Diamonds in Dumpster Fires4 Juni 2025

Unfiltered: Men on Love, Faith & Dating Part 1: with John Peregrin

What actually is going on in the world of modern dating? This week, I sat down with John Peregrin for a candid conversation about dating apps, mixed signals, and why finding real connection feels harder than ever.

We dig into the flood of options, why some profiles give you the ick (and what that might mean), and how women sometimes miss the mark—not because we're doing anything wrong, but because we're trying too hard to be perfect. John offers a refreshingly honest perspective on what men are looking for, how emotional connection still matters, and why the best dating advice might come from people who are in it right now.

This episode is part of the Unfiltered series, where we get straight answers from men about love, faith, and everything in between. Whether you're swiping, single, or just trying to support a friend, this one's full of insight and heart.

Takeaways:

Dating apps can make it harder to connect—too many options, not enough realness.
Profiles that try too hard can backfire. Authenticity > polish.
There are red flags to watch for—and they're usually telling you something deeper.
A lot of men feel misunderstood too (yes, really).
Women: you do not need to present a highlight reel. Just be you.
Real love takes patience—and sometimes, a whole lot of humor.
IRL connection still hits different.
Being honest and open is the actual secret sauce.
And maybe—just maybe—we need dating advice from people who are still in the trenches.

Get in touch with John on Instagram!

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