79. What to Do When Someone in Your Life Feels Beyond Difficult | My Conversation with Dr. Jessie Stern & Rachel Samson

Are you caught in a cycle of conflict and misunderstanding in your relationships? This episode takes you through the Drama Triangle, a psychological model that highlights the roles of victim, persecutor, and rescuer that we often unconsciously adopt. Learn how these roles restrict us and discover a path to empowerment by transitioning into the roles of creator, challenger, and coach. By embracing these new identities, you can foster healthier, more fulfilling relationships and personal growth...

17 Apr 202416min

Ever found yourself tangled in friendship drama that feels like a never-ending soap opera? In today's episode of Speak Honest, we dive deep with Sarah into the murky waters of friendship conflicts, uncovering the roles we play in the drama triangle. With a sprinkle of laughter, a dash of wisdom, and a whole lot of heart, we explore the importance of treating our friendships with the same care we do our romantic relationships. Sarah shares her story of feeling betrayed and the knee...

10 Apr 202444min

On this episode of "Speak Honest," we explore the essential topic of grounding techniques and their significant impact on managing emotional triggers and stress. We discuss what triggers mean, how they can act as catalysts for personal growth, and the importance of grounding techniques in turning these moments from potential setbacks into opportunities for mindfulness and presence. Sharing personal stories and offering practical tips, like the color-spotting method and deep breathing exercise...

3 Apr 202420min

In this heart-to-heart episode, we dive deep with Sonja, a fellow coach who's navigating the tricky waters of perfectionism and the weight of responsibility in her coaching world. Together, we peel back the layers of Sonja's relationship with herself, her amazing clients, and the heartbeat of her business. It's all about finding that sweet spot between growing personally and shining professionally, easing the pressure of marketing, and untangling the web of responsibility and codependency th...

27 Mars 202440min

Ever had a moment when something small made your emotions skyrocket? We all have, and it's not just about big, scary stuff from our pasts. Today, we're taking a cue from Gabor Maté, an awesome psychologist, to look at triggers in a cool new way. Think of it like finding secret messages from your emotions, showing you ways to grow and get better at handling tough moments. We're going to share some simple tips on how to work through those feelings and make our relationships stronger and more un...

20 Mars 202419min

Dive into the heart of love's ebbs and flows with our latest episode, with the wonderfully open and insightful Alex. We peel back the layers of her tumultuous on-again, off-again relationship, examining how this constant cycle is impacting her well-being and sense of self-worth. Our conversation delves deep into the importance of understanding personal desires and the power of recognizing one's worth beyond the instability of intermittent relationships. Alex's journey is a powerful reminder ...

13 Mars 20241h 29min

Today we're getting into the nitty-gritty of how our attachment styles—be it secure, anxious, avoidant, or even disorganized—shape the way we juggle needing others and standing on our own two feet in our relationships. We're talking about what it means to lean on someone just the right amount, how to spot when it's tipping into codependency, or when we're pulling away too much because of our attachment vibes. I've got some real-life stories to make sense of all this and to show why getting a ...

6 Mars 202414min

Conquering Perfectionism and Imposter Syndrome: A Journey into Casual Teaching In our latest episode, join me, Jennifer Noble, as we dive deep with Dee, a dedicated casual teacher navigating the choppy waters of perfectionism and imposter syndrome in the teaching world. Dee opens up about the high stakes of living up to full-time teacher standards, her relentless pursuit of improvement, and the weight of workplace perceptions. Together, we unravel the significance of drawing boundaries and s...

28 Feb 202458min