Learning to Let Go, Never Offering Unsolicited Advice, and Getting Good at Saying, ‘I Don’t Know’’ | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle pressing listener questions on parenting, leadership, and self-improvement. They discuss whether staying together for the kids is truly the best choice, how men often overcomplicate simple solutions, and why discounting others' success is a losing mindset. Ryan also shares insights on leading former peers, navigating the role of a stepfather, and staying accountable within the Iron Council. Packed with practical advice and tough love, this episode challenges listeners to level up. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction & Weekly Headlines 04:48 – Together for the Kids? 13:02 – Overcomplicating the Uncomplicated 23:38 – The Power of Accountability & Battle Teams 26:59 – Leading Former Peers as a New Manager 33:54 – Navigating Fatherhood as a Stepfather 47:41 – Discounting Other People’s Success & Personal Growth 54:01 – Closing Thoughts & Upcoming Events Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

12 Mars 56min

It’s been said that alcohol is the only drug that, if you don’t take it, people think something is wrong with you. And, I know firsthand what it’s like for alcohol use and abuse to take root in your life. My guest today, James Swanwick makes the case that there is nothing good that comes from drinking alcohol – even in moderation and on occasion. Today, we talk about how quickly it can compromise your quality of life, production, and relationships, why he views alcohol as nothing more than “Attractively Packaged Poison,” how you can adopt the alcohol-free lifestyle, the importance of addressing the internal root of addiction, and how facing your own insecurities, although uncomfortable can help you crack the code. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Catching Up 00:24 - Ryan’s Alcohol Struggle and Recovery 01:24 - The Hidden Costs of Drinking 02:52 - Reclaiming Time and Energy 05:25 - Addressing Social Pressure to Drink 08:37 - Alcohol as a Cultural Myth 10:57 - Debunking Alcohol’s Health Benefits 14:09 - The Influence of Big Alcohol 15:59 - Genetic Predisposition to Alcohol 19:20 - Changing Habits, Changing Genes 22:56 - Finding Fulfillment Without Alcohol 25:55 - Starting the Hero’s Journey 28:47 - Building a Like-Minded Community 31:45 - Ryan’s Ongoing Journey 33:18 - Addiction as a Superpower? 37:06 - Balancing Life’s Pillars 40:55 - Leaning Into Personal Development 44:31 - James’s Emotional Breakthrough 48:50 - The Power of Community Support 51:06 - Where to Connect with James Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

11 Mars 59min

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler discusses why every man must learn to advocate for himself. He explains how setting boundaries, communicating needs, and standing firm in convictions are essential for personal and professional success. Ryan challenges the belief that self-advocacy is selfish and presents compelling research on how men who stand up for themselves experience greater fulfillment, stronger relationships, and better health. He also shares practical steps for asserting oneself in all areas of life. Tune in to learn how to take control of your mission, command respect, and lead with confidence. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 02:40 – No One is Coming to Save You 05:02 – Your Mission, Your Responsibility 09:51 – Your Strength Commands Respect 12:15 – Your Family and Community Need a Leader 17:09 – Weak Men Get Walked On, Strong Men Get Results 19:20 – Final Thoughts & Call to Action Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

7 Mars 22min

In this week's Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle pressing questions from listeners on self-improvement, purpose, and resilience. They discuss the importance of discipline, finding passion, and navigating major life transitions like retirement. They also explore the impact of mindset on success, the dangers of victim mentality, and how small decisions can lead to lasting growth. Plus, Ryan shares a personal story about saying “yes” to unexpected opportunities. Tune in for another insightful and thought-provoking conversation. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction & Monday Mindset 04:35 – Zelensky, Trump, and Diplomacy 11:10 – The Impact of Screen Time on Kids 14:23 – Viewer Question: Am I Enough? 22:52 – Viewer Question: What is My Purpose? 29:48 – Viewer Question: How Do You Get Out of Bed Every Day? 39:26 – Viewer Question: Preparing for Retirement 45:52 – Viewer Question: How to Find Your Passion? 52:29 – Viewer Question: Am I Better Than Yesterday? 58:24 – Viewer Question: How Will I Be Remembered? 1:04:24 – Viewer Question: Are You Doing What You Should Be Doing? 1:10:53 – Viewer Question: What Battle Are You Fighting That Isn’t Yours? 1:15:00 – Closing Thoughts Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

