#446 Beyond the (Religious) Shame and How to Recreate Your Sex Life

Born and raised in New York City, this Spanish and Italian Bronx born native entered the world of Female Impersonating and Escorting in the late 80’s. His Drag persona Fiona St. James has experienced success in night clubs worldwide as well as being the 15th elected and still the only Latina Empress of The Imperial Court of New York. He has appeared in film on “To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything Julie Newmar”, “Stonewall”, “Ugly Betty”, and “Orange is the New Black”.  His most memorable role was playing the resident prison tranny bitch on the hit HBO series “OZ” for five of the six seasons. His adventures in drag and escorting inspired him to write his memoirs where he shares stories about pushing boundaries and raising eyebrows sexually, professionally and personally with no shame for over 30 years!  For his book visit: http://www.fionastjames.com To book a massage appointment call (646 387 9048) or visit: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28569/ https://rentmasseur.com/CuteSmoothBobby Escorting services:        https://rent.men/BobbyStJames Social Media: https://instagram.com/fionastjamespalacio https://twitter.com/fionastjamesds9 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4E8BwQY72b24P4YwRDXNcA

29 Nov 201940min

Alice Little is the most successful licensed sex worker in the United States. Alice has been voted the #1 Companion of the Year at the world famous Moonlite Bunny Ranch legal brothel in Carson City, Nevada. She is also a go-to intimacy and sexuality coach, an outspoken advocate for sex worker rights and vocal champion for an all-inclusive sex-positive society. Alice has managed to use her notoriety as one of the highest-earning sex workers in the world to push forward causes that she believes in. She founded the political action group “Hookers for Healthcare” to fight for healthcare policies that benefit sex workers and other stigmatized groups. She also co-founded the Nevada Brothel Association, a committee that advocates for the rights of women working in Nevada’s bordellos. Alice has been featured in the Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, The Daily Beast, Refinery 29, BBC News, CNN, ABC Nightline, and on the Tim Ferris Show and Shane & Friends podcasts. To learn more visit thealicelittle.com Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.  We also answer a sex question about Tantra and sexual trauma. Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com

26 Nov 201952min

What are our Core Desires, and how can they lead to hotter, more fulfilling sex? Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA, creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching teach us all about how to dive deeper into our erotic selves. We also answer a sex question: How can I regain broken trust in my relationship? Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip ahead to minute 14. About our guests: Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA are the co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching and the co-founders of the Somatica® Institute. Somatica is a cutting-edge, experiential coaching approach that helps clients shift their neuropatterning so that they can find new, more fulfilling and expressed forms of relating emotionally and sexually. In their Somatica courses, Celeste & Danielle train professional Sex and Relationship Coaches and help individuals and couples transform their lives through personal growth in the arena of sex and relationships. They have co-authored three books - Making Love Real, Cockfidence, and Coming Together. To learn more visit somaticainstitute.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

19 Nov 201947min

November AKA Movember is Prostate Awareness Month! Inspired by Charlie Glickman, PhD and Aislinn Emirzian’s awesome book The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Explorations For Men and Their Partners, we are offering all kinds of tips on prostate pleasure and health, as well as an opportunity to win all kinds of prizes via our Instagram campaign.  We also answer a sex question: My partner's libido has shifted in our longterm relationship. How do I spice things up to make things exciting and juicy again? Instructions for the contest: Open to anyone 18+ of all genders. Listen to this episode where we will share tips and facts about prostate pleasure and health. Then go to Shameless Sex Podcast's Instagram to learn more about how to enter. You will be asked to DM or email us an anonymous photo of yourself like the one here stating something that you learned about prostate pleasure or health. Photo must contain a mustache, and it can be real or fake (including one drawn your the finger). We will use these photos on our IG + stories to teach the public about prostate health and pleasure, so you all get to be a part of the education! Everyone who sends in a photo by Nov. 19th will be entered into a raffle to win a grand prize of: A Hot Octopuss Jett vibrator, a Hot Octopuss Atom + rechargeable C-ring, a copy of Charlie and Aislinn’s book, a bottle of Uberlube, and access to our online Wild Woman workshop. There will also be a few runner up prizes as well.   Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com

