how to not f*ck up your kids

new episodeeeee :) in this episode, i expand on the idea of healthy love being boring, and by extension, the idea that a healthy life is a humble and simple life. not one marked by extravagance or ex...

7 Feb 202114min

whew - here's an extra long episode with friend and psychology/philosophy enthusiast Mbali! We talk in depth about the intersection of psychology and white supremacy. We discuss african spirituality a...

8 Jan 202130min

this week's episode is extra spiraly, thanks to my lovely guest, Michael (who you'll probably recognize from the discord). We talked about everything from the illusion of shared/objective reality, th...

23 Dec 202033min

this week, i have a veryyy in-depth, insightful and (painfully) honest conversation with Lave Gallo, about the pleasures and sorrows of romantic love. we talk about the inherent incompatibilities betw...

17 Dec 202023min

this week's episode is sooo juicy! I talk to donavon about his experience of growing up in a cult and how that's shaped his music, politics, and relationship to self and death. We talk about the benef...

18 Nov 202033min

I had a great conversation with two sex workers: one has a disability and the other is able-bodied. We talked about everything from body autonomy, sex as a form of resistance against white supremacist...

10 Nov 202020min

here's an episode i really enjoyed!! we talk about meaning and how it relates to the ways in which we all need and want to be loved. we also discussed how suffering intersects with love and whether or...

24 Okt 202030min

this week we're talking about success! what does it look like, what does it feel like ... and is it actually attainable?? we talk about blackness, afropessimism and what success really looks like for ...

2 Okt 202035min