18 - Hayley and Jay: a 30-year battle for the right diagnosis

18 - Hayley and Jay: a 30-year battle for the right diagnosis

In what Dr Louise Newson calls ‘the most impactful podcast I've ever recorded’, this powerful episode shares the extraordinary story of Hayley and her son, Jay.

Hayley spent nearly 30 years in and out of psychiatric hospitals. She was diagnosed with postnatal psychosis, premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD), depression and treatment-resistant mental illness. She was prescribed antipsychotics, antidepressants and even received electroconvulsive therapy. At one point, she was told she might have dementia.

After years of watching his mum, Hayley, struggle with severe mental illness, hospital stays, and treatments that never truly helped, her son Jay came across an episode of the Dr Louise Newson discussing the impact of hormones on mental health. For the first time, things started to make sense.

It led him to question whether hormones could have been the missing piece all along. With persistence and care, he pushed for Hayley to be given HRT, and the results were life changing. Together, Jay and Hayley share their emotional story of misdiagnosis, misunderstanding, and the powerful difference hormone treatment made after decades of suffering.

This episode is not just a story: it's a call to action. It highlights the often-ignored link between hormones and mental health, the systemic failures in women's healthcare, and the critical need for change.

Please listen, reflect and share. Because not everyone has a son like Jay.

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Disclaimer:

Please note: This episode contains discussions around suicide, self-harm, and severe mental health struggles, which some listeners may find distressing. If you or someone you know is struggling, please know that help is available.

In the UK, you can contact Samaritans 24/7 at 116 123 or visit samaritans.org. If you're outside the UK, please reach out to a local crisis support service or emergency medical help.

The information provided in this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health providers with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of Dr Louise Newson or the Newson Health Group.    

  

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027 - Menopause and the Skin - Dr Sajjad Rajpar and Dr Louise Newson

027 - Menopause and the Skin - Dr Sajjad Rajpar and Dr Louise Newson

In this week's podcast, Dr Louise Newson is talking to leading consultant dermatologist Dr Sajjad Rajpar. Together, they discuss all about the skin and how it can change during the perimenopause and menopause. The low hormone levels that occur during the perimenopause and menopause often have a negative effect on the collagen in the skin, which can lead to changes in appearance and elasticity. As well as this, skin concerns such as dryness and acne are a common occurrence during this time of our lives. Dr Newson and Dr Rajpar also discuss HRT and the effectiveness of giving oestrogen through the skin as a patch or gel. More information about Dr Rajpar, including his serum, is available here: https://belgraviadermatology.co.uk/  Dr Rajpar's Three Take Home Tips for Healthy Skin: Avoid soap and use gentle cleanser, moisturise twice daily. Be sensible with the sun - wear factor 50. Stop smoking! Nicotine can have a very negative effect on your skin.

10 Dec 201930min

026 - Surgical Menopause - Dr Rebecca Lewis & Dr Louise Newson

026 - Surgical Menopause - Dr Rebecca Lewis & Dr Louise Newson

In this week's episode, Dr Louise Newson chats to her good friend, Dr Rebecca Lewis, who is also a clinical director at Newson Health Menopause and Wellbeing Centre. Together they discuss surgical menopause. Surgical menopause can often be very different to a natural menopause because it happens very suddenly. Women who have their ovaries removed during an operation are plunged into the menopause straight away. In addition, women who have a hysterectomy without their ovaries being removed still have a higher risk of an early menopause. Dr Newson and Dr Lewis discuss the most effective ways of treating surgical menopause. Dr Lewis' Three Take Home Tips: Think about menopause before your surgery - be aware of the symptoms you may experience. Discuss HRT with your surgeon before surgery. Have a solution and treatment plan in place before the operation.

3 Dec 201929min

025 - Missing my Perimenopause - Katie Taylor & Dr Louise Newson

025 - Missing my Perimenopause - Katie Taylor & Dr Louise Newson

In this week's episode, Dr Newson chats to Katie Taylor. From the age of 43 Katie suffered for four years with debilitating perimenopausal symptoms, which had been misdiagnosed as depression by her doctor.   It was only when her father, a breast cancer professor, suggested that he thought her symptoms were more likely to be hormonal, did she finally get the right diagnosis from her gynaecologist. Within a month of being on the right treatment (HRT) and off the antidepressants, she felt like her old self again.   It was her anger and frustration at having wasted so many years of precious life, that led her to set up an online virtual coffee shop: The Latte Lounge (Top Tips For Women Over 40), to share her experience with others. Katie and Dr Newson discuss how commonly women are misdiagnosed and then are not receiving the right treatment for their symptoms.  www.lattelounge.co   Katie Taylor's Three Take Home Tips: Print off this symptom checklist and the NICE menopause guidelines and go to your doctor feeling empowered and armed with information. Know that HRT should be the first-line treatment, not just anti-depressants. Remember you're not alone! Join the Latte Lounge or Menopause Support and talk to like-minded women.

