Why Your Kids Don’t Want to Spend Time With You (And How To Fix That)

Why Your Kids Don’t Want to Spend Time With You (And How To Fix That)

In this deeply personal episode of Lights On, a father sits down with his wife Laura and daughter to reveal the unconventional family culture that has their kids choosing couch time over parties. They dive into the "corny" traditions that actually work, why confrontation leads to clarity, and how making awkward topics conversational changed everything. From discussing porn at the dinner table to the "no snitch" rule they completely reject, this family shares raw insights on raising emotionally intelligent kids who actually want to be home. Whether you're struggling to connect with your teenagers or wondering why family dinners matter, this conversation offers practical wisdom mixed with laugh-out-loud moments and surprising tears. Warning: This episode might challenge everything you think you know about "appropriate" family conversations.

00:00 - Family Culture & Why Our Kids Choose Us Over Parties (Intro)

00:53 - Summer Jobs, Stripper Poles & Love Island Drama

04:30 - The Father's Day Dinner That Changed Everything

11:10 - Why "Corny" Family Traditions Actually Work

20:47 - How Close Families Can Be Annoying (The Warning)

21:47 - God Behind Bars Partnership

22:23 - Confrontation Creates Clarity: Our Family Rules

31:02 - The Power of Family Dinners (Harvard Study)

40:30 - Breaking the "No Snitch" Culture

44:41 - Plana.org: Help for the Unexpected

45:23 - Why We Talk About P*rn at the Dinner Table


Follow Carl at: https://www.instagram.com/carllentz/

Follow Laura at: https://www.instagram.com/lauralentz/


Supported by God Behind Bars https://godbehindbars.com

Supported by Plana https://plana.org/

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Det här avsnittet är hämtat från ett öppet RSS-flöde och publiceras inte av Podme. Det kan innehålla reklam.

Avsnitt(102)

What Your Anger is Actually Trying to Tell You

What Your Anger is Actually Trying to Tell You

Want to submit questions? Email us at hello@carlandlaura.comA listener wrote in with a question almost every betrayed spouse eventually wrestles with: I have every right to be angry, but I can feel it...

29 Juni 56min

The two decisions every couple has to make after betrayal

The two decisions every couple has to make after betrayal

Want to submit questions? Email us at hello@carlandlaura.comAfter last week's episode reframing the most asked question in betrayal recovery, Carl and Laura pick up exactly where they left off. In thi...

22 Juni 33min

Should I stay or should I leave? (You're asking the wrong question)

Should I stay or should I leave? (You're asking the wrong question)

Want to submit questions? Email us at hello@carlandlaura.comAfter betrayal, almost every couple lands on the same question: should I stay or should I leave? In this episode of Lights On, Carl and Laur...

15 Juni 30min

You Will Not Get Around to a Healthy Marriage "Someday" (Part 2 with the Metcalfs)

You Will Not Get Around to a Healthy Marriage "Someday" (Part 2 with the Metcalfs)

Charles and Abby Metcalf are back at the table, and this one goes deeper than part one. In this episode of Lights On, Carl, Laura, Charles, and Abby get into the parts of marriage that quietly erode u...

8 Juni 1h 8min

What Kids Actually Do to Your Marriage | Ft. Charles and Abby Metcalf

What Kids Actually Do to Your Marriage | Ft. Charles and Abby Metcalf

Want to submit questions? Email us at hello@carlandlaura.comFor the first time on Lights On, Carl and Laura invited guests to the table: Charles and Abby Metcalf, dear friends, pastors, and parents of...

1 Juni 59min

How do you rebuild intimacy after betrayal?

How do you rebuild intimacy after betrayal?

Want to submit questions? Email us at hello@carlandlaura.com This is the number one question Carl and Laura get asked, so they finally gave it a whole episode. A listener wrote in asking how you rebui...

25 Maj 55min

How do you parent your kids when you feel disqualified?

How do you parent your kids when you feel disqualified?

Want to submit questions? Email us at hello@carlandlaura.comWhen a parent emailed asking how to discipline their kids after blowing up the family, we knew this conversation needed its own episode. The...

18 Maj 40min

How Do You Know When FORGIVENESS Is REAL?

How Do You Know When FORGIVENESS Is REAL?

Want to submit questions? Email us at hello@carlandlaura.comWhen a husband emailed asking why his wife still brings up his affair every week, three years after it happened, even though she says she ha...

11 Maj 48min

Populärt inom Samhälle & Kultur

podme-dokumentar
svenska-fall
aftonbladet-krim
gynning-berg
en-mork-historia
p3-dokumentar
badfluence
tv4-nyheterna-story
skaringer-nessvold
de-fyras-gang
creepypodden-med-jack-werner
killradet
spar
rss-expressen-dok
mardromsgasten
hor-har
aftonbladet-daily
flashback-forever
kod-katastrof
p3-historia