Crafting Gothic Romance, Romantasy, and the Art of Erotic Storytelling with Author Nikki Flynn

Neighborhood Sex Secrets Excerpt Mind Blowing Oral Munch scene... Allen is visiting Alexa at her house and she's home alone so they can get busy right on the living room couch. They chat and then things erupt into super stimulating, ultra hot oral! Get the ebook for FREE right now (only through 9/25/25) on Amazon https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets Get the safe for work cover edition of Neighborhood Secrets: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsecretssfwcover Get a signed copy of the book directly from Ruan: https://payhip.com/b/XUFfr Get FREE EROTIC BOOKS! Through 9/25 only https://storyoriginapp.com/to/GKR9gNx Book blurb: Alexa has missed out for long enough. Life with her ex had stuck her with a vanilla sex life. All the deep, dark fantasies she had hidden away began to bubble up once she became single. Her journey toward sexual freedom skyrocketed when she learned about neighborhood sex secrets at a pool party where she was suddenly calling two neighbors 'Daddy'. As she melted into the secret sex world emerging before her in the seemingly boring square mile of homes, she deliciously found herself assimilating into the hidden underworld of an alternative lifestyle. Her sexual explorations exploded as she let go of traditional societal conventions and chose to take chances. Instead of playing alone in her bedroom, she began to live out the raunchiest depths of her fantasies as her new partners set out to help her fulfill her sexual bucket list. Alexa spread her wings doing taboo acts in real life that, until then, she'd only watched on a screen or lived merely in her dreams. Her Daddies became her guardians, deliverers of her desires, and directors of sexual heights she never thought were possible. But then her new world gets threatened. Someone doesn't want her in the new triad of Daddy, Daddy, and good girl. Not only can the good guys turn bad, but bad guys also come back, and only the protected good girls can withstand the storms. Through it all, she finally understands one thing for sure, she is most definitely a good girl, and good girls have the most fun when they follow their 'Daddies'. An HEA spicy romance, a Daddy Dom/submissive story of control and submission that flourishes as mutual sexual freedoms. The book contains elements of mild BDSM, multiple partners, exhibitionism, cheating, experimentation, and lots of pleasure. ALL acts are consensual and characters are 18 and over. Enjoy a story of fantasy later-in-life exploration into open sexuality. Some dark romance themes. New audiobook release Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretpartiesaudiobook Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

23 Sep 19min

Ep 664: Ever wondered how childhood experiences secretly shape your sexual desires and why most women struggle to ask for what they want in bed? In this eye-opening episode, Ruan Willow sits down with Tash Doherty (Miss Educated), a London-born writer, author, and sexuality advocate now based in Mexico who's on a mission to make the world "shamelessly sexy." Tash breaks down her three-pillar approach to sexual empowerment: discover what you want, believe you deserve it, and ask for it. The conversation dives deep into how family and cultural shame impact our sexuality, with Tash sharing insights from her upcoming **Sex Journal** launching on Kickstarter. This beautifully designed journal features 20 poems and themed prompts exploring ecstasy, obsession, longing, and desire—all designed to help women reduce shame and align their sex lives with their values. From discussing how childhood associations create unexpected fetishes to exploring the healing power of erotic writing, Tash traces sexuality's role throughout history—from Sappho to the Song Dynasty. She shares her journey from teen romance novelist to sex blogger, including viral pieces like "Get a Man Who Loves Your Bush." The duo also tackles the complex role of pornography in sexual education, highlighting ethical alternatives, and emphasizing the importance of self-exploration through masturbation and quality toys. Ready to explore your own sexual narrative without shame? Tune in for this transformative conversation about reclaiming pleasure and rewriting your story, thereby also improving your relationships.  Key Takeaways: • A simple three-pillars formula—know what you want, believe you deserve it, ask for it—reframes sexual confidence as a learnable practice.   • Erotic journaling can dismantle familial shame and scaled into a mainstream coffee-table Sex Journal launched on Kickstarter.   • Stigmatized practices (masturbation, toys, "healthier" porn, open communication) are portrayed as deliberate tools to build self-knowledge, pleasure, and agency. Chapters Timeline: 00:00:02 - Shamelessly Sexy 00:04:23 - Writing a Sex Journal for Women 00:07:23 - Shame and Sexuality 00:12:37 - Exploring Female Sexuality and History 00:16:09 - Exploring Sexuality Through Design 00:18:12 - Achieving Orgasm Equality 00:28:16 - Consent, communication, and sexual exploration 00:30:56 - Orgasm Equality and Sexual Empowerment 00:38:50 - Sex Tech and Favorite Toys 00:39:38 - Sex Toys: Tools Not Replacements 00:43:32 - Sex Toys Changed My Life, sexual health 00:48:09 - Clitoris Shapes, Stimulation, and Orgasm, libido 00:52:17 - Vulva vs Vagina, female anatomy Connect with Miss Educated, Tash http://misseducated.substack.com/ http://tashdoherty.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

