Relationship Burnout: How to Make LRE feel like NRE Again

Relationship Burnout: How to Make LRE feel like NRE Again

Feeling disconnected or depleted in your long-term relationship while totally lit up by someone new? You're not broken—and neither is your relationship. This is a natural progression of relationships, but it doesn't have to be the death knell!

In this episode of the Let’s Talk Polyamory Podcast, we explore what happens when burnout shows up in your long-term relationship—often the one where you share a home, kids, responsibilities or calendar—while you’re riding the high of New Relationship Energy (NRE) somewhere else. Inspired by a recent CNN article and relationship expert Esther Perel’s insights, we unpack the real causes of burnout: emotional labor, domestic imbalance, identity loss, over-functioning, and the exhaustion of being the constant container for your partner’s emotions.

We also share our own personal stories about what helps us keep our long-term relationship feeling playful, connected, and fresh—even while managing real-life stressors.

From RAADAR Relationship Reviews and quality time rituals, to creating intentional transitions around new connections, we’ll walk you through practical ways to rekindle the energy you crave—including simple habits backed by research, like the Gottmans’ 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions that helps relationships stay strong and emotionally resilient.

In this episode, we cover:💡 What burnout really looks like in long-term relationships🧯 The top causes of relationship fatigue (hint: it’s not just about desire)💘 Why NRE feels so good—and how to channel that energy intentionally into other relationship🛠️ Tools for making LRE feel exciting again (without pretending it’s brand new)👫 Our own practices for keeping long-term love feeling alive

💌 Ready for deeper support? Check out our Poly Newbies Digital Course or join us in the next round of our Polyamory Mastery Program. Links in the show resources below👇

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Combatting Jealousy and NRE with Awesome Communication

Combatting Jealousy and NRE with Awesome Communication

In this episode, we dive deep into the complex yet rewarding world of polyamory exploring the challenges of jealousy and the intoxicating allure of New Relationship Energy (NRE). Join us as we unpack strategies and insights on fostering open communication to navigate these emotional landscapes and strengthen your polyamorous relationships. Your hosts T&A, coaching and therapy team Tara & André share their experiences and practical advice on identifying and addressing jealousy, offering invaluable tools for individuals and couples alike. They also delve into the concept of NRE – that exciting rush of emotions in new connections – and discuss how to manage both these things with COMMUNICATION. They explore the importance of setting boundaries, practicing radical transparency, and developing a strong foundation of trust and  security! Whether you're a seasoned polyamorist or just curious about exploring consensual non-monogamy, this episode provides a roadmap for fostering healthy connections and navigating the unique dynamics of polyamorous relationships.  Tune in for an always candid conversation about the beautiful complexities of polyamory and how this can be offset by amazing communication. Want to navigate your relationship with ease and security, sign up for T&A's Poly Newbies Digital Course. Find out more at https://courses.letstalkpolyamory.com/polynewbiescourse Learn more about T&A's services and programs and where you can find other content at www.taraandandre.com

12 Feb 202440min

2: 5 Steps From LIMITATIONS to LIBERATION in Your Polyamorous Relationships

2: 5 Steps From LIMITATIONS to LIBERATION in Your Polyamorous Relationships

It's a very common story, you excitedly open up an existing relationship, decide transitions to polyamory or explore swinging and feel more LIMITED than you would have expected. And much less pleasure and desire than you fantasized about!In this podcast episode we share the exact 5 steps you can take to shift from relationships filled with LIMITATIONS to ones where you feel  🌈LIBERATED and ❤️ LOVED and where your needs, wants and desires are met! Understand what's limiting you. Live limitlessly Set agreements and intentions in your relationships that allow you to live more limitlessly Understand what love means to those you are in relationships with Make happiness your business and no one else'sIf you need support being more liberated and secure in your relationship, we can help: Sign up for our 7-module POLY NEWBIES Digital Course at ⁠https://courses.letstalkpolyamory.com/polynewbiescourse⁠⁠  Join our deeper dive Open Relationship & Polyamory Mastery Coaching Program where you get direct live coaching support from us at ⁠https://go.taraandandre.com/polyamorymastery⁠⁠ If you have a question or unsure what's right for you, you can book a 15 minute chat with Tara here ⁠⁠https://go.taraandandre.com/15mincoffeechat⁠⁠This talk originally aired in our private Facebook group ⁠Let's Talk Polyamory⁠ as part of our T&A Alphabet Series under the title L is for Limitations, Liberation and Love!

5 Feb 202449min

How Open Relationships Work

How Open Relationships Work

Have you ever wondered how open relationships work and if non-monogamy is for you? In this first episode of the Let's Talk Polyamory Podcast with T&A we give you the down low on everything you need to know to begin in consensual non-monogamy including the essential questions you need to ask yourself before diving in as well as the the different types of relationship styles out there, from dipping your toes in and being monogamish, to swinging, polyamory, relationship anarchy and more! We share definitions and answer the burning questions you may be afraid to ask! We created a special worksheet to accompany this episode which you sign up to get it sent to your inbox - https://go.taraandandre.com/openrelationshipsworksheet If you're serious about setting a secure foundation for your open or polyamorous relationship, join us for our next cohort of Open Relationship and Polyamory Mastery or sign up for our Poly Newbies Digital Course. And... if you'd like to talk to us directly about your own personal situation book your complimentary Relationship Rescue Call here - https://go.taraandandre.com/relationshiprescue

20 Dec 202244min

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