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Ep 549: Crafting Gothic Romance, Romantasy, and the Art of Erotic Storytelling with Author Nikki Flynn. Exploring the Depths of Romantasy with Author Nikki Flynn. Join Ruan Willow as she delves into the imaginative world of author Nikki Flynn, a versatile writer whose works span the genres of fantasy, horror, and romantasy. In this episode, Ruan and Nikki discuss the intricacies of writing across genres, the importance of subverting tropes, and the creative process behind Nikki's latest projects, including her modern gothic romance, "Wanting Fangs: A Modern Gothic Romance" (excerpt at the beginning of the episode). Find it on Amazon and Kindle Unlimited (affiliate link, podcast may receive commissions on sales, thank you for the support!) https://amzn.to/3PdJfQZ Nikki shares her journey from avid reader to author, highlighting the influence of her academic background in psychology, philosophy, and criminology on her writing. Discover how Nikki weaves complex characters and unexpected plot twists into her stories, crafting narratives that challenge conventional storytelling. Explore the role of erotic elements in Nikki's work, her approach to character development, and the challenges of balancing fantasy and romance in her novels. Whether you're a fan of vampires, werewolves, or intricate world-building, this episode offers a captivating look into the mind of a talented author. 00:00:28 - Nikki Flynn writes against expectations with subverted tropes or underutilized situations 00:02:26 - One easy way to promote your work is to make it easy for yourself 00:04:31 - Your book has erotic elements 00:08:21 - Main love interest or like love interests 00:13:27 - Tell us about your favorite character though. Sebastian's teenage son Gideon 00:14:27 - What brought you to wanting to add some erotic elements to the story 00:22:02 -teenage son does most of his meddling through texting 00:23:52 - She started writing as a child and then expanded into multiple genres 00:29:52 - You'll end up a villain in a book. 00:30:31 - I got the idea for modern Gothic romance from a dream 00:36:40 - You would really have to work to make it stay serious at that point 00:38:42 - Do you tend to start with your characters or your plot idea first when writing 00:45:01 - Do you find that your writing and reading tastes align 00:49:40 - Do you experience writer's block 00:55:27 - There are so many different ways people write when they're writing 00:58:37 - Sometimes there's a typo in a story or a book 01:00:12 - So what are you working on now that you can share with people 01:11:29 - Do you think jargon dictates the genre of the book when writing intimate scenes headliner app Connect with Nikki: https://nsflynnwriter.wixsite.com/nikkiflynn https://bsky.app/profile/flynnbulwinter.bsky.social Ruan's ARC Romantasy The Siren Who Couldn't Sing https://booksirens.com/book/S9V46LO/QZKZJU1 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

27 Dec 20241h 26min

Episode 548: Husband's Friend MFM Threesome Freeuse Hotwife Erotica Fiction Excerpt from What's in the Box? by Dilana Rose from the 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause Anthology, a spicy romance book of erotic fiction stories from indie authors. Enjoy this hotwife enm snippet! About the author Dilana Rose:   Dilana Rose is an Australian author of erotica. She intended to write about her life babysitting for single fathers, but ended up writing hotwife and freeuse erotica. What's in the Box is the latest installment of Eva's Hotwife Adventures - her husband changed the rules, now his friends can come and introduce her to all their toys. About the Anthology: Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology  (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places). So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint! Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane relief). Want to play Holiday Spicy Book Bingo?  You can get free books and win prizes...for a limited time only! Learn more here: https://geni.us/BingoCard Exercise your sexuality daily! Sexual health is mental health! Marinate in your sexuality daily and enjoy your relationships, cherish them! Enjoy the spicy entertainment! Podcast Host Ruan Willow's Books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Holiday erotica! Holiday Beer Wench for the Brothers, A Stranded and Spring Break with her Best Friend's Brothers Short, book 4 Taboo Version, find it here: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/holidaybeerwench New! The Siren Who Couldn't Sing: Spicy Open door HEA Romantasy, book 2 https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesirenwhocouldntsing Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

