ADAM LANE SMITH | How Men and Women Cause Each Other Pain

ADAM LANE SMITH | How Men and Women Cause Each Other Pain

Why can’t women just understand men? Why can’t men just understand women? The short answer is, “we’re not supposed to.” If we were, we wouldn’t really have any need for each other, would we? My guest today, Adam Lane Smith, has made it his life’s work to get closer to helping men understand women and help us understand our own natural tendencies in relationships.

Today, Adam and I talk about emotional starvation, the concept of CEO/COO between men and women, the ‘red flags’ that your marriage is struggling, what men and women do to cause each other pain, and how men can lead in their relationships much more effectively.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – Finding Purpose and Chasing It
00:59 – Building a 200-Year Family System
02:51 – Two Worlds: Secure vs Insecure Attachment
05:55 – Teaching People Safety vs Creating Secure Attachment
07:27 – Maslow’s Hierarchy and Emotional Safety
10:46 – Safety for Men as Peace
14:19 – Security Starts Outside the Relationship
17:38 – Rebuilding a Marriage After Decades
20:53 – Invalidation and Dismissal in Relationships
22:23 – Venting vs Bringing Concerns
27:18 – The Purpose of Female Feelings as Data
29:36 – Men and Women’s Brains Are Meant to Interlink
32:05 – The Ancient Fear of Not Being Believed
37:25 – Emotional Starvation in Relationships
40:38 – Signs She’s Thriving or Starving Emotionally
45:13 – Four Levels of Safety Women Need
48:24 – Level 1: Physical Safety
50:07 – Level 2: Resource Safety
52:00 – Choosing the Right Woman for Your Circle
55:08 – Defining Masculine and Feminine Roles
58:32 – How Men Decide and Women Refine
01:02:05 – Level 3: Emotional Safety
01:04:29 – Level 4: Bonding Safety

Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!

Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.

For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.

Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Avsnitt(1424)

OoM 032: Becoming a Man Through 4 Tactical Virtues with Jack Donovan

OoM 032: Becoming a Man Through 4 Tactical Virtues with Jack Donovan

Being a man is hard work. We all have so many roles and responsibilities (husband, father, business owner, community leader, and the list goes on and on). In addition to that the media, and the world are trying to tell you how you should behave and what it means to The post OoM 032: Becoming a Man Through 4 Tactical Virtues with Jack Donovan appeared first on Order of Man.

27 Okt 201532min

OoM 031: Survival Skills for Every Scenario with Creek Stewart

OoM 031: Survival Skills for Every Scenario with Creek Stewart

You never know when you’ll be placed in a survival situation. Whether it’s a natural disaster, becoming lost in the wilderness, or surviving a bear attack (like we talk about on the show today) your knowledge of survival skills could literally spell the difference between life and death. At theThe post OoM 031: Survival Skills for Every Scenario with Creek Stewart appeared first on Order of Man.

20 Okt 201541min

OoM 030: Becoming a Real Man and Helping Others do the Same with JuVan Langford

OoM 030: Becoming a Real Man and Helping Others do the Same with JuVan Langford

Men, myself included, have a tendency to focus outside of themselves. What do I have to get done? Who is relying on me? What do they need from me right now? And, while those are noble thoughts and ambitions, it’s very difficult to sustain for any measurable amount of timeThe post OoM 030: Becoming a Real Man and Helping Others do the Same with JuVan Langford appeared first on Order of Man.

13 Okt 201541min

OoM 029: Hunting, Fishing, Wildgame Recipes, and Harvesting Nature with Justin Townsend

OoM 029: Hunting, Fishing, Wildgame Recipes, and Harvesting Nature with Justin Townsend

The earliest skill sets of man included the ability to hunt game and provide for the tribe. In fact, a man’s ability to survive, protect, and provide for his family and himself is still a primary mark of a man. This week I have a conversation with Justin Townsend about hunting, fishing, and harvesting nature to do just that. We’ll talk about using nature as a resource to provide, how to create lasting memories in the outdoors with your family, and everything you need to get started on your own hunting adventures. The post OoM 029: Hunting, Fishing, Wildgame Recipes, and Harvesting Nature with Justin Townsend appeared first on Order of Man.