19 Sep 59min

Ep 663: Spring Break and Stranded with Her Best Friend's Brothers, Layla Gets Raunchy, Excerpt from Chapter 5, erotic romance fiction.  College student Layla finds herself at a cabin with 8 med school students and they begin to hookup to fulfill each other's sexual fantasies. It's a forced proximity romance and they are all at the cabin together for spring break, so, why not? In this excerpt, Layla has decided the men are going to play a cum shooting game, aimed at her, and the winner gets his wish granted by her. It's hot! Scorching hot! This is spicy smut, the full book is an erotic romance fairy tale retelling of Snow White, a why choose romance with lots of sex scenes, plus a love triangle with the two brothers, lots of sexual exploration and empowerment, and ...seriously...it's so hot your ears might start on fire! This excerpt is a part of the novella book "Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with Eight Men" that is now available in ebook or paperback https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakstrandedcabineightmen Or get the novella this audio book excerpt is in "Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with her Best Friend's Brothers, Plus 6 Men, Layla Gets Raunchy" https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedwithherbestfriendsbrothersplus6menlaylagetsraunchyaudiobook Want the PI Taboo version of the book? Get it on Smashwords right now for FREE! This won't last, so act now!  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/taboospringbreakandstrandedatacabinwith8men MEGA sale on Ruan Willow Books! Get my ebooks currently on sale for only $0.99 cents! For a limited time only starting 9/16/25, the books will change but there will always be some for sale in this link, check it out! https://storyoriginapp.com/collections/55ff9594-25e0-4b98-854d-8b89a2ee0896 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

16 Sep 25min

Episode 662: Why Women Stop Wanting Sex and How to Get it Back Even Juicier with Intimacy with Expert Allana Pratt.  Summary:  Reclaiming True Intimacy: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Sexual Healing Discover how intimacy expert Allana Pratt breaks down the barriers between sexuality, self-acceptance, and genuine connection in this transformative episode. From overcoming trauma to embracing personal pleasure without shame, Allana guides us through the essential journey of understanding our bodies and honoring our desires. The conversation delves deep into how societal pressures often lead women to disconnect from their sexual selves, offering practical insights for rekindling that vital connection. Learn why true intimacy starts with self-love and how creating a safe space for exploration can revolutionize your relationship with yourself and others. Key highlights: - The importance of self-exploration before intimate partnerships - Breaking free from achievement-based self-worth, and get out of performance mode in the bedroom - Embracing the divine feminine and masculine within - Tools for healing sexual trauma - Creating structures for self-care and pleasure Ready to transform your relationship with intimacy and self-acceptance? This episode offers the guidance and permission you've been seeking. Tune in to start your journey toward authentic connection and sexual healing. Timeline (an estimation): 00:00:02 - Understanding Women's Desire for Intimacy 00:08:28 - Exploring Yoni and Sexual Healing 00:11:49 - Exploring Body Awareness and Sensation 00:15:22 - Exploring Sensation and Emotional Release 00:17:11 - Embracing Self-Worth and Pleasure 00:27:00 - Breaking Free from Worthiness Pressure 00:28:25 - Embracing Age and Personal Growth 00:32:27 - Empowering Women Through Boundaries 00:35:03 - Integrating Emotions and Setting Boundaries 00:47:03 - Understanding Trauma and Intimacy 00:53:06 - Finding Alana Pratt's Resources Allana Pratt is an intimacy expert, relationship coach, author of 6 books, and the host of the edgy podcast "Intimate Conversations". Website: www.AllanaPratt.com Free Gift: www.allanapratt.com/top5mistakes   Discount code for a call, use READYNOW for a $400 SAVINGS! http://www.allanapratt.com/connect Social media links: Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/allanapratt/ Patreon: www.patreon.com/allanapratt Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/coachallanapratt Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/AlanaPratt Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