12 Nov 201934min

Dr. C AKA Dr. John Carrozzella joins us to talk all about erections, "erectile dysfunction" and the latest and greatest ways to work with the changes all bodies go through with age. We also answer a sex question about how to care for silicone sex toys. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 13.  About our guest: Dr. Carrozzella practiced as as an Orthopaedic Surgeon for 25 years before switching his focus to the nontraditional medical specialties of Hormone Replacement, Sexual Health and Dysfunction and Age Management. He is an expert in Hormone therapy, sexual dysfunction and age management for both men and women. To learn more visit https://www.hormonesandwellness.com/ Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

5 Nov 201958min

Sexpert Tyomi joins us to talk about about how to suck the deeeyuckaaa like a boss. We discuss hand techniques, mouth techniques, positions, and so much more.  We also answer a sex question: I'm disappointed when my partner is too tired to keep playing after he has an orgasm. What should I do? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16.  About Tyomi: Sexpert Tyomi, better known as Glamazon Tyomi, is an International Pleasure Coach who reaches millions of eyes monthly through her social media platforms and written contributions across the internet. In 2011 after experiencing a shift in her modeling career, the Chicago native began her sex education blog Glamerotica101.com with the intent to serve as the female representation for people of color within mainstream sexuality.  Tyomi recognized that people around the world are having issues with connecting to their sexuality, and desired to bring more love and light into the lives of others. Since her entrance into the field of sexuality, Tyomi has had many accomplishments including serving as the resident sexpert for EBONY.com and Blackdoctor.org, hosting her own radio show on Playboy Radio, being published in collegiate Academia by McGraw Hill, hosting a two-year sold our international tour, and so much more. Tyomi has been featured on Comedy Central's Tosh.0 as Daniel's "Favorite Sexpert," and her advice has been featured on several websites including Huffington Post, NY Mag's THE CUT, Essence.com, Askmen.com, SHAPE.com, Blavity.com, VICE.com, Washington Post, The Guardian UK and dozens more. The Glamazon has been a guest on numerous podcasts including "The Nod" podcast on Gimlet Media and has appeared on radio shows featured on Clear Channel Radio, CBS Radio, Playboy Radio, Sirus XM and more. Tyomi currently continues to use a candid and relatable approach to educate the masses about sex via her social media and YouTube Channel Glamerotica101. The Glamazon currently serves as The Exxxotica Expo’s Seminar coordinator and Resident Sexpert and is a ACS Certified Sexologist and Authentic Tantra Practitioner through the Institute of Authentic Tantra. http://sexperttyomi.glamerotica101.com/   Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com

29 Okt 201957min

Simon Rex also known as Dirt Nasty, is an American entertainer. Rising to fame as an MTV VJ, Rex later became an actor known for What I Like About You, Scary Movie 3, 4, and 5, and National Lampoon's Pledge This!. He later developed a rap persona, Dirt Nasty, and had several solo albums and co-founded the supergroup Three Loco. His latest endeavor is as the host of the Nervous Rex Podcast.  Kyle Thiermann is a professional surfer, podcaster, and filmmaker from California. He creates gonzo-style mini-documentaries about current issues happening all over the world. His podcast is called The Kyle Thiermann Show. Go check it out.

26 Okt 20191h 28min

What is Conscious Uncoupling? How can partners navigate divorce, separation and breakups amicably and lovingly? Katherine Woodward Thomas, author of the New York Times Bestseller Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After joins us as we unpack all this and much much more.  We also answer a sex question: My partner and I have a pregnancy fantasy - is this normal and how can we roleplay this? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About our guest: Katherine Woodward Thomas is the author of the New York Times Bestseller Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After and the national bestseller, Calling in “The One:” 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life. She is also a licensed marriage and family therapist and teacher to thousands from all corners of the world in her virtual and in-person learning communities. Katherine has also trained and credentialed hundreds of people as Certified Conscious Uncoupling Coaches and as Certified Calling in “The One” Coaches. To learn more go to katherinewoodwardthomas.com Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Be the first to try our fav wine maker's fall releases by signing up for her newsletter at marginswine.com

22 Okt 20191h 14min