How to Ask for What You Want in Bed (For Better Sex)

How to Ask for What You Want in Bed (For Better Sex)

In this captivating episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily welcomes back adult film legend and author Joanna Angel to discuss her brilliant new choose-your-own-adventure erotic novel "Club 42." From her transformative days as a stripper to building a porn empire, Joanna shares how embracing her sexuality became the foundation of her confidence and success We dive into Joanna's fascinating journey of sexual self-discovery, exploring how stripping taught her to embrace her femininity, develop unshakeable confidence, and connect authentically with others. Her new book takes readers on multiple erotic adventures through a strip club setting, allowing you to choose your own path through various sexual scenarios—from hooking up with fellow dancers to exploring BDSM and everything in between. This episode is packed with practical advice on dirty talk, sexting, and vocal expression during intimacy. Joanna breaks down why authentic communication is crucial for great sex, how to move beyond performative sounds influenced by porn, and why being genuinely expressive enhances pleasure for everyone involved. We also explore her weakness for "band guys" and how sexual attraction doesn't always align with our feminist ideals. Key Topics Covered: How stripping transformed Joanna's confidence and sexuality The art of choose-your-own-adventure erotica Dirty talk vs. sexting: different skills for different situations Moving beyond porn-influenced sexual performance Why authentic vocalization enhances pleasure Sexual confidence and embracing your desires The psychology behind attraction to "bad boys" Creating inclusive, diverse sexual narratives Joanna's refreshing honesty about sexuality, combined with her literary talents, offers listeners both inspiration and practical tools for expanding their own sexual adventures. Whether you're looking to spice up your relationship or explore new fantasies, this episode celebrates the power of choice, authenticity, and unapologetic pleasure. Show Notes: 00:00:00 - Joanna's journey from stripper to porn entrepreneur 08:00:00 - How stripping built unshakeable sexual confidence15:00:00 - "Club 42": Choose-your-own-adventure erotica 23:00:00 - The art of authentic dirty talk and sexting 31:00:00 - Moving beyond performative sexuality 38:00:00 - Listener questions and practical advice This episode reminds us that great sex starts with knowing yourself, embracing your desires, and having the confidence to ask for what you want—whether in the bedroom or on the page. Join the SmartSX Membership : ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx ⁠Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ ⁠ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!:https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/ ⁠ Let's get social: Instagram ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/⁠ X ⁠https://twitter.com/sexwithemily⁠ Facebook ⁠https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily⁠ TikTok ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily ⁠ Threads https:⁠//www.threads.net/@sexwithemily ⁠ Let's text: Sign up here ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/text

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Episode 299 - Meeting a Potential Love

Episode 299 - Meeting a Potential Love

Today Emily talks about to act when you meet a potential love interest, and gives tips to you don’t giggle nervously or throw up in your mouth. Better yet, Emily suggest places you might find your next love, then Menace divulges his trifecta tip for getting laid. We talk about men being jealous of sex and women being jealous of emotions, how smiling at someone might land you a date, why 2nd marriages are predicted to fail, and why women like older men. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

22 Sep 20111h

Episode 297 - Top Places to Meet Singles

Episode 297 - Top Places to Meet Singles

It’s “National Unmarried and Single American's” Week so we’re talking how to celebrate, the top places to meet singles, and the best ways to hit those places. Emily explains why she loves being single, while Menace wants to settle down. Then it’s on to sex and intimacy during pregnancy and during 'that' time of the month. Emily shares a "walk of shame" story, and she and Menace talk about clarifying "breaks" in relationships, and the impact of Facebook on marriage. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

20 Sep 201156min

Episode 295 - Walk of Shame

Episode 295 - Walk of Shame

We all have to do it, so we might as well know how to do it right. Today Emily drops five big tips for how to handle your next walk of shame. We then learn how to encourage your wife to fantasize, what gives Menace nightmares, and the Panty Dropper drink recipe. Plus, a new study shows men value love more than sex. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

16 Sep 201154min

Episode 294 - Crazy Sex Accidents

Episode 294 - Crazy Sex Accidents

Whether it’s vaginal prolapses or the daily habits that cause erectile dysfunction, today we’re talking the craziest sex accidents you won’t believe. In more pleasant news, Emily helps a woman achieve her first 3 orgasms (listener got tips from the show), and a new book claims Sarah Palin gets around (not the library, ironically). Tune in to learn the top reason for divorce, how to plan a threesome, where to not hide your keys or guns, and why you shouldn’t shave and drive. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

15 Sep 201154min

Episode 292 - Club Kiss

Episode 292 - Club Kiss

Emily’s intern went to a “play party” this weekend, and she gets into all the juicy details including her first romp in public. There’s good news about infidelity, and Iran has a hot new kind of sex-ed,. We find out why being a father may lower your testosterone, and why Emily won't be speaking at Menace's yet to be planned wedding. Taking a cue from her intern, Emily discusses her history with threesomes. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

13 Sep 201157min

Man Up Friday

Man Up Friday

Emily talks about what men should do to man up once and for all. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

9 Sep 201111min

Episode 290 - Hand Jobs 2

Episode 290 - Hand Jobs 2

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

9 Sep 201154min

Episode 289 - Hand Jobs (1/2)

Episode 289 - Hand Jobs (1/2)

How does Emily loves Menace? Today she counts the ways and explains how to give the most amazing hand jobs on earth! Questions of the day include: Should you ‘thank your wank’? Does a Groupon deal belong on a date? We learn what lesbians want in bed, how to have sex with a virgin, and how to steer clear of indecent exposure. A bad date ends in handcuffs, a possible Miss Universe goes commando, and Cheaterville.com gets Jersey Shore's help. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

8 Sep 201159min

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