Think It’s Love? 5 Signs It’s Obsession (And It’ll Never Last)

There's some really interesting psychology about compliments: not all of them have the same effect. You can give generic compliments, or you can give compliments that create real attraction and connec...

3 Nov 20235min

I can’t tell you how many times a week someone online says to me: “Matthew, I’ve had enough. I’m just going to give up on dating altogether.” It may be because they are sick of getting their heart bro...

27 Okt 20238min

“How can I stop addictive thoughts about someone who’s wrong for me?” When we really like someone but know there are signs of problems, we’ll often overvalue them for their charisma and charm . . . an...

23 Okt 202315min

It’s hard to find love when you don’t feel loveable yourself. When you know you’ve made a ton of mistakes. Or you’ve internalized the idea that you’re just not a likable person. It becomes a self-perp...

20 Okt 20237min

It’s easy to ignore red flags when we’re falling for someone. But our heart pays the price. When you’re really attracted to someone, you can talk yourself out of acting on your concerns. You may purs...

16 Okt 202321min

We often tell people they should be open in relationships. But what does it mean to be "open"? And can vulnerability become over-sharing, or is it always healthy? In this episode clip, Matt and Steve ...

13 Okt 202312min

Do you find yourself always chasing the same type of people in dating? It can be incredibly frustrating when you get caught in familiar toxic patterns. You want to throw your hands up and say, “How d...

9 Okt 202313min

It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it. Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn? Join us as we talk about the kind of romance that matters in relationships and h...

6 Okt 20239min