Business Your Way30 Apr 2025

192: How to Stop People Pleasing with Sara Fisk

"The problem isn't belonging too much, it's that we don't belong enough to ourselves. We need equity in relationships. Sometimes I choose you, and sometimes I choose me. It's not either/or, we need both."

In today's episode, ex-good girl and Stop People-Pleasing Coach, Sara Bybee Fisk, shares her passion for people (especially women) to live whatever kind of life they truly want for reasons they know, understand, and consciously choose.

This episode is for you if:

- You know you're a people pleaser and want to choose yourself more often

- You aren't sure whether you're a pleaser or not, and want to learn more about what it looks like and how it shows up

- You want to develop the skill of having the hard conversation, being able to disappoint people, and make sure you're running your business for yourself, etc.

There are so many beautiful nuggets in this conversation. Everyone will walk away with something!

To get in on that skill-building of how to disappoint people, join us in Comfortable In Business (caryngillen.com/comfortable-in-business) before Sara teaches on May 6th.

(Note: If you join after that date, you'll get access to the replay.)

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Sara Bybee Fisk is a Master Certified Coach and Instructor who teaches women how to tame the rampant people pleasing, perfectionism and codependency that is causing them so much frustration and resentment. She uses the lenses of feminism and the tools of Somatic Experiencing and parts work in her work with clients privately and in group settings. She is an anxious optimist and born-again feminist who listens to more books than she actually sits down to read. She loves a good hike, good dark chocolate and good conversations. She is a wife and mom of 5 and she enjoys those roles most of the time.

www.sarafisk.coach

Listen to the Ex-Good Girl Podcast

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To learn more about me, Caryn Gillen, and the work that I do with high-integrity coaches and remarkable humans…

https://caryngillen.activehosted.com/f/25

Connect with me on social (I’m @caryngillen in all the places)

Or sign up for my FREE SALES TRAINING, How to Sell Like a Human (starting on May 5th):

https://caryngillen.com/sell-like-a-human

You can also check out my membership for coaches on their way to consistent 5K months:

https://caryngillen.com/comfortable-in-business/

If you think I’m the coach for you, you’re probably right! Message me to connect, and we can figure out together where you fit.

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