Relational Bypassing - The Hidden Ways We Bypass Real Healing | Ep #193

Relational Bypassing - The Hidden Ways We Bypass Real Healing | Ep #193

In this episode we'll discuss the concept of relational bypassing, a pattern where individuals avoid emotional pain in relationships, particularly after infidelity. This behavior can hinder intimacy and healing, so there is a real importance of emotional presence and truth in rebuilding the trust.


Key Takeaways:

  • Relational bypassing can kill intimacy in relationships.
  • Fixing without hearing leads to disconnection.
  • Emotional shortcutting delays healing.
  • What we resist stays stuck; what we feel can move.
  • Both partners in infidelity need to process their emotions.
  • Avoidance strategies prevent real connection.
  • Emotional presence is crucial for rebuilding trust.
  • Truth must come from a real place for healing.
  • Controlling the narrative can be a form of bypassing.
  • Choosing connection over comfort fosters intimacy.


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