Ep206: Tying outside a marriage -  An interview with monogamous couple Pearl and Bayowolf
Rope Podcast11 Aug 2025

Ep206: Tying outside a marriage - An interview with monogamous couple Pearl and Bayowolf

Bayowolf and Wolfspearl have been married for 42 years and partners in kink for the last 13. Shibari has become a central part of their journey over the past six years, deepening both their connection and their creativity. About a year and a half ago, with open communication and a deep commitment to their marriage, they chose to begin tying with other people—an experience that has expanded their skills and enriched the bond they share. Both live with autoimmune diseases and actively pursue health and strength through clean eating and an intense fitness regimen, showing that resilience, love, and rope can go hand in hand. In the episode Mya and Fox explore with this delightful couple: • Why they decided to tie with other tops and bottoms • How they explored and agreed what rope with others would look like • Their limits and boundaries to ensure they protect their relationship • What the most challenging topics of discussion were in that conversation • The ways in which they built trust in each other and relaxed some of their boundaries over time • The benefits gained and learnings through tying outside their marriage • Differences between tying with each other versus other people • Being each others’ cheerleaders • Integrating into the rope community as a rope top and rope bottom in their sixties • ‘Onboarding’ new rope bottoms safely • Their perspective on why there are so few rope bottoms over 35 in the community • Tips for older rope bottoms and tops integrating into a new rope community • And plenty more

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Ep200: Special episode - the Rope Podcast and friends reflect on 200 episodes!

Ep200: Special episode - the Rope Podcast and friends reflect on 200 episodes!

It’s hard for us to believe, but this episode is number 200 of the Rope Podcast. That’s a lot of ropey goodness! Starting back in 2017, we’ve somehow managed to produce episodes every two weeks on a r...

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Ep199: Going deeper with Decorative Rope: An interview with Mistress J (part 2)

Ep199: Going deeper with Decorative Rope: An interview with Mistress J (part 2)

Mistress J is an Australian switch known internationally for her gorgeous decorative rope. In our last episode we explored some fundamentals of the art, as well as getting to know Mistress J and her r...

5 Maj 202521min

Ep198: Decorative Rope as wearable art: An interview with Mistress J (part 1)

Ep198: Decorative Rope as wearable art: An interview with Mistress J (part 1)

Mistress J, best known internationally for the decorative rope designs she creates, particularly beautiful, wearable rope art has been part of her local scene in Melbourne, Australia, for eleven years...

6 Apr 202523min

Ep197: How to set up a hard point when you have a sh*tty suspended ceiling (Listener Question)

Ep197: How to set up a hard point when you have a sh*tty suspended ceiling (Listener Question)

Having lived in a number of condos and had a number of rope spaces, the podcast hosts have a lot of empathy for this question! The episode looks at what hard points are used for, what that means in te...

25 Mars 202540min

Ep196: Marquise Harness: Rope Focus

Ep196: Marquise Harness: Rope Focus

Last year, Fox and Mya learned the gorgeous Marquise harnesses from the one of the creators, @HwG-Paris. Fox was thrilled to learn a ‘French’ tie and the hosts of the podcast have experimented with it...

21 Mars 202524min

Ep195: Combining rope bondage with…impact play

Ep195: Combining rope bondage with…impact play

This is a new type of episode for the Rope Podcast, where Fox and Mya discuss how you might combine rope with other forms of play! Here they start with a classic pairing, ‘impact play’, which is very...

3 Mars 202532min

Ep194: Being a Gender Queer Rope Educator: An interview with Lee Harrington (part2)

Ep194: Being a Gender Queer Rope Educator: An interview with Lee Harrington (part2)

As well as writing the extremely influential “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé”, Lee Harrington has taught over 1100 classes. Fox and Mya asked him about his experiences a...

24 Feb 202524min

Ep193: Navigating the Rope Community: An interview with Lee Harrington (part1)

Ep193: Navigating the Rope Community: An interview with Lee Harrington (part1)

You wouldn’t believe the number of times our guests and listeners share that their introduction to Shibari was the book “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé”. We are thus thr...

10 Feb 202524min

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