Sexual Trauma and the Swinger Lifestyle: What You Need to Know

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Let's Get Spicy Welcome to a Bonus Episode of the Wanderlust Swingers Podcast featuring our friends Mr and Mrs H from the bed hoppers Podcast in the UK. Spicy Island Takeover by Spicy Match We're heading to the Spicy Match Swingers Island takeover in July called Spicy Island for week 2 of their takeover. We have been before but this is Mr and Mrs H first time in Croatia, first time at a swingers event this size and first time at a Spicy Match takeover. We run through some questions with them, some advice, talk about preparation and what to expect.  How many people they'll play with in a day... Darrell wants all the tea on the number of people that they want to play with in a day, Cate gives some advice on making sure you mingle (in it to win it style) and we discuss what they most fear and what they're most excited about.  Join us on Spicy Island, Swingers Island takeover for week 2 Spicy Match Island, join us this July on a Full Swingers Island Takeover https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine  Use our code above for a 10% discount and join our tribe! Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover    Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

1 Maj 202438min

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Swinger Friends In this episode, we delve into the intricacies of "Pants On / Off Swinger Friends," a dynamic that blurs the lines between friendship and sexual exploration within the swinging lifestyle. Pants On / Off Friendships The Pros Explore the freedom and excitement of maintaining close friendships while also enjoying the benefits of sexual intimacy. Foster a deeper level of trust and understanding between partners and friends. Experience heightened sexual pleasure through the comfort and familiarity of established relationships. Pants On / Off Friendships The Cons Navigate potential emotional complexities and jealousy within friendships and romantic relationships. Struggle with blurred boundaries and the risk of misunderstanding or miscommunication. Manage the delicate balance between maintaining friendships and managing expectations in a swinging context. Is the Swingers Lifestyle Approach for you? Consider your own desires, boundaries, and comfort levels when contemplating this unique approach. Discover whether you thrive in an environment of openness, trust, and shared exploration. Evaluate whether you and your partner(s) are equipped to navigate the challenges and rewards of Pants On / Off Swinger Friendships. Join us as we dissect the nuances of this intriguing relationship dynamic and offer insights into who might find it fulfilling and who might prefer to steer clear.   Mentioned Spicy Match Island, join us this July on a Full Swingers Island Takeover https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine    Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover    Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

22 Apr 20241h 1min

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Swingers Date Ideas Get ready to spice up your dating game with swingers date ideas. Firstly, we share what we think a date in the swingers lifeestyle is, then we take a break and tell a sexy story before sharing our top 5 tips to creating sexy swingers dates. In this episode, we're dishing out hot tips for picking the perfect date spots, from quirky outings to steamy soirées, join us as we reveal the secrets to sizzling swingers' adventures.  Swingers Foursome Play  In the middle of our date episode and the date that sparked this entire conversation is our Swingers Foursome Date in Amsterdam that ended in a fun, flirty play session in their fancy hotel. Cate talks about how comfortable she was with her body and why her jaw is now sore. We talk about being the perfect sexual wing person and why you really need to up your game when it comes to physical play barriers.  Curious about swingers foursomes and couple swaps? Let's chat.   Mentioned Bar Rouge Amsterdam https://www.barrouge.nl/    Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover    Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

28 Mars 202436min

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Swingers Health Vol 6 - Mental Health The Swingers Lifestyle is exciting, there are all these fun parties, costumes and new emotions to play with. But there is also the reality that with these new emotions and new experiences we need to consider what impact this might have on us, our primary relationship and the other people. In today's epsiode we're diving into the fascinating world of nonmonogamy,we’re going to dig into communication, boundaries, conflict resolution and more. She wants something, he doesn’t… how the f**k do we move forward?! Swingers Communication You know what the cliché is .. communicate, communicate, communicate Yeah ok but… really? Let’s get into it. What are the intricacies of effective communication, setting boundaries, and maintaining open and honest conversations. Resentment in the Swingers Lifestyle Let’s shift our focus to addressing the inevitable challenges in the swingers lifestyle. How do we deal with resentment and misunderstandings. We’re going to explore common sources of tension, strategies for conflict resolution, and tips for fostering a positive relationship environment Links Expansive Connection website https://expansiveconnection.com/enm  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/expansive.connection.coaching  Twitter https://twitter.com/expanconnect Pursue and Withdraw cycle https://drkimblackham.com/understanding-the-pursue-withdraw-cycle    Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