12 Sep 55min

Episode 660: Fancy Gets Spanked on the Beach Erotic Fiction Excerpt written by a pen name of Ruan's, RuAnn Willhoe. Get the full ebook on Kindle Unlimited on Amazon and here at this link https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/fancygetsspannkedonthebeach Subtropes: kinks of degradation, humiliation, BSDM, impact play spanking consent is sexy age gap married couple exhibitionism and voyeurism second chances relationship, second marriage sexy on the beach fun sensation play power play, Dom/sub consensual power exchange Story blurb: Fancy and Keith the Keeper are an adventurous midlife second marriage couple who seek strangers to interact with in spontaneous unions. They desire to enjoy their intimacy without the confines of walls or prudish conventional rules, rather they live by their own mutually agreed upon boundaries. They go on their adventures together, in the public, but with a smart attention to making sure they are always safe. A foray onto the beach after dinner for some impact play is on their agenda one summer evening, and when they find the perfect spot, they find themselves blessed with even more perfect, and younger, strangers who happen upon them. Then fun really begins! This is an extra hot short story of wife sharing, male domination, female submission, impact play, humiliation, degradation, and exhibitionism, plus lots of mind-blowing pleasure for all! Get the full audiobook story: Sign up for the exclusive level of the podcast to get the full story this week, or read it on Amazon, or search for it soon, appearing on audiobook platforms very soon. It will also appear on Ruan's Substack and Patreon, so join there for access to the full spicy kinky story as well. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

9 Sep 26min

Season 5, Episode 659: From Fantasy Worlds to Dark Romance with a Dominant Female Main Character: A Writer's Journey Through the Pandemic with Author MZ Rylan, an Indie Author who writes about powerful women, why choose,  and enemies to lovers. Prefer to watch us chat instead of just listen? Catch the episode on YouTube (minus the excerpt, which is only on podcast apps) https://youtu.be/OB5Q7j4K7P8 MZ Rylan: www.mzrylan.com Bound by Her links www.MzRylan.com/boundbyher Bound by Her (Affiliate links): https://amzn.to/47wNsK4 Dive into an enlightening conversation between authors Ruan Willow and MZ Rylan as they explore the unexpected creative paths that emerged during the pandemic. MZ shares her fascinating transition from crafting intricate fantasy worlds to embracing the raw authenticity of dark romance, while both authors discuss the delicate balance of writing about sexuality and power dynamics in fiction. The episode tackles compelling topics including: The art of portraying mature, confident characters in romance Challenging stereotypes around femininity, masculinity, dominance,  and submission The complexities of writing in third-person perspective Navigating platform censorship and trigger warnings Marketing challenges in the dark romance genre Their candid discussion reveals how authors blend research, personal experience, and creativity to craft authentic stories that push boundaries while respecting reader sensitivities. Ready to peek behind the curtain of contemporary romance writing? Listen to this episode for an unfiltered look at the evolving world of romantic fiction and the authors who dare to challenge conventions. Key Takeaways: • The pandemic significantly shifted MZ Rylan's writing focus from intricate fantasy to dark romance, highlighting how external circumstances can influence creativity.    • The discussion challenges traditional stereotypes about masculinity and submission in literature, advocating for more diverse and nuanced character representations such as a dominant woman leader, femdom, and female lead relationships. • Curiosity is emphasized as a critical element in storytelling, reinforcing the idea that real-life experiences are fundamental to crafting compelling narratives. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

