
49. Is getting hooked on porn a disease ?
In this episode of the Help is Here podcast, me and Mari Paulus talk about porn being a disease, addiction or habit. How neuroplasticity enables people to change. And how language can either empower or disempower people.I have a new training video available at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com After 9 years in a porn addiction, I was lucky enough to meet Mari Paulus who taught me how to connect to my compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change my addicted neural pathways. We are on a mission to empower the disempowered by creating Help is Here podcasts talking about the Beyond Compulsion™ method. There is tons to learn and so we have plenty of more episodes to share soon as we spread the message that permanent mental freedom is possible. #pornaddiction #addictionrecovery #foodaddictionrecovery #pornaddictionrecovery #nofap #nonutnovember
3 Nov 202428min

48. Generic NoFap Tips Are Detrimental - Here is Why
In this episode of the Help is Here podcast, I talk about my old NoFap advice. This is the same generic stuff that most people talk about. It did help me temporarily quit, but I now have a higher standard for myself and understand permanent mental freedom is possible. In this video, I explain why these NoFap tips do not work. Learning this will help you change your thought patterns and get you closer towards quitting for good. After 9 years in a porn addiction, I was lucky enough to meet Mari Paulus who taught me how to connect to my compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change my addicted neural pathways. We are on a mission to empower the disempowered by creating Help is Here podcasts talking about the Beyond Compulsion™ method.
29 Okt 202428min

47. Do not do No Nut November - Here is Why
Learn Fact 1 and Fact 2 to get out of deprivation thinking so you can actually change your brain and learn the basics of finally quitting porn. Code NNN is applied so you can get 25% off during November. First 100 customers only: https://beyond-compulsion.ck.page/products/getting-out-of-the-hamster-wheel-fact-?promo=NNN In this episode of the Help is Here podcast, we talk about the downside to No Nut November and intermittent reinforcement across a range of addictions.After 9 years in a porn addiction, I was lucky enough to meet Mari Paulus who taught me how to connect to my compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change my addicted neural pathways. We are on a mission to empower the disempowered by creating Help is Here podcasts talking about the Beyond Compulsion™ method. There is tons to learn and so we have plenty of more episodes to share soon as we spread the message that permanent mental freedom is possible. #pornaddiction #addictionrecovery #foodaddictionrecovery #pornaddictionrecovery #nofap #nonutnovember
25 Okt 202427min

46. I transformed my thinking and quit porn correctly by rewiring my brain
If you want to stay stopped correctly, without having to use willpower, join the email list and get the free training - https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/ In this episode of the Help is Here podcast, I look back on my old YouTube video called “Escape the Porn Rabbit Hole” and share ways in which I have changed my thinking. After 9 years in a porn addiction, I was lucky enough to meet Mari Paulus who taught me how to connect to my compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change my addicted neural pathways. We aim to empower the disempowered by creating Help is Here podcasts about the Beyond Compulsion™ method. There is a lot to learn, and so we will soon have plenty of more episodes to share as we spread the message that permanent mental freedom is possible. #pornaddiction #addictionrecovery #foodaddictionrecovery #pornaddictionrecovery #nofap
23 Okt 202442min

45. Homelessness and the Power of Neuroplasticity to Quit Porn with Mari Paulus
If you want to stay stopped correctly, without having to use willpower, join the email list and get the free training - https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/ Last night I spent the evening outside trying to sleep in a sleeping bag to raise money for a local homelessness charity. I felt tired today and wished to reflect on how in the past such tiredness would lead to me rationalising engaging with porn. In this episode we talk about homelessness and the power of changing addicted neural pathways. After 9 years in a porn addiction, I was lucky enough to meet Mari Paulus who taught me how to connect to my compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change my addicted neural pathways. We are on a mission to empower the disempowered by creating Help is Here podcasts talking about the Beyond Compulsion™ method. There is tons to learn and so we have plenty of more episodes to share soon as we spread the message that permanent mental freedom is possible. #pornaddiction #addictionrecovery #foodaddictionrecovery #pornaddictionrecovery #nofap
22 Okt 202420min

44. Semen Retention During Porn Addiction Recovery?
If you want to stay stopped correctly, without having to use willpower, join the email list and get the free training - https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/ In this episode, I talk about why people should prioritise changing addicted neural pathways and steer away from what are often temporary challenges such as “semen retention”. Reasonable engagement at reasonable times. Porn is not reasonable, but sex is. After 9 years in a porn addiction, I was lucky enough to meet Mari Paulus who taught me how to connect to my compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change my addicted neural pathways. We are on a mission to empower the disempowered by creating Help is Here podcasts talking about the Beyond Compulsion™ method. There is tons to learn and so we have plenty of more episodes to share soon as we spread the message that permanent mental freedom is possible. #pornaddiction #addictionrecovery #foodaddictionrecovery #pornaddictionrecovery #nofap #semenretention
18 Okt 202412min

43. How I lost £50k gambling on Football Index
If you want to stay stopped correctly, without having to use willpower, join the email list and get the free training - https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/ In this episode, I talk about my experience of losing money on Football Index. It was a crazy time in my life and looking back, I was likely highly addicted to Football Index. When people are addicted, they usually are addicted to more than one thing. After 9 years in a porn addiction, I was lucky enough to meet Mari Paulus who taught me how to connect to my compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change my addicted neural pathways. We are on a mission to empower the disempowered by creating Help is Here podcasts talking about the Beyond Compulsion™ method. There is tons to learn and so we have plenty of more episodes to share soon as we spread the message that permanent mental freedom is possible. #pornaddiction #addictionrecovery #foodaddictionrecovery #pornaddictionrecovery #nofap #footballindex
16 Okt 202419min

42. The Role of Compassion in Addiction Recovery with Emma Cerutti
If you want to stay stopped correctly, without having to use willpower, join the email list and get the free training - https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/ In this episode, I talk with my friend Emma Cerutti about Buddhism, willingly accepting temporary discomfort, my journey quitting porn, and the role of compassion in addiction recovery. After 9 years in a porn addiction, I was lucky enough to meet Mari Paulus who taught me how to connect to my compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change my addicted neural pathways. We are on a mission to empower the disempowered by creating Help is Here podcasts talking about the Beyond Compulsion™ method. There is tons to learn and so we have plenty of more episodes to share soon as we spread the message that permanent mental freedom is possible. #pornaddiction #addictionrecovery #foodaddictionrecovery #pornaddictionrecovery #nofap
11 Okt 20241h 24min