23 Dec 202417min

Episode 547: Cowgirl Sex in the Sauna Excerpt & Writing with Erotic Imagination, Exploration, and Bisexuality with Author Christian Pan. Join Ruan Willow in a captivating conversation with Christian Pan, a prolific author who has published over 100 erotic short stories in 18 books since 2021. In this episode, they dive into Christian's journey as a writer, his unique approach to storytelling, and the intricate layers of erotic fiction. Christian shares insights into his creative process, discussing how he finds inspiration from everyday experiences and the world around him. He opens up about the challenges and triumphs of writing erotica, exploring themes of sexuality, identity, and the human experience. Discover how Christian navigates the complexities of writing bisexual characters and the importance of representation in the genre. As they delve deeper into the world of erotic fiction, Christian and Ruan discuss the evolving landscape of self publishing, the impact of technology on the industry, and the significance of platforms like Theo Reads that champion creative freedom. This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in the art of storytelling and the limitless possibilities of erotic fiction. 00:00:25 Christian Pan has published more than 100 erotic short stories since 2021 00:02:12 You have quite the array of things you've done. And all your publishing is fantastic 00:03:56 So what do you tend to focus on for tropes in your erotica 00:05:17 You sound like you start with an idea and then the characters come after 00:07:04 Do you think of yourself more of a plotter or pantser 00:12:05 Fiction is a useful kind of art form, like other art forms 00:13:33 You like to add sex to your writing in some stories 00:15:29 Some people review erotic writing as sex work, which floors me 00:20:10 5 simple steps to being a successful self published RO author 00:22:43 Why are you writing? What is compelling you to do it? 00:23:27 How would you define success as a writer? 00:28:16 Did you start with writing erotica or have you written other genres 00:49:26 You do include bisexuality in your work 00:52:19 Bisexuality is often presented as multiple partner or a threesome 00:56:43 When I was a college student in New York City, no one was bisexual 01:01:39 I personally cheer every time someone creates a new erotica book 01:03:02 Do you have a favorite book or a favorite character that you created Show notes headliner app  For more info or to get in touch www.christianpanerotica.com. The Best Bi Erotica of the Year, Volume One (I edited & created this anthology, and it features 15 contributing writers.) Reunion (most recent novella. MM erotic romance) French Kiss (short story collection with Jenna Citrus & Simone de Boudoir, same-sex, opposite-sex, groupsex stories) Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

20 Dec 20241h 23min

Ep 545: Sensual Blindfold Erotic MF light Dom/sub Fiction Excerpt from the erotica fiction story "Trust Fall" by author Cornelia Quick focused on female pleasure and heightened sensory experience from sensory deprivation. This man is hot! What an amazing lover! About the Author Cornelia Quick: I'm just a gal who knows what she likes and that's what I write about; I enjoy exploring new kinks, usually in a lighthearted mode, and helping readers discover new turn-ons. Find more information about her book: "Dorothy's Stocking Stuffer" https://corneliaquick.blog/buy-my-books/dorothys-stocking-stuffer/ - people who like the story in "Not-So-Guilty Pleasures" will also enjoy Dorothy's Christmas Eve spanking. Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology  (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places). So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint! Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane relief). Exercise your sexuality daily! Sexual health is mental health! Marinate in your sexuality daily and enjoy your relationships, cherish them! Enjoy the spicy entertainment! Podcast Host Ruan Willow's Books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Learn more about Ruan's open door Romantasy book "The Siren Who Couldn't Sing" ARC signup here: https://bit.ly/4ganVaO Reserve your ebook copy here: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesirenwhocouldntsing Want to play Holiday Spicy Book Bingo? Learn more here: https://geni.us/BingoCard Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

17 Dec 202425min

Episode 544: Unveiling the World of Erotica with Oleander Plume! Join Ruan Willow in an exciting conversation with Oleander Plume, a talented author who specializes in writing erotica. Discover the fascinating journey of Oleander as she navigates through the world of erotic fiction, sharing her insights on writing from the male perspective, the allure of gay erotica, and the tantalizing art of dirty talk. In this episode, Oleander opens up about her personal challenges, including overcoming a stroke, and how it shaped her writing career. She discusses her love for crafting stories that push boundaries and explore the depths of human desire. From her initial foray into writing erotica in the early 2000s to her successful anthology projects like "Chemical Sex," Oleander's journey is one of resilience and creativity. Ruan and Oleander also delve into the exciting launch of Theo Reads, a new platform for erotic stories that promises to break free from traditional censorship and offer a wide range of kinks and genres. Get ready for a spicy discussion that celebrates the freedom of expression and the power of storytelling. 00:02:34 " Well, what brought you to wanting to write erotica 00:06:35 " Some things are just more natural to us and others are forced 00:10:22 " entering short stories for submissions helped hone her writing style 00:14:43 " I wrote a story about sex and chocolate. And who doesn't like both those things 00:17:17 " Your first full length novel was published in 2017 00:20:41 " And then we are both on the upcoming Theo reads that is to launch... 00:25:53 " Grandma arrested for writing dirty stories about naked women 00:29:08 " We were created to do this. Our bodies are created with this in mind 00:29:26 " In 2020, you had a stroke and had double vision 00:33:52 " The thing that was the worst to get over was cognitive dysfunction 00:37:35 " To overcome hardships and still keep going when you have hardships is amazing 00:42:15 " An incognito browser lets you search for keywords without being identified 00:46:42 " Theo Reads is launching soon and it's going to be huge 00:48:38 " So you said you like to write gay erotica 00:52:16 " One of the fun parts of writing is not pigeonhole yourself into one genre 00:56:13 " I think humans like variety. More flavors of ice cream are better Oleander's Books: affiliate links, podcast may make a commission on sales Chemical [se]X https://amzn.to/3OUiVex Chemical [se]X 2 just one more: An Erotic Chocolate Anthology https://amzn.to/41sb1AC Redeeming Cupid: A Naughty Baudy Valentine's Tale (gay erotica) https://amzn.to/3ZyC7na Best Women's Erotica: https://amzn.to/3Bt9qji Find writing for both Oleander and Ruan (plus a bunch of other amazing authors) at: https://linkin.bio/gettheoreads/ Show notes created by headliner app Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

