The Very Specific Dating Experience Women Keep Having

Is maternal instinct actually a myth? It's a question that's hitting close to home for so many women, whether you have children or not. We're diving into this one, and our conversation may surprise you.

Plus, the internet has gifted us some new vocabulary. 'Mankeeping', 'heterofatalism', 'hermeneutic labour' - fancy words that all translate to the same exhausting reality: what it's actually like to date men. Em Vernem's got the juicy dating stories to prove these terms exist for a reason.

And your weekend sorted with our latest recommendations: a mysterious new hobby that's got us intrigued, a genius hack for mastering new skills, and how to transform the most basic of vegetables into something actually delicious.

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Recommendations

Em recommends Blind Boxes at Pop Mart

Jessie recommends Carrots by Nagi and Jessie wants you to check out How Social Media Shortens Your Life

Holly recommends learning a language at Duolingo

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• It's not about housework. This is the real reason women are choosing to be single.
• Welcome to the world of mankeeping.
• '12 things no one told me about the first 12 weeks of motherhood.'
• We need to debrief about the first year of motherhood.
• New mums share the most cooked advice they were given... and wow.
• After the cookbook controversy, everyone's asking can a recipe be copyrighted?
• If you love RecipeTin Eats, here are 9 other cooks to follow on Instagram.

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