From Law Enforcement to BDSM Lifestyle, Exploring the Mysteries of Kink, Fetish, and BDSM Safely with Lorenzo The Voice

From Law Enforcement to BDSM Lifestyle, Exploring the Mysteries of Kink, Fetish, and BDSM Safely with Lorenzo The Voice

Ep 506: Exploring the Depths of BDSM with Lorenzo, The Voice!
A deep dive into the world of BDSM with special guest, Lorenzo. With 45 years of experience in the sexuality, kink, fetish, & lifestyle community, Lorenzo brings a wealth of knowledge and unique insights into extreme impact play, sensory deprivation, and more. He also shares his experiences from over 35 years in law enforcement, offering a rare perspective on how these two worlds intersect.
Discussion includes the allure of BDSM, the importance of trust and communication, and the dangers of diving in without proper knowledge. Lorenzo emphasizes the significance of understanding the anatomy and mental states involved in BDSM to ensure safe and consensual play. The talk also touches on the differences between BDSM acts and a 24/7 BDSM lifestyle, highlighting the depth and commitment required for the latter.
Additionally, Lorenzo shares his experiences as a voiceover artist and his involvement with ASN Lifestyle Magazine, where he recently graced the cover of the August issue and is up for a social media personality award. He also just was an announcer for the annual ASN awards!
Watch the Interview Video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ItNE3ZQSaxc

02:31 What do you think draws people into engaging in BDSM acts?
09:13 Do you think there's a crossover between your interest in BDSM and your work?
12:59 Types of BDSM do you enjoy the most
17:48 Contract?
21:11 What about these people saying, "I'm training my sub."
24:06 There are some fetishes that people like, that you will never see.
25:59 ASN Lifestyle magazine will host its annual awards
27:47 ASN cover
30:45 What are certain people that should not consider going into BDSM?
39:50 How do people find each other if they are interested in getting into BDSM?
43:43 Do you regret anything
54:40 You know, social media has too much control over people, right
57:30 I hear too much about suicides from bullying on Twitter
Connect with Lorenzo:
- Twitter/X: @lorenzo4016
- Instagram: @lorenzoG2920
- Fetlife: Sir Lorenzo

Quotes from Lorenzo
"You have to learn the anatomy of a body before you start playing with a body."
"A real dominant is not going to brag or advertise. You don't have to do that."
"Imagine the strength that it has to take to give up everything."
"If you control the mind, you control the body, but when things go wrong with the mind, that's long lasting, more than a physical."
"Everyone wants everything now. Just take your time. It's no rush."

Bio: Lorenzo has 45 yrs experience in the kink, fetish, and lifestyle community...Specializing in Extreme Impact Play and Sensory Deprivation. Lorenzo has over 35 yrs of law enforcement and specialized training in hand to hand combat, special weapons, anti terror, prostitution, human trafficking, narcotics, civil disturbance, etc.
Lorenzo is also a voice over artist, working with several organizations in radio, narrations, commercials, erotic readings, websites, podcasts, events.

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My Husband Shared Me with His Best Friend, A Hotwife Excerpt by Kassia White

My Husband Shared Me with His Best Friend, A Hotwife Excerpt by Kassia White

Episode 594: My Husband Shared Me with His Best Friend, A Hotwife Excerpt by Kassia White, narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. It's a mega hot MMF threesome pleasure filled scene! About the Author: Kassia White is an author of hotwife erotica. Her books are light on plot but are packed with heat. All the stories feature slutty women eager to be shared by their happy husbands, sometimes with just one man, and other times with oh, so many. Get the spicy anthology book! It's ON SALE for only 99 cents right now!!!  Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology  (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). The anthology is only available for a limited time so act now! Enjoy storytelling erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright! Get Podcast Host Ruan's new spicy open door Romantasy Novella: Overcoming Heartache https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/overcomingheartache Ruan's smut, erotica, erotic romance fiction books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Ruan has been nominated for an ASN Lifestyle Magazine Award for Best Erotic Writer! Vote for Ruan starting April 13, 2025 at https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/2025-top-8-finalist Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

10 Apr 18min

How to Please a Shapeshifter in Bed, A MM Erotic Fiction Excerpt by Fleur Foxx

How to Please a Shapeshifter in Bed, A MM Erotic Fiction Excerpt by Fleur Foxx

Episode 592: How to Please a Shapeshifter in Bed, A MM Erotic Fiction Excerpt by Fleur Foxx from the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause. About the Author: Fleur Foxx writes queer monster erotica and erotic romance. She writes what she likes, which means her stories are a rainbow of monsters and sexualities. Come find out what hides in the dark. ALL PROCEEDS of the sale/KU readings of the anthology GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology  (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). Enjoy this erotica excerpt, storytelling via erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright! Ruan has been nominated for an ASN Lifestyle Magazine Award for Erotic Writer! She's in the top 8! To learn more and vote for her, which she greatly would appreciate!!, visit the ASN Lifestyle Magazine Awards, by the ASN Lifestyle Magazine VOTING: https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/2025-top-8-finalist https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/  Voting runs from April 13, 2025 through July 13, 2025 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