5 Sep 1h 20min

Season 5, Episode 658: Enjoy and excerpt from the book Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties, Doggy in the Hot Tub and Big Plans. The Winter Ball Continues: the night is winding down, but first for some fun in the hot tub! An Erotica Romance fiction Story of a Bisexual Couple who join an alternative lifestyle Sex Club where the leaders of the club throw sex parties at their house for their adventurous swinging members. Come on the journey as Mallory and Derek figure out how to have sexy fun with others while still being a devoted couple. This story contains polyamory, the swinging lifestyle, partner sharing, and kinky sex. Get the full audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretpartiesaudiobook The ebook is on sale for a limited time only for $0.99 cents! Get it now: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Learn more about the book, and book 2, Power Plays:  Spicy novels Book 1 book blurb: Mallory and Derek are a young mutually dedicated bisexual couple. They both love adventure and new experiences. It's what drew them to each other in the first place. They desire to explore more together, so they decide to join a swinger's alternative lifestyle club. Once the initial overwhelm wears off, they dive in to the insatiable group fun at the private parties, and don't look back. Their world opens up and they can't get enough. They have so much fun, their minds, and their climaxes, are blown to new heights. Life can't get any better. They make new friendships, and cultivate deeper ones that enrich their lives, while they work hard at being diligently respectful of their mutual boundaries. And all the party games, oh, that's mind-blowing and not stopping in its ever-expanding ecstasy! The couple is hooked! When a photographer is hired for one of the private parties and takes sexy pictures of Mallory with an older man who had become one of her regular play partners, Mallory's life, and career, take a turn for the unexpected. She finds herself lucky to be a huge overnight success as a content creator when she begins to post nude pics and spicy videos online. As she finds herself further entrenched in her life with her devoted partner Derek, her new older millionaire gentleman friend wants to be a permanent person in her life, too. Mallory is lucky, she's got two very supportive partners in her life! Who comes along for the full entrepreneurial ride she's on remains to be seen. However, one thing is for sure, she's taking this pleasure train for life. And whoever is by her side better hold tight because it's promising to be a wild trip! Tropes:  erotica, Polyamory love triangle, swinging, BDSM, D/s, multiple partner intimacy and relationships, impact play, intimate scenes, bisexuality, experimentation, and empowerment. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

2 Sep 18min

Ep 657: The Power, Art, and Politics of Erotic Romance Writing with Megan Landon Dive into a fascinating conversation with linguist and author Megan Landon about the power of language in erotic and romance writing. From the subtle distinctions between word choices to the broader implications of language in storytelling, this episode uncovers the craft behind creating intimate narratives. Megan shares insights from her workshop "The Allure of Words," exploring how language affects pacing and sensuality in writing. The discussion tackles challenging topics including the stigmatization of erotica, the evolving landscape of romantic fiction, and the political climate affecting authors in the genre. The conversation extends beyond craft to address crucial industry issues: the changing dynamics of romance conventions, the importance of inclusive spaces, and the role of emotional intelligence in storytelling. Particularly poignant is the examination of how patriarchal structures affect both women and men in the literary world. Ready to explore the intricate world of erotic writing and its place in modern literature? Listen to this enlightening episode that bridges linguistics, creativity, and social commentary in the romance genre. *Tune in to discover how language shapes our understanding of intimacy and storytelling.* Key Takeaways:  • Megan Landon emphasizes the significant impact of language in storytelling, particularly in the genre of romance and sci-fi fantasy erotica, which is often underestimated.   • The discussion highlights the challenges writers face regarding word choice due to the stigmatization of erotica, revealing a nuanced struggle for creative expression.   • The podcast explores the effects of patriarchy on both genders within the realm of erotic fiction, suggesting that it can shape emotional connections and societal perceptions in unexpected ways. About Megan: Megan Landon is an award winning writer of sci-fi and fantasy romance and er*t'ca. Her stories are inspired by nature, science, language, and magic. She has a Ph.D. in linguistics and loves to play with the shades of nuance that exist between magic and science. Megan's work has been recognized by the Seattle Erotic Arts Foundation; Fantasy, Futuristic, and Paranormal Romance Writers; Passionate Ink; Literally Lovesick; All the Filthy Details podcast; and the Golden Pigtails Awards. AUDIO RECORDING: Excerpt from Botany and Brujeria narrated by Lola Raine.  meganlandon.com meganlandon.com/links Audiobook excerpt Botany and Brujeria can be found at https://mybook.to/botany On Amazon (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3JD8nB8 SOCIALS:  Instagram, TikTok, Bluesky, Facebook: @meganlandonauthor Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

29 Aug 1h 10min