned that language had power? (24:19) Do you find yourself doing research for any of your writing? (27:30) What's your definition of success as a writer? (29:10) Describe a typical writing session for you (31:19) Do you create your characters or the plot first? (34:02) So what are you working on now? Ruan's latest books: Seducing Her Best Friend's Ex (audiobook) https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/seducingherexsbestfriendbook1audiobook ebook https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/seducingherexsbestfriend Hotwife https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/hotwifebooks Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

12 Apr 202454min

Ep  427:  The Coming Home Reclamation, Delicious Sex After Being Gone. An erotic story written and narrated by Ruan Willow. Kevin had been on a work trip, and Jenna was lusting heartily for his return. He'd shown his desire and excitement to return home to her, and his strong passion, by texting her steamy sexts during his travel. He had her on the verge of climaxing just by using his phone, but once he arrived, their foreplay skyrocketed into an intense fiery blaze, and they had the most delicious sex ever.  Kevin had made plans to re-establish his leadership in the bedroom, much to Jenna's shock, surprise, and delight. The result was maximal gratification for them both, and a reaffirmation of their love. This is a later in life second marriage spicy romantic story. **Erotica / erotic romance fiction about relationships and sexuality that contains light Dom/sub elements of leadership and dominance/submission as well as playful, and flirty, fully consensual impact play. Like HOTWIFE erotica stories? Check out this latest release Ruan and InMyHandsAudio narrated for author Lacey Cross Sharing Her Treats: A Hotwife Erotica Story (affiliate link, this podcast may receive a commission on purchases, which supports this podcast remaining free, thank you!) https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghertreatsaudiobook Like to read too? This story can be found on Ruan's Medium: https://medium.com/@ruanwillow/the-coming-home-reclamation-sex-after-being-gone-a51b859c0a82 Ruan's Top Picks for Sex Toys for women: The Zumo (affiliate link, podcast may receive a commission on purchases, which support the podcast, thank you!) https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1558338&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= Rose Clit Sucker: https://amzn.to/49iHsBH Leave Ruan a message on Speakpipe, and get a message back : https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow Ruan's latest books:  Seducing Her Ex's Best Friend, mid-life enemies to lovers, book 1, in ebook releasing April 15, coming soon in audiobook,  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/seducingherexsbestfriend Servicing the Handyman, A Leisurely Working Retiree (book 4) (in ebook, audiobook)  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingthehandyman Next Door Temptations, book 1, a middle aged couple exploring sex together,  in ebook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/nextdoortemptationsfriendstolovers Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with Her Best Friend's Brothers, book 1 (in ebook & audiobook): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedwithherbestfriendsbrothersaudiobook Want ad free? Subscribe below. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

9 Apr 202430min

Ep 425: In this steamy episode of Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow, we delve into the dark and seductive world of cuckolding and cheating with erotica author Manus Dare. Prepare to be tantalized as Ruan and Manus Dare bring an excerpt from his book "Just Friends" to life, setting the stage for an interview that explores the depths of forbidden desires and the complexities of the cuckold kink. Just Friends book (affiliate link, purchase commissions on sales may be awarded to this podcast, thanks, this supports this podcast): https://amzn.to/3VNYAvX Manus Dare, known for crafting tales where the bad guy wins the girl and the hero watches, takes us behind the scenes of his creative process. From his first encounter with erotica to the development of his unique kink, Manus shares the journey that led him to become the master of dark and twisted tales that readers can't resist. This episode is not for the faint of heart. It's a raw and honest look into the mind of an author who isn't afraid to push boundaries and explore the psychology behind sexual taboos. Whether you're a fan of the genre or curious about the world of erotic fiction, Manus Dare's insights into character development, plot crafting, and the nuances of erotic storytelling are both enlightening and provocative. For those aspiring to pen their own erotic tales, Manus offers invaluable advice on getting started, navigating the publishing world, and finding success as an erotica author. His candid reflections on the power of language, the impact of teachers, and the significance of never discarding your work will resonate with writers of all stripes. So, if you're ready to dive into a conversation that's as stimulating as it is informative, tune in and let your imagination run wild. And remember, content warnings apply – this episode explores themes of cuckolding, humiliation, and infidelity that may trigger strong emotions. Get ready to embrace your darkest fantasies and join Ruan Willow and Manus Dare for an episode that promises to leave you breathless. It's time to say, "Oh F*ck Yeah!" to the world of erotic fiction. For more of Manus Dare's scorching stories, check out his website http://www.manusdare.com/  Listener discretion is advised: this episode is strictly for adults. And as always, don't forget to come today – because self-care is a climax away. Show notes created by https://headliner.app Claiming Brandy: The Complete Series by Manus Dare https://amzn.to/3TNciwL His Best Friend's Mom: A Holiday Cheating Tale https://amzn.to/4antW16 Training the Soccer Mom https://amzn.to/3vy61wS Ruan Willow's Books on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/stores/Ruan-Willow/author/B08ZYW6B3K All Ruan's books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Get books autographed by Ruan on Etsy: https://ruanwillowbooks.etsy.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