5 Mars 1h 21min

The way you tap into the matter that represents the 6” between you ears matters. The fact is, all of us have the same amount of time in the day. Sure, some people are born more intelligent, wealthy, or connected than others. But can you level the playing field? That’s the only question that matters. My guest today, John Assaraf, believes that you can. He’s made it his life’s mission to show you how. Today, we talk about finding out if you’re “interested” or “committed” and the difference, how to turn your possibility into predictability using proven systems, how much time you really need to commit each day to improving (the answer might shock you), breaking free from the expectations of others, and finding what John calls the “Neuroplasticity Switch.” SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction   00:29 – Shifting from Outer to Inner Work   01:51 – Perspective Shift   04:11 – The Power of Thoughts & Neurochemistry   10:31 – Understanding the Cybernetic Mechanism   14:21 – Mentorship & Commitment   21:38 – Visualization & Skill Upgrading   33:14 – The Entrepreneurial Mindset   43:08 – The Agentic AI Revolution   56:31 – Breaking Limiting Beliefs   01:04:27 – Closing Thoughts Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

4 Mars 1h 13min

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the concept of Command Presence—the ability to lead with confidence, clarity, and composure. He breaks down the four essential pillars of command presence: Clarity, Character, Competence, and Composure. Through personal stories and real-world examples, Ryan explains why every man should cultivate this leadership trait to positively influence his family, workplace, and community. He also shares insights from a recent leadership discussion inside the Iron Council. Tune in to learn how to build command presence and become the man you are meant to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 – Introduction to Command Presence 01:40 – The four pillars of Command Presence 03:47 – Importance of clarity in leadership 05:12 – Character: Leading by example 10:46 – Competence: Why skills matter 13:08 – Composure under pressure 14:15 – A real-world example of Command Presence 18:58 – Why Command Presence impacts every area of life 20:28 – Final thoughts and takeaways Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

28 Feb 22min

In this episode of Order of Man, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle another round of Ask Me Anything, answering pressing questions from the Iron Council. They discuss the importance of letting go of past regrets, dealing with grief, navigating difficult conversations, and taking ownership of life’s decisions. Ryan also shares insights on leadership, personal responsibility, and the value of embracing discomfort for growth. Whether it’s coaching youth sports, handling setbacks, or preparing for a marathon, this episode is packed with practical wisdom. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction & Weekly Headlines 21:45 – Advice for Your 20-Year-Old Self 30:52 – Handling Death, Grief, and a Fixed Future 41:04 – U.S.-Canada Relations & Economic Tensions 44:58 – Marathon Training & Endurance Preparation 47:00 – Most Memorable Rite of Passage 51:42 – Coaching Challenges & Leadership in Youth Sports 1:06:01 – Greatest Failure and Life Lessons Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

26 Feb 1h 19min

It’s likely that all of you know my guest today but may not immediately recognize his name. He is Patrick Renna but you may know him his most well-known movie roll, Hamilton Porter from The Sandlot. But Patrick is so much more than the young kid we saw on the movie screen over 30 years ago. Today, Patrick and I talk about struggles people we put on pedestals face, pivoting in life but doing it in something you’re passionate about, how Hollywood has changed and how it will continue to do so, striking the balance between giving your kids opportunities and letting them struggle, and what we can learn both on and off the baseball diamond. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction & Guest Welcome   00:43 - Patrick’s Childhood and Early Acting Career   03:14 - Dealing with Fame at a Young Age   06:12 - Moving to Hollywood & Early Success   07:57 - The Importance of a Normal Childhood   10:45 - Building Strong, Lifelong Friendships   15:07 - Writing a Children's Book & Life Lessons   18:37 - The Power of Taking Your Shot   19:47 - Sports & Life Lessons for Kids   24:04 - Stepping Away from Acting & Finding Purpose   26:44 - The Reality of Hollywood Wealth & Success   30:57 - Parenting & Lessons from Childhood   33:26 - Launching a Production Company   36:20 - Staying True to Your Passion   41:59 - The Reality of Acting Behind the Scenes   43:23 - How Hollywood Has Changed Over 30 Years   46:08 - The Future of AI in Entertainment   50:19 - Where to Find Patrick & Closing Remarks   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

25 Feb 58min