71) How to Stop Arguing About Parenting: Values, Goals, and "I" Statements with Dr Naomi
Dam Parenting23 Okt 2024

71) How to Stop Arguing About Parenting: Values, Goals, and "I" Statements with Dr Naomi

What happens when you and your partner stop parenting against each other and start parenting with each other? In this essential episode of Dam Parenting, Eva and Maren sit down with psychologist Dr. Naomi Gibson to explore the art of the "parenting team." Being a couple and being co-parents are two different skills, and often, the pressure of raising kids in a foreign country can drive a wedge between even the strongest partners.

Dr. Naomi shares warm, honest, and direct strategies to help you realign, including the power of "I" statements, avoiding the trap of "always" and "never," and how to divide the mental load based on strengths rather than outdated assumptions. We also discuss her "Stick Together" conversation cards—a practical tool designed to help you reconnect and rebuild emotional intimacy. If you’re tired of the "good cop, bad cop" routine, tune in to learn how to set shared values and show up for your children as a united front.


This episode also introduces Dr. Naomi’s 'Stick Together' conversation cards—a beautifully designed tool for partners to have open, honest conversations about parenting challenges, available online and at Monti's World in the Pijp.

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DAMChats 23) Our school preparations for our nearly school-age goers

DAMChats 23) Our school preparations for our nearly school-age goers

Welcome to Part 2 of our deep dive into the school process for our little ones starting in September. In Part 1, we talked about how we navigated the school search, dealt with the lottery system, and ...

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59) Raising Empowered Girls: How Project Fearless Builds Confidence and Leadership

59) Raising Empowered Girls: How Project Fearless Builds Confidence and Leadership

Raising a daughter to believe she can achieve anything is a transformative responsibility, but as girls hit their pre-teen years, research shows a sharp decline in confidence and sports participation....

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DamGoode Bookclub 3) Parenting with Neuroscience: Key Lessons from The Whole-Brain Child

DamGoode Bookclub 3) Parenting with Neuroscience: Key Lessons from The Whole-Brain Child

Why does your child suddenly "flip their lid," and how can you help them find calm? In this edition of the DamGoode Bookclub, Maren and Eva are joined by award-winning librarian and children’s literat...

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58) How to Reconnect with Yourself After Kids with Dr. Naomi Gibson

58) How to Reconnect with Yourself After Kids with Dr. Naomi Gibson

Parenthood is an uncharted journey, and as we take a short summer break, we’re bringing back the episode that helped so many of you feel truly seen. In this listener favorite, Eva and Maren sit down w...

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DAMChats 22) Ending the Bedtime Battle: How to Build a Routine That Actually Works with Zyanya

DAMChats 22) Ending the Bedtime Battle: How to Build a Routine That Actually Works with Zyanya

Is bedtime the most exhausting part of your day? You aren’t alone. In this highly requested replay, Eva and Maren sit down with Zyanya from ⁠Adapting to love⁠ to take a warm, honest, and direct look a...

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57) Multilingual Parenting Strategies: Helping Your Child Balance Dutch and Home Languages

57) Multilingual Parenting Strategies: Helping Your Child Balance Dutch and Home Languages

We’re taking a short summer break, but we couldn't leave you without revisiting one of our most-requested conversations. In this "Best of" episode, we’re back with Eowyn Crisfield from On Raising Bili...

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DAMChats 21) Revisiting DAM Housing

DAMChats 21) Revisiting DAM Housing

It’s holiday time, and Eva and Maren are taking a break, so we’re revisiting some of our most popular episodes—the ones that have resonated deeply with you, sparked connections, and offered words that...

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56) Revisiting Preparing for the Fourth Trimester: Expert Postpartum Insights and Advice

56) Revisiting Preparing for the Fourth Trimester: Expert Postpartum Insights and Advice

Parenthood is a beautiful, exhausting, and often overwhelming transition, especially when you’re navigating it far from home. In this fan-favorite encore episode, we welcome renowned postpartum doula ...

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