5 Apr 20241h 18min

Ep 423: Buckle up for a whirlwind ride with the sensational Vividly Vixen, a self-made erotic star whose real-life escapades are as wild as they come. Get a glimpse into the unpredictable world of a woman who turns her dating life into titillating content, where every rendezvous has the potential to be immortalized in steamy pixels. Dive into the candid confessions of a single mom and jack-of-all-trades who balances her unique brand of adult entertainment with a full-time vanilla business. From spontaneous car orgasms to a surprising use for Febreze cans, Vividly Vixen's tales are an unfiltered exploration of sexuality, freedom, and the pursuit of pleasure. But it's not all about the naughty bits. Discover the heartfelt journey of a woman navigating life's tumultuous seas, from harrowing accidents to legal battles and beyond. Through it all, she remains a steadfast believer in living life to the fullest, seizing every opportunity to experience joy and intimacy in a world that often tries to dictate otherwise. Join us as Vividly Vixen shares her thoughts on everything from the orgasm gap myth to the power of connection during missionary sex. Her refreshing honesty and fearless approach to life and love offer a reminder to embrace our desires, break free from societal constraints, and write our own rules. Find Vividly Vixen - OnlyFans (free & VIP access): @VividlyVixen - Twitter & Snapchat: @vividly_vixen http://twitter.com/vividly_vixen - FetLife & Clips4Sale: Vividly Vixen - IG & FB: @vividlyvixen https://t.co/AeZsaAnQgP Whether you're looking for a laugh, a jolt of inspiration, or a peek behind the curtain of adult content creation, this episode is a must-listen. So pour a glass of merlot, settle in, and let the safari begin! (02:15) The ups and downs of social media censorship (07:00) The allure of podcast interviews and connecting with fans (08:05) I'm a handyman and a cleaner. I'm also a single mom (12:24) You're very open sexually now, have you always been that way (12:00) Vividly's journey from vanilla to vixen (18:45) The challenge of balancing adult content creation and personal life (25:00) The thrill of living life uncensored and embracing every moment (32:00) The importance of honesty and trustworthiness in a flaky society (32:26) What do you call your favorite sexual position? (34:53) Sometimes things happen to me when I climax, and other times it doesn't (39:54) I push everything out. Everything goes, everything goes. I sound like I'm getting murdered when I orgasm (39:00) Vividly Vixen's take on favorite sex toys and the orgasm gap myth (47:00) Where to find Vividly Vixen online and her future aspirations Show notes created by https://headliner.app Ruan's Top Pick Sex Toy: The Zumio (affiliate link, podcast may receive a commission on purchases, which support the podcast, thank you!) https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1558338&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= Ruan's latest hotwife series (excerpt at end): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/hotwifebooks Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