8 Apr 15min

The Healing Power of Smut Part 4: Breaking Free from Religious and Societal Constraints on Sexuality, with Guest Chuck

The Healing Power of Smut Part 4: Breaking Free from Religious and Societal Constraints on Sexuality, with Guest Chuck

Ep 590: The Healing Power of Smut Part 4: A Transformative Journey Breaking Free from Religious and Societal Constraints, with Guest Chuck Breaking Free: The Healing Power of Erotic Literature Discover how one man's journey from strict Catholic upbringing to embracing erotic storytelling became a path to personal healing and authenticity. In this compelling episode, Chuck opens up about how reading and writing spicy content helped him overcome religious constraints and embrace his true self. Key highlights: - The therapeutic value of erotic literature beyond mere entertainment - Challenging censorship and societal control over sexual expression - The disconnect between romance's popularity and its social stigma - Navigating creative freedom in the digital age - The importance of sexual wellness for mental health - Understanding and embracing female sexuality - The transformative power of authentic storytelling Self-expression, self-care, and self-discovery are an important part of healthy mental health and sexual health. Sexual health IS a part of mental health. The conversation delves deep into the complexities of modern attitudes toward sexuality, personal freedom, and self-expression, while addressing the challenges faced by creators in more conservative communities. Ready to challenge your perspectives on erotic literature and personal freedom? Listen to this thought-provoking episode that bridges the gap between sexuality, storytelling, and self-discovery. Key Takeaways: • Writing erotic content can be a transformative and healing experience, providing meaningful substance beyond just gratuitous sex. • Love, romance, and sexuality are natural and essential parts of the human experience that should not be suppressed or controlled. • Navigating societal norms, personal desires, and creative freedom, especially on online publishing platforms, can be complex. Shownotes by Cleanoice ai. Ruan's Upcoming Release, an Open Door Romantasy Deception's Snare: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/deceptionssnare Listen to the full series: Listen to The Healing Power of Smut, Part 1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16787440  Part 2: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16836959 Part 3: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16876985 Part 5: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16963478 Part 6: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/17002841 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

4 Apr 46min

Cheating with My Husband's Mentor by Evie Dawn

Cheating with My Husband's Mentor by Evie Dawn

Ep 589: Cheating with My Husband's Mentor by Evie Dawn. Lydia gets taken by the boss in taboo forbidden secretive acts...while she can see her husband. She's justified though, so it's all the pleasure and none of the guilt. About the Author: Evie Dawn is an author of extra spicy romantic erotica with a soft spot for forbidden love and slutty women who aren't afraid to explore their desires outside the confines of marriage. In every book, you'll find cheating wives discovering that true love sometimes lies in the arms of their affair partners and that a HEA can come in the most unexpected ways. Charity anthology: Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology  (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). The anthology is only available for a limited time so act now! Enjoy storytelling erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright! Get Podcast Host Ruan's new spicy open door Romantasy Novella: Overcoming Heartache https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/overcomingheartache Ruan's smut, erotica, erotic romance fiction books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

1 Apr 19min

The Healing Power of Smut Part 3: The Positive Effects of Reading on Women's Sexuality and Confidence with Emmie Florence

The Healing Power of Smut Part 3: The Positive Effects of Reading on Women's Sexuality and Confidence with Emmie Florence

Ep 587: The Healing Power of Smut Part 3: The Positive Effects of Reading Smut on Women's Sexuality, Empowerment, Pleasure, Confidence, Body Positivity and Healing with reader and writer Emmie Florence.  Topics Discussed:  Erotica Authors, Creative Nonfiction, Female Empowerment, Kink Communities, Smut Journey, Women's Sexuality, Body Positivity, Fantasy Exploration, Community Building, Sexual Liberation, Reading Smut, Diverse Erotica, Empowering Narratives, Female Pleasure, Smut Recommendations, Non-Judgmental Spaces, Emotional Healing Guest Bio: M. Florence is a Midwestern, GenX multi-genre writer. She works, teaches, and (sometimes) writes. Her work has been published in Prairie Home Magazine and Bending Genres. She holds a PhD in smut reading and is ready to talk all things monster and dark romance. You can find her chatting up smut writers at @mflorence.bsky.social. Kink 22: https://www.ryn-rehnard.com/guest-writers/2159247_kink-22-by-m-florence-nswf Erotic short: https://prairiehomemag.com/lower/ Episode Summary: In this exciting episode of Oh F*ck Yeah, Ruan Willow, it's a deep dive into the transformative world of erotica with the talented writer Emmie Florence. Together, they explore the healing power of smut, discussing how reading and writing erotic literature can empower women and foster self-acceptance. Emmie shares her personal journey and reads her provocative piece, "Kink 22," which captures the complexities of desire and submission. The discussion challenges societal norms surrounding female sexuality, celebrates the diversity of erotic literature, and highlight the importance of community within the smut world. From recommendations of must-read smutty erotica authors to the liberating experience of embracing one's desires, this episode is a heartfelt conversation about finding joy and empowerment through the written word. And above all, pleasure. Episode Timeline: 00:00 - New series, The Healing Power of Smut 00:57 - Emmie Florence talks about the healing power of smut 07:18 - The diversity within smut or erotica or dark romance is incredible 08:32 - Being a woman isn't just one thing 09:57 - The level of acceptance in the smut community is much greater than traditional book groups 13:41 - Reading erotica has given me a better relationship with my body 18:49 - The last piece of this is, I think, the trickiest part 21:36 - One thing I really love to focus on in my writing is female pleasure 25:30 - The more smut you can read, the better Narration of Emma's Policy mentioned in the podcast episode: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/emmaspolicyaudiobook Season's Teasings: Snowbound Seductions Anthology a collection of erotic fiction (affiliate links): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/seasonsteasingssnowboundseductions Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

