People Don't Make You Anxious — This Does

As Sebastiaan repeatedly says: "A win is a win! Celebrate it!" This phrase has been hard to interpret by many as they don't see the progress that they are making. But what is progress and how can you measure it? In this episode, hear Becca as she celebrates the internal transformation that she had felt. A moment where she felt that all the negative limitations and beliefs she had before, turned into a positive one. A moment where she felt that something has changed in her acceptance and in her realizations. How about you? How do you celebrate your wins? PS: Becca is a member of our Social Confidence Club (which is currently closed at the moment) In the meantime, you can sign up for my FREE Social Confidence Starter Kit and start learning the basics of tapping and bit by bit chip away the layers of your social anxiety... ...until you are feeling relaxed and at ease in social situations. You can go there by going to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow __________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

15 Nov 20223min

Is tapping enough to beat social anxiety? This is the question that I got in one of my videos. And in this episode, not only will I be answering that questions, I will also be giving you insights as to how the power of tapping can really help you overcome your social anxiety. Go here for the show notes page. __________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

10 Nov 202212min

How can I freely speak? How do I get rid of this lump in my throat? How do I unstifled myself? These are the questions that Sebastiaan recently got. And in this episode, Sebastiaan will be giving you a bit of perspective and one quick fix to help you with this problem. If you want to make some progress right now already, I suggest checking out this video: https://youtu.be/wb4w2XIGv8Mwhere you tap along to build more compassion for what it is that you're dealing with, and that's going to shift the relationship with the anxiety or check out this video testimonial: https://youtu.be/UWHsYK6rko8 so you get inspired to do all of the work to get rid of your problem. Enjoy! Go here for the show notes page. __________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

3 Nov 20228min

Every person has their own boundaries and limits. Either when it comes to work, personal space, or even relationship. For people with social anxiety, keeping up with these is not as easy as for others. It might be too hard for them to say No. It might be too hard for them to keep up with the conversations. It might be too hard for them to stay as positive, and jolly especially when they are being emotionally triggered. And in this episode, Lina will be sharing her progress on not taking things too personally. And as she said it in her win, if she can do it...so can you! So what are you waiting for? Get my FREE Social Confidence Starter Kit and learn the basics of tapping by going to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow __________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

1 Nov 20223min

What will do you if you have not had specific traumas but you are dealing with social anxiety? Last week, Sebastiaan made a video entitled "HEAL TRAUMA TO BEAT SOCIAL ANXIETY" And one specific question caught Seb's eyes. Here's the question: Thank you for this helpful video, many coaches have confirmed that we should work on the root cause of the problem or the trauma, but in my case I don't remember a specific situation, I just remember the pattern "most of people in my childhood, my family and school friends looked at me and treat me in a certain way that I hate" so there's no certain event just general pattern that made me believe on it, so what should I do in this case? And in this episode, Seb will be answering the above question by giving you 3 techniques or approaches. Learn more about Steve Wells' intention tapping by going to https://www.intentiontapping.com/ __________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

27 Okt 202219min

Do you have a fear of meeting new people? Meeting new people has been a big problem for a lot of people. There is worry, fear, and negative thinking about what could happen prior to meeting that new person. However, for people who suffers from social anxiety, this event is dreadful. Meeting new people is a challenge. A challenge where you have to encounter symptoms such as having sweaty palms, shaky voice, blushing, and many more. And in this episode, Jan shared how addressing, releasing and clearing his negative insights and beliefs, gave him the opportunity to meet new people without any challenge and dread feeling at all. Do you also have a fear of meeting new people? Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenowto learn more about EFT Tapping. Go there now! __________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

25 Okt 20222min

Disclaimer: No Copywrite infringement. We do not own the video clip by Bessel van der Kolk. If you want to watch the full video of his interview, check out this link: https://youtu.be/0jio1T1p5pU The are numerous studies that link the correlation between childhood traumatic experiences to having severe social anxiety. And this is not just a drama that other people might think, it is the TRAUMA that we feel during those past experiences. And in this episode, Sebastiaan will be sharing with you how your emotional brain (AKA your limbic system) stores the negative and traumatic experiences, and how it can also help you resolve your emotional issues. You will also be hearing Dr. Bessel van der Kolk on how your limbic system can also help you to resolve all the trauma. Go here for the show notes page. __________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

20 Okt 202220min

There are lots of 'what if' situations, especially when we are clouded with emotions such as shame, nervousness, embarrassment, fear, etc. What if that person hates the way I talk? What if I embarrass myself in front of other people? What if I can't deliver myself well? What if I can't come across a certain situation? These what if's are the result of the negative emotions that we are feeling. And these negative emotions need to be addressed. In this episode, hear Claudia as she starts to shift positively on the way she looks at the upcoming events. Do you also want to start shifting your negative emotions into positive ones? Then sign up for my FREE Social Confidence Starter Kit by going to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow __________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

18 Okt 20223min