4 Apr 20241h 11min

Ep 420: Presenting Myself: A Seductive Heterosexual Fantasy Narrative. This sexuality narrative simmers in the idea of a person liking to submit or give themselves...present...themselves for their partner. Think of it as kind of like the primal mating rituals of other animals. It's told in 2nd person, so it's "You" and "I", which can often be more immersive and  you can imagine yourself in the story enjoying and relishing all the sexy steamy fun, images, and flirty sensual exchanges. This is short and sweet and is the fantasizing prelude pre-event enjoyment. The rest can be your fantasy! This is episode 18 in the Sexual Bucket List series, which is a heterosexual dance of many steamy sex dates. Here are a few of them if you'd like to explore this series further: The Sexual Bucket List Episode 17 Sex Under the Fireworks: https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/13159478 Episode 16 Star Wars Sex-slave spy: https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/12438885 Episode 13;  Doggy Sex in the Shower https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/11333100 Ruan's Top Picks for Sex Toys for women: The Zumo (affiliate link, podcast may receive a commission on purchases, which support the podcast, thank you!) https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1558338&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= Rose Clit Sucker: https://amzn.to/49iHsBH Leave me a message on Speakpipe, and I'll record a message back for you: https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow Ruan's latest books:  Seducing Her Ex's Best Friend, mid-life enemies to lovers, book 1, in ebook releasing April 15, coming soon to follow in audiobook,  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/seducingherexsbestfriend Servicing the Handyman, A Leisurely Working Retiree (book 4) (in ebook, audiobook)  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingthehandyman Next Door Temptations, book 1, a middle aged couple exploring sex together,  in ebook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/nextdoortemptationsfriendstolovers Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with Her Best Friend's Brothers, book 1 (in ebook & audiobook): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedwithherbestfriendsbrothersaudiobook Friends with Benefits, four spicy short stories of threesomes (in ebook, and paperback, coming soon in audiobook with male narrators alongside Ruan): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/friendswithbenefitsebook Enjoy this short story erotica romance fiction! Love ya Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

2 Apr 202415min

Ep 419:   Get ready to sizzle! This time with the tantalizing Meg Becker, an erotica author who spins tales that will leave you breathless and begging for more. We dive right into the steamy depths with an excerpt from her newest release, "Give Me Butterflies," a story that flutters with passion and ignites your wildest fantasies. From the sultry pages of Chapter Eleven, witness Erin's bold pursuit of desire as she steps into a world where every touch is a promise of ecstasy, and every glance is an invitation to pleasure. With a red dress that screams temptation and a rendezvous that could set the night ablaze, Erin's encounter with Jacob is a dance of seduction where the stakes are as high as the heels she wears. But that's just the appetizer. Stick around for a writer's chat with Meg that's as fun as it is enlightening. Discover the behind-the-scenes magic that fuels her fiery narratives, and join us as we explore the intricacies of crafting erotic fiction that both entices and entertains. And don't forget to check out Meg Becker's sizzling stories on Amazon and Medium. Follow her everywhere with the handle @AuthorMegBecker for the latest updates and steamy sneak peeks. Get "Give Me Butterflies" and let your desires soar. Show notes created by https://headliner.app Connect with Meg: http://linktr.ee/authormegbecker Give Me Butterflies (affiliate link, podcast may get a commission on purchases, which helps support this podcast, thanks!) https://amzn.to/4cu5sEK (01:26) Meg Becker book excerpt: I showed up at a restaurant after a vague invitation (25:02) You can find me on every platform on author Meg Becker (26:00) Meg Becker writes erotic romance and erotic erotica (29:24) What is your favorite sexual position and why (31:34) Why did you choose erotica to write (36:24) Small things do better on medium, which that's kind of nice (38:00) So what's your favorite part of writing a book? (45:29) Do you have a favorite book or character at the moment (49:30) No, I have never received backlash from an external party over my writing (57:58) Total nightmare purchases where a reader will buy a book and it doesn't show up (58:37) One of the first moments where I knew I wanted to be a writer (01:01:38) Many people say that their biggest influences were their teachers (01:06:26) I depend on timers to help me focus when I write (01:10:54) What usually is your first inspiration when you're starting a new project (01:19:00) If a book says poppy on the front, it is not for family (01:20:22) When you started writing erotica, you didn't have a community (01:26:26) Meg Becker's new book Give me butterflies came out yesterday Ruan's newest books:  Seducing Her Ex's Best Friend https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/seducingherexsbestfriend Servicing the Handyman https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingthehandyman Next Door Temptations: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/nextdoortemptationsfriendstolovers Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

29 Mars 20241h 31min