1 Okt 201537min

OoM 028: Life Lessons Learned from America's Pastime with Travis Chock

OoM 028: Life Lessons Learned from America's Pastime with Travis Chock

It's a fact, most men thrive on competition. Competitive sports are as old as time. They test our skills, our abilities, our strength, and so much more. But, more than that, sports are a metaphor for life. I can't think of another opportunity where you can learn how to win, how to lose, teamwork, discipline, commitment and every other trait that will help you thrive as a man. This week, I talk with Travis Chock, C0-Founder of Baseballism about America's Pastime, lessons learned from the baseball diamond, and how to turn a passion for the game into a thriving business. "We played head down baseball, done the right way with respect of the game and humility." Tweet That Meet Travis Chock Travis Chock is the Co-Founder of Baseballism, a clothing and accessories brand that focuses on turning a love for the game of baseball into a lifestyle filled with passion, commitment, and discipline. Started in 2006 as a Youth Baseball Camp, Baseballism has quickly grown into a recognizable brand that serves professional baseball players down to their core audience of youth and high school athletes. Travis has a degree in education studies and is a former college athlete but has since turned his love for the game into a full-time career with locations around the country and more stores opening soon. Baseballism has 372,000 Facebook Fans, 52,000 Twitter Followers, and 121,000 Instagram followers attesting to the fact that Travis knows how to create a huge and loyal following. "You want to go down swinging. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work but at least you gave it a shot." Tweet That What You'll Be Learning How 4 college buddies started a recognizable American Lifestyle Brand How to turn your passion into a business Why baseball is America's pastime The best life lessons we can learn from sports Why you shouldn't sideline coach your children's teams Why striking out is important "For all of us, baseball is a passion." Tweet That Connect with Travis Chock, Baseballism Website: www.baseballism.com Facebook: Baseballism Twitter: @baseballism Instagram: Baseballism "Baseballism means 'from baseball,' believing in what the game has to offer and the good in baseball." Tweet That

29 Sep 201530min

OoM 027: Growing Up, Getting Unstuck, and Learning to Fail with Paul Angone

OoM 027: Growing Up, Getting Unstuck, and Learning to Fail with Paul Angone

If I had a dime for every time someone told me “I feel stuck,” I’d be a rich man. It’s such a hot topic that I think all men have dealt with it at some point, myself included. The reality is that there isn’t much that separates those men whoThe post OoM 027: Growing Up, Getting Unstuck, and Learning to Fail with Paul Angone appeared first on Order of Man.

22 Sep 201544min

OoM 026: Becoming a Self Made Man with Mike Dillard

OoM 026: Becoming a Self Made Man with Mike Dillard

A real man is a strong man, one who has identified his core values and has mastered himself. However, with the environment changing so fast around us, it’s hard to keep up let alone remain a beacon of stability and strength in the lives of those you love. This week,The post OoM 026: Becoming a Self Made Man with Mike Dillard appeared first on Order of Man.

15 Sep 201537min

OoM 025: Becoming the Dad Your Kids Need You To Be With Larry Hagner

OoM 025: Becoming the Dad Your Kids Need You To Be With Larry Hagner

If you’re a father, being a good dad is something you strive to be. But, when reality hits, we, as men, find it more difficult that we thought it would be. You have clear and ambitious goals, for your business, your finances, and your health but can the same thingThe post OoM 025: Becoming the Dad Your Kids Need You To Be With Larry Hagner appeared first on Order of Man.

8 Sep 201541min

Populärt inom Business & ekonomi

framgangspodden
varvet
badfluence
svd-ledarredaktionen
uppgang-och-fall
rss-borsens-finest
avanzapodden
lastbilspodden
fill-or-kill
rss-dagen-med-di
rss-kort-lang-analyspodden-fran-di
affarsvarlden
borsmorgon
rikatillsammans-om-privatekonomi-rikedom-i-livet
kapitalet-en-podd-om-ekonomi
tabberaset
dynastin
borslunch-2
market-makers
rss-inga-dumma-fragor-om-pengar