8 Mars 202451min

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Today we’re interviewing Jem and Daz, UK Swingers that seem like any other couple. They have kids, they go to the gym together, they lead normal lives. But that relationship was broken according to Jem and Daz and Swinging Saved Their Relationship. Swinging Saved Our Relationship - UK Swingers We’ve all heard creators, bloggers, podcasters… random swingers on the sidewalk give the advice not to enter the lifestyle if your relationship or relationship is suffering ‘’don’t swing unless you have a good foundation’’, ‘’don’t swing to save your relationship." Let's break down the taboo   The Ups and Downs of the Swingers Lifestyle Let's talk about the realities of swinging. It's not always smooth sailing. How do you navigate the highs and lows?   Links for this episode Jem and Daz Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jemanddaz   Jem and Daz Twitter https://twitter.com/jemanddaz  Jem and Daz TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jem.daz  Shameless Care, STi Testing and ED Medication for the lifestyle (use code Libertine for $30 off) https://shamelesscare.com/?ref=Libertine  Casual Toys (use code Wanderlust for 15% off) https://www.casualtoys.com/    Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

16 Feb 202454min

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Get ready for an intimate and revealing episode as Darrell, your host, turns the tables and interviews Cate about hosting a Swingers Hotel Takeover in the sizzling city of Miami. Tune in now for a conversation that goes beyond the surface and into the heart of the Swingers Hotel Takeover experience. Swingers Hotel Takeover Miami In this candid conversation, delve into the ins and outs of organizing the Libertine Events Carnival Swingers Hotel Takeover in 2023. From the initial inspiration to the unexpected challenges faced, join us for an unfiltered exploration of the behind-the-scenes world of the lifestyle community. The ins, outs and inner workings of running a Swingers Hotel Takeover Step into the shoes of Darrell as he bombards Cate with a series of unexpected and intriguing questions. From the whimsical to the downright curious, Darrell covers everything from the best moments to what went wrong during the Libertine Events Carnival Swingers Hotel Takeover. Brace yourself for an entertaining rollercoaster ride as we unravel the mysteries of what makes Cate want to masturbate at these events and discover the thrilling highs and inevitable lows of orchestrating an unforgettable experience in the world of Miami's libertine lifestyle.   Links for this episode - Libertine Events Swingers Hotel Takeovers https://libertineevents.com/  - Win a Prize Package to Libertine Events Miami https://swingershelp.com/libertine-giveaway/   - Meet and Greet in Brisbane https://www.opendoorqld.com.au/event-details-registration/logan-meet-n-greet  - Walkthrough the Casual Toys Penthouse Playroom https://www.instagram.com/reel/C0127OpuboT/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==  - Get some custom made Lifestyle Costumes and Outfits https://www.instagram.com/thetherapeuticdandy/   - Hashtag Open Dating App for NonMonogamous People https://hashtagopen.onelink.me/iDmG/libertine  - Shameless Care, STi Testing and ED Medication for the lifestyle (use code Libertine for $30 off) https://shamelesscare.com/?ref=Libertine  - Casual Toys (use code Wanderlust for 15% off) https://www.casualtoys.com/    Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

9 Feb 202444min

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Today I'm interviewing Ash and Russ aka That Hot Couple In GA on all social media platforms. We're going to be talking about their jouney and how they met at 22, started in a DOM / SUB relationship and eventually found the swingers lifestyle and now live out and proud with their faces on social media.    BDSM and The Swinging Lifestyle What do you know about the Dom/Sub relationship? Have you heard couples discuss their contracts and boundaries? Today we dig deep into Ash and Russ start in the kink lifestyle before moving into swinging. We talk about how their communication from BDSM assisted them in their initial journey. Spoiler Alert - they were DOXXED and we discuss how they lost friends and loved ones in the process   Health Journey and Body Positivity Having both lost over 100 pounds each (45kg for my metric friends) Ash and Russ know what it's like to be lacking in confidence to join the swingers lifestyle. We discuss how this health journey helped shape their lifestyle experience and what it truly means to be comfortable in your skin. I put them on the hot seat and I ask if they are portraying a healthly lifestyle for those looking in on social media.... let's see what they have to say!     Links for this episode - Find Ash and Russ on Social Media here https://linktr.ee/Thathotcoupleinga   - Choking 101 Mens Health https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a26471117/choking-during-sex/  - Choking 101 Sex With Emily https://sexwithemily.com/choking-etiquette-101/    Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

1 Feb 202447min

Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast Today I'm interviewing Mr Dutchie, one half of an amazing couple that live in the Netherlands that we met through reddit of all places.  We're talking about the different approaches to nonmonogamy in Europe and how Mr and Mrs Dutchie have navigated their lifestyle journey.   Swinging In The Netherlands  Mr Dutchie walks us through their experience visiting one of the biggest clubs in Europe (Fun4Two), how culturally diverse this club is and what to expect.  We share a story or two about their adventures at Fun4Two over New Years and how consent can be gained through body language....    Mentioned in this episode  - Fun4Two Swingers Club Netherlands https://www.fun4two.nl/  - Fata Morgana Swingers Club Netherlands https://www.fata-morgana.nl/  - SDC Dating Site https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122  - Big Little Secrets BLS - https://biglittle-secrets.nl/en/  - Caviar De La Nuit https://www.caviardelanuit.com/    Swingers Events We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/   Support us Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder   Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com    Love, Peace and Respect   C&D

5 Jan 202444min