28 Mars 32min

Claiming Sierra, Age Gap Baby Making Breeding Sex by December Drake

Claiming Sierra, Age Gap Baby Making Breeding Sex by December Drake

Episode 586: Claiming Sierra, Age Gap Baby Making Breeding Sex by December Drake. He's been obsessed with his son's ex, and now that they've broken up, he intends to make the sexy young woman his, especially since she's hungry to be bred. Story Tropes: MF Sex, Claiming, Male Domination, Baby Making Breeding Kink About the Author: December writes stories about aggressive men claiming, breeding, and using women for their pleasure. Her sweetest stories are on Amazon and other major retailers, while the darkest can be found on Smashwords, Ream, and Eden Books. Connect more with the author December Drake: https://www.decemberdrake.com/ Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology  (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). The anthology is only available for a limited time so act now! Enjoy storytelling erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright! Get Podcast Host Ruan's new spicy open door Romantasy Novella: Overcoming Heartache https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/overcomingheartache Ruan's smut, erotica, erotic romance fiction books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

25 Mars 19min

The Healing Power of Smut, Part 2: Writing and Self-Acceptance with Author Jacques Gerard

The Healing Power of Smut, Part 2: Writing and Self-Acceptance with Author Jacques Gerard

Season 5, Episode 585: The Healing Power of Smut, Part 2: Writing and Self-Acceptance with Author Jacques Gerard.  In this episode of Oh F*ck Yeah, I welcome back for the fourth time, the charismatic Jacques Gerard for a deep dive into the healing power of writing smut, erotica, and erotic romance. As we explore personal journeys of self-acceptance, the conversation flows from the importance of honesty in writing to the liberating experience of embracing one's unique desires.  Jacques shares his experiences with foot fetishism and how writing has been a pivotal part of his healing process. We discuss the societal pressures that often stifle individuality and the joy of discovering a community that celebrates diverse preferences.  Tune in for an enlightening discussion that encourages listeners to love themselves and embrace their true identities through creativity and expression. Topics discussed: Healing Power Of Writing, Healing Through Reading, Self-Acceptance, Creativity As Healing, Midlife Empowerment, Personal Growth, Writing Journey, Spiritual Awakening, Honesty In Writing, Overcoming Societal Norms, Individuality In Literature, Emotional Well-Being, Self-Discovery, Foot Fetish Acceptance, Artistic Expression, Mental Health, Writing And Self-Love, Breaking Free From Expectations, Creative Process, Self-Validation Through Writing, writing about foot fetishes, indie author, self-publishing, publishing platforms, self-discovery in sexuality, mental health, sexual health, wellbeing Summary Outline: 1. Introduction and Podcast Platforms 2. The Healing Power of Writing 3. Embracing Individuality 4. Personal Stories of Acceptance 5. The Role of Creativity in Healing 6. Conclusion and Future Plans Shownotes created with the assistance of Headliner ai. Jacques Gerard's writing: As Jacques Gerard on Substack, Medium, Ream, Amazon "The Barefoot Burglar" (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/4hurCIj  Listen to the full series: Listen to The Healing Power of Smut, Part 1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16787440  Part 3: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16876985 Part 4: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16918387 Part 5: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16963478 Part 6: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/17002841 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

21 Mars 31min

Sally's Fantasy: An Orally Pleasuring Story by Matt Lake

Sally's Fantasy: An Orally Pleasuring Story by Matt Lake

Ep 583: Sally's Fantasy: An Orally Pleasuring Story by Matt Lake, An erotic short story with the tropes MF, FF, MFF, Threesome, narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. The FF fun is all the pleasure in this excerpt! Sally sees all the red! About the Author Alex Lake:  Matt Lake writes stories that explore the freeuse kink, usually with a normal person being thrown into an unusual situation.  About the Charity Anthology: the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology  (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time). Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief). Enjoy this erotica excerpt, storytelling via erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright! Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

18 Mars 21min

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