26 Nov 201928min

024 - Menopause & West Midlands Police - Yvonne Bruton & Dr Louise Newson

024 - Menopause & West Midlands Police - Yvonne Bruton & Dr Louise Newson

In this episode, Dr Louise Newson chats to Yvonne Bruton, a chief inspector at West Midlands Police who currently heads up the Violence Reduction Unit. Yvonne is also the chair of her Women in Policing association. Dr Newson and Yvonne have worked closely in the past and shared a journey over the last few years; Dr Newson has shared her passion and expertise and Yvonne has shared the problems that are experienced, not only by women in the workplace, but also by trying to design organisational responses to these within a challenging working environment! Policing is about improving people’s lives and protecting them from harm – but they need to look after the workforce to enable them to get out there and do that. Dr Newson has helped support and champion the work that West Midlands Police have been doing with menopause in the workplace and in this podcast they discuss Yvonne's inspirational work and how other organisation's can follow their lead.  Yvonne's Three Take Home Tips for Menopause Support at Work: Find someone to talk to - that could be a colleague experiencing similar problems or a peer support group. Find an organisational advocate within your workplace. Don't be afraid to make noise!

19 Nov 201934min

023 - Menopause & the Pelvic Floor - Nicola Mulkeen & Dr Louise Newson

023 - Menopause & the Pelvic Floor - Nicola Mulkeen & Dr Louise Newson

In this podcast, Dr Newson is speaking with Nicola Mulkeen, a very experienced and knowledgeable pelvic floor physiotherapist. Together they discuss what exactly the pelvic floor muscles are and what they do in our bodies. Nicola talks about the importance of regular pelvic floor exercises and how to perform them. Dr Newson also asks Nicola about different types of urinary incontinence and how women experiencing symptoms should be receiving the right help and treatment. Find out more about Nicola here: https://www.newsonhealth.co.uk/holistic-therapies/physiotherapy Nicola Mulkeen's Three Take Home Tips for Pelvic Floor Health: Don't suffer in silence - get a referral from your GP if you have any concerns. Prevention is better than reacting to symptoms once they occur, so it's always a good time to start thinking about your pelvic floor health. Don't be embarrassed to talk about bladder and bowel problems or sexual health.

12 Nov 201924min

022 - Menopause for Partners - Leigh Goulding & Dr Louise Newson

022 - Menopause for Partners - Leigh Goulding & Dr Louise Newson

Partners of menopausal women are often neglected. In this podcast, Dr Louise Newson talks to Leigh, a partner of one of her patients who vividly describes how worried he was when he saw the changes in his wife and had no idea what was going on. They discuss potential ways of improving education to men and partners. It is really important that partners are involved and understand potential symptoms. Partners can often have a pivotal role in diagnosing the perimenopause and menopause and can help seek the right advice and treatment.  Click here to take a look at this booklet, created by Dr Newson, which is a helpful guide specially created for partners to help a loved one manage the menopause: https://bit.ly/2NJkNXs Leigh Goulding's Three Take Home Tips for partners: Hold your tongue - any arguments you may be having may simply be due to perimenopaue and menopause. Do your research and make sure to check the sources of whatever you read. "Happy wife, happy life!"

5 Nov 201919min

021 - MPowered Women - Saska Graville & Dr Louise Newson

021 - MPowered Women - Saska Graville & Dr Louise Newson

In this episode, Dr Newson chats to Saska Graville, co founder of Mpoweredwomen.net; a community of doctors, wellbeing experts and brilliant women, to power you through menopause. Despite a career in women’s magazines, including being the deputy editor of Red, Saska had no idea that anxiety and loss of confidence were classic perimenopause symptoms. Hot flushes were the extent of her knowledge, and she’d never had one. She blamed her anxiety and loss of confidence in her late 40s on a career change.  MPowered Women ensures that no woman has to struggle and be uninformed about what the hell is going on with her physical and mental health, and what she can do about it. With no subject off limits, MPowered Women has her back.  www.mpoweredwomen.net Saska Graville's Three take Home Tips: Don't panic! Don't believe the headlines - search for factual, evidence-based advice. Take someone with you to your doctor's appointment if you're feeling nervous, and before you visit, look at the Menopause Doctor website and arm yourself with information and advice. Also, visit the Menopause Support website and download the 'Ten things your GP should know about the menopause'.

29 Okt 201933min

020 - Menopause and Antidepressants - Kim Goulding & Dr Louise Newson

020 - Menopause and Antidepressants - Kim Goulding & Dr Louise Newson

Kim Goulding is one of Dr Newson's patients here at Newson Health. In today's episode, Kim talks about her own experience with the menopause how she was offered antidepressants. She has always been the driving force behind her family and became socially withdrawn and very low in her mood. She had no idea initially what was happening to her and her life had really changed. She talks to Dr Newson about how she tried to receive the right treatment and her experience taking HRT. Kim's Three Take Home Tips: It can be difficult when struggling with severe symptoms, but go and find the right help. If your GP can't help you then go private if you can. Women should not have to pay for good quality menopause care, but getting the right treatment is priceless! Get informed and search for evidence-based resources, such as menopausedoctor.co.uk.

22 Okt 201928min

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