13 Dec 202457min

Ep 543: MFM Menage a Trois Erotica Fiction Excerpt from the story Good Top, Bad Top by Steli Simeonova...a sexy spicy book erotic excerpt from an anthology book. Steli Simeonova is a dark romance and horror erotica author that loves experimenting with spice, BDSM, and different pairs in her writing. If you are looking for sexy books with some thrill in them, and a few weird objects used as sex toys, then you found the right person for it! Find out more about her and her writing here, and dive into the world of fantasy: https://linktr.ee/BitchQueenHsgirl  Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology  (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places). So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint! Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane relief). Want to play Holiday Spicy Book Bingo?  You can get free books and win prizes...for a limited time only! Learn more here: https://geni.us/BingoCard Exercise your sexuality daily! Sexual health is mental health! Marinate in your sexuality daily and enjoy your relationships, cherish them! Enjoy the spicy entertainment! Podcast Host Ruan Willow's Books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ New! The Siren Who Couldn't SIng: Spicy Open door HEA Romantasy, book 2 https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesirenwhocouldntsing FREE TABOO erotica...for a very limited time! Act now! Taboo Advent Calendar.... OH SO TABOO!!! https://www.roserichards.net/advent-books Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

10 Dec 202417min

Episode 543: Bisexual MILF and Model LaLa Tada Mattress Actress, Swinging, and Life, career, her Psychology and Healthcare Degree, Lactation consulting, family, and pets. She has a hairless cat! Listen to the fun and intriguing conversation with LaLa Tada as she shares her unique journey into the adult film industry and the swinger lifestyle. Discover how LaLa's path, filled with twists and turns, led her to embrace her true self and find empowerment in her career and personal life. LaLa Tada opens up about her beginnings in the adult industry, her experiences with OnlyFans, and how she balances her professional life with her family. She candidly discusses the acceptance of her work in Las Vegas versus other parts of the country, and how her psychology degree influences her parenting style. Explore the dynamics of Lala's relationships, her adventures in the swinger lifestyle, and the importance of setting boundaries. Learn about the various fetishes she's explored, including pee and fart fetishes, and how she navigates the challenges and joys of her career in the adult film industry. Don't miss this enlightening and empowering conversation that celebrates sexuality, personal freedom, and the journey to self-discovery. Video version https://youtu.be/7wzP2ps_ftU - 02:07 - How did you end up where you are today? - 07:11 - I am a Board Certified Lactation Consultant - 09:00 - Do you like what you're doing? - 09:53 - Do you feel like living in Vegas it's a little bit more acceptable - 13:44 - Do your kids know what you do or do you hide it - 17:54 - Your psychology degree colors how you interact - 18:29 - So does your husband still like to shoot stuff with you - 22:09 - Do you like the label of milf? - 26:11 - Where do you see yourself going in the future - 29:36 - Do you have certain people that you frequently work - 34:05 - Pee is sterile, right? If it wasn't, you'd have bladder infection - 35:52 - What other fetishes have you done - 40:13 - You've done photo shoots with rope - 40:39 - Would you be willing to talk about your experiences in the lifestyle - 43:48 - How do you generally find people? - 46:35 - Do you really have a hairless cat? Yes, I do and other pets - 52:57 - The rabbits have modified their burrow to stay warm in all weather LaLa Tada's website at https://www.lalatada.com/ Quotes from Lala Tad Da: "My journey, like I always say, was not linear by any means. There's all kinds of twists and turns and ups and downs." "I get to express myself in ways that I feel like I wasn't able to prior to, like, you know, deciding to go all out with this." "I'm 41. I don't mind sharing my age. I celebrate it." Quote from Ruan Willow: "I bet your kids are growing up without shame about sexuality and I think that is just huge." Podcast Host Ruan Willow's Books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Holiday Smut Audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesmuttylittleholidayaudiobook Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

6 Dec 202457min

Season 4, Episode 542: Hotwife at the Hotel Erotica Excerpt by Aileen Gallagher, a MF ENM fiction story. It's not cheating when permission is granted! And not only granted but organized by...her hub! About The Author: Aileen Gallagher is the alter ego to Aila Glass. She writes hotwife, freeuse and steamy erotica. If you are interested in checking her out you can find her first book here: https://geni.us/ubtfpebook Newsletter: https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/153872/77497022361371945/share   Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/36747736.Aileen_Gallagher Bookbub: https://www.bookbub.com/authors/aileen-gallagher-ae81169a-377a-44e6-ad6b-d1998f101edb Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Aileen-Gallagher/author/B0C5F26KJW?ref=ap_rdr&store_ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology  (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places). So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint! Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane relief). Want to play Holiday Spicy Book Bingo? Learn more here: https://geni.us/BingoCard Exercise your sexuality daily! Sexual health is mental health! Marinate in your sexuality daily and enjoy your relationships, cherish them! Enjoy the spicy entertainment! Podcast Host Ruan Willow's Books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

3